How far do you go on cheat days?

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  • Riddickcz
    Riddickcz Posts: 2
    There is no difference between cheat meal and cheat day.
    Definition of a cheat meal is any meal that pushes you above your desired daily caloric goal.

    If you are in caloric deficit its a meal that brings you to maintenance calories or in caloric surplus.
    If you are bulking and in caloric surplus to start with, its a meal that pushes you in a significant caloric surplus.
    If you are maintaining, its a meal that pushes you in caloric surplus.

    Either way, you are not achieving your caloric goal for the day, meaning its a cheat day. If you eat some pizza or burger or whatever "unheatlhy" (hate that term...) but manage to fit it in your caloric intake for the day, you just made your diet flexible, but didnt cheat because at the end of the day you still managed to hit your caloric goal for the day.

    Thats my few cents here.
  • Ortax
    Ortax Posts: 98
    I "cheat" on Saturdays by eating whatever I want and as much as I want. Yesterday I had some pizza, ice cream, and popcorn. I'm still losing weight by doing this because I'm in such a massive calorie deficit all 6 other days of the week. I'm down 24 lbs total (10 of which I lost from switching from regular coke to diet coke; the other 14 I've lost in about a month from cutting calories) I still need to lose 40 more lbs until I'm happy.
  • KateK8LoseW8
    KateK8LoseW8 Posts: 824 Member
    I used to do cheat days, and then I managed to develop bulimia. So no cheat days for me. Always between 1850-2300, dessert every day.
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    I view this whole logging thing as a lifestyle change. I log so I have the data I need to make decisions and hold myself accountable. "Cheating" gives too much power to food. Last night was the last weekend night my in-laws are in town, we went to the casino (didn't win) and had dinner at the buffet. I had no way to properly log this. I ate what I wanted, surprisingly my portions were on the small side and my choices were healthy except the slice of chocolate cake. I came home, logged it as a food, listed what I ate and put about 1000 calories. It may have been over that (most likely not...salmon, veggies, rice), why worry but I am also not going to do that often because I do not like wiping out any of my weeks works if I can help it. I think "cheat meals/days" are excuses to binge, if this is a sustainable change than eat what you want within your calories and if you go over life happens. When I was thin I just ate, sometimes a lot but other times barely anything and I never thought of weight, its how the week/month look not just a day.
  • shawmutt
    shawmutt Posts: 74 Member
    So far I can't have "cheat days" anymore :laugh: I stick with cheat meals. I'm trying to stick to being 90% good, which equates to about 9 cheat meals for the month.

    I have 1 left...
  • ohiotubagal
    ohiotubagal Posts: 190 Member
    I don't do cheat days or cheat meals. I usually eat out on Saturday and Sunday, but I don't think of it as "cheating" because then it would mean I'm dieting, which I'm not. I'm changing my lifestyle, so for me that means I can eat out when I choose, and then fit the food into my allotment for the day. If I allow myself to "diet" and "cheat", I set myself up for failure. That doesn't mean I don't occasionally go over, but I try not to.

    Yes! This is very well put and exactly how I have been approaching this process. In the past, I had "red light" foods and cheat meals/days...and it never worked out very well. One piece of wisdom I like to remember is "everything is permissible, but not everything is beneficial". Just knowing that I *can* eat whatever I like actually reduces the desire to overeat, at least for me.
  • I call it my treat day. I still workout b/c I don't want to break that habit... but I go over my calorie limit. If it's only for a day.... I don't see the problem with it. Just make sure you hope back on track the next day :)
  • dmenchac
    dmenchac Posts: 447 Member
    I have to agree with this. I call it my treat day. I still workout b/c I don't want to break that habit... but I go over my calorie limit. If it's only for a day.... I don't see the problem with it. Just make sure you hope back on track the next day :)

    Old thread. And the reason to not do it is because you can blow your entire week in one day.

    I can easily pound down 3500 calories over maintenance on a "cheat day" thus rendering all my hard work for the week completely useless.

    Have a cheat meal, not a day.
  • MaryGrace1965
    MaryGrace1965 Posts: 92 Member
    I do a cheat "meal", usually dinner, a week. My husband and I go out on Friday nights and I enjoy eating what I want but I try hard not to go to crazy. Ice cream is my downfall and that usually pushed me over.
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    I have never understood, the "Cheat" meal/day. For me I am logging to be mindful of my consumption, I have a daily, weekly calorie deficient that I prefer to maintain but if I go over, then I go over. It all evens out and even if I go over I have never went over maintenance a for the day or over my goal deficient for the week. I need to change things that started the last 3 years that caused my weight gain, being mindful of my actions helps keep be accountable. "Cheating" would imply an emotion and mean my diet (not "diet" but diet like intake) has a power over me. If I want a sustainable lifestyle change, I have to accept that there are days I eat more and days I eat less....logging gives me the tools to make informed decisions, like realizing having a milkshake with a meal I could not comprehend being over 1000 calories already would have been insane and not worth it, but that doesn't mean on a different day I don't have the milkshake on its own.

    No judgment to those that have cheat days, it seems it is an emotional break for some. Just for me cheating would be guilt and I refuse to have guilt for what I eat.
  • skinnyv3gan
    skinnyv3gan Posts: 4 Member
    I allow myself one "cheat day" a week. It works for me. I have no idea how many calories I eat on cheat day, nor do I care. I just know that it doesn't hinder my weigh loss and that's all the matters. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.
  • Whatfriendsr4
    Whatfriendsr4 Posts: 4 Member
    I usually do a cheat day on my weigh-in day (Monday) so that I have the whole next week to burn off any bad food that I had that day before my next weigh-in. Unfortunately for this week, my fridge broke and we haven't been able to keep ANY food in the house so we've been eating out all week waiting for the repairman to come :[ Needless to say...it has not been pleasant.

    I think it is a great idea to weigh yourself only once a week, then you have less pressure and stress. My binge day is usually Sunday but I try my best not to over do it. I am trying to get to the point where I don't eat very many sweets so on Sundays than I have a slice of homemade carrot cake or soda or something. I still try to avoid going over 1500-2000 calories on binge days and 1000-1200 on normal days. I try my best to always count my calories no matter what day it is.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    She lives 3.5 miles from me.
  • My "cheat moments" are just grabbing a bite of something tasty my hubby or son is eating. ONE slice of pizza. A very small portion of something I wouldn't normally eat. To me, "Cheating" is eating a salad with dressing on it lol. I have issues with anxiety and eating outside of plan triggers that. So I do better this way. I don't think there is a right or wrong way to cheat....just personal preference and whatever is sustainable long term for you personally.
  • riotatme23
    riotatme23 Posts: 56 Member
    I usually "cheat" a little everyday. Its usually something not really healthy for me but that still fits into my daily calorie count. I have 1550 Calories and usually only do about 1300 anyway, so the spare 200 is all mine. Sometimes a small iced coffee, sometimes a couple oreo's, sometimes an extra serving of pasta or whatever it is.I just recently started logging but I've been mentally tracking for a long time.

    I'm really teaching myself to appreciate food and value its flavors, textures, and how it makes me feel. Slowing down and appreciating a cookie for all it's sweetness is so much better to me a couple times a week than binging like a mad woman for a whole day.

    I am new on my journey so that may change, but for now I know I don't have it in me to run off the rail for a whole day and then hop back on the train so easily.
  • caracrawford1
    caracrawford1 Posts: 657 Member
    I do not have cheat days. Such an idea (for me) seems to imply a free for all where you just eat whatever possibly negating your weekly deficit. If you don't log such a day, it seems that it would invite more trouble. No checks on what you're eating. Just go all out? Now, this may work for you, or it may be that you are practicing this in a different manner than what I described. That's fine.
    Personally, if I want a special treat on a particular day, I prefer to simply fit it into my calories. That way i know I am always at a deficit and/or havnt negated a weekly deficit. And yes, I log it.
  • Sooo today, another bad day. I'm a female, 16 years old, 5 ft 2, and I weigh 94 lbs. I don't know how... and also dont ask me how I can eat all of this, i dont know, haha Anyways! Today:
    -strawberries
    -A HUGE omlet with cheddar, avocado, and broccoli, home fries, 3 pieces of sour dough bread with butter, and TONS of BBQ sauce and ketchup
    -3 large scoops of icecream
    -a 5 oz frozen yogurt
    -3 large m&m shop rite cookies
    -1 homemade chocolate chip cookie
    -A huge bowl of pasta carbonara
    -A slice of pepperoni pizza
    -4 slices of mozzarella pizza
    -A large bowl of corn chips and guacamole
    -3 more large m&m shop rite cookies
    -an oreo milk shake
    -a huge brownie from the diner with 2 scoops of vanilla icecream
    -a small bag of dark chocolate covered acai
    -a king sized bag of mini reeses
    -another m&m cookie
    -a bag of chex mix cookies and cream muddy buddies
    THE END :)
  • I honestly think I take my cheat days to another level. Seriously I don't understand how I can fit so much food in me. I have posted on her a lot before, I am a 16 year old, female, 5 ft 2, and 94 lbs, ANyways, on my sisters birthday(August 16th) this is what I ate.
    -plain bagel with cream cheese
    -2 big slices of cheesy egg casserole thing
    -lots of ketchup
    -a chocolate cookie from shop rite
    -3 slices of challah french toast
    -tons of maple syrup and I mean tons. My french toast was drowning
    -fruit
    -a big triangle slice of a large circle great american cookie cake
    -another big triangle slice of great american cookie cake
    -a crab cake
    -a medium butter pecan iced coffee from dunkin
    -another large slice of cookie cake
    -1 pork dumpling
    -piece of tuna pizza
    -fried tuna appetizer
    -rock shrimp tempura appetizer
    -15 pieces of sushi
    -a 12 oz frozen yogurt with yummy toppings
    -2 more large slices of cookie cake
    -a cinnamon raisin bagel with penut butter and jelly
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  • i normally have breakfast and then something i wouldn't normally allow myself like a cookie or a brownie and then i don't eat dinner nor lunch and do a good few workouts :)
  • scthomas100
    scthomas100 Posts: 31 Member
    I log "cheat days" to an extent. For example, for my boyfriend's birthday yesterday we went to Village Inn and also had a dinner made by his mom. I logged the pancakes, but I didn't bother trying to log homemade lasagna and German chocolate cake that I didn't make. When situations like that come up, it's easier on me mentally to plan for it during the week but not worry about counting the calories the day of, as long as I keep portions reasonable.