do you leave your diary open?
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Mine is public. I know that if I keep it hidden from everyone, there's a possibility I might indulge more than I should; leaving it public means people can see and judge my choices, and nobody likes to be judged, so I'm more likely to stay within my daily calorie allowance (although I'm getting over that feeling now and finding it easier not to binge for the satisfaction of my own self.) Also, if I ask for advice or something, I figure it'd be easier for people to offer if they know what a typical food day is like for me.
Plus, I thought it might be useful as a reference for someone else, maybe someone with the same dietary limitation as me, to get ideas for certain meals/snacks or whatever.0 -
Mine is public. I know that if I keep it hidden from everyone, there's a possibility I might indulge more than I should; leaving it public means people can see and judge my choices, and nobody likes to be judged, so I'm more likely to stay within my daily calorie allowance (although I'm getting over that feeling now and finding it easier not to binge for the satisfaction of my own self.) Also, if I ask for advice or something, I figure it'd be easier for people to offer if they know what a typical food day is like for me.
Plus, I thought it might be useful as a reference for someone else, maybe someone with the same dietary limitation as me, to get ideas for certain meals/snacks or whatever.
You will always be judged...:) I am not saying that's good or bad. Once open, people will feel entitled to comment/judge. I am very sensitive so I try to avoid to be in the poor position. good luck to you~
To me indulging or not is very obvious. It's all up to me how to handle it. :drinker:0 -
Yep, always open for everyone's viewing pleasure . I figure what good is it to not be publicly accountable (I have only a handful of MFP friends, I like it that way) for my food choices. And I know peeking at others' open diaries has been super helpful for me to get ideas and get a handle on how to log accurately and how the whole "eat back your calories" thing works (um, brilliantly, by the way, when done properly--I totally earned my McDonald's feast tonight--still under for the day--YAY!).
I thank ALL of you with open diaries and real life advice and inspiration. It has allowed me to NOT freak out about a couple of fast food burgers. That's NOT a binge--it's a REFUEL (ok--could've eaten my chicken breasts and broccoli and potato like a good girl, but I didn't wanna tonight).
Good, bad, ugly, "weird", veg*ns, carnivores, non standard eating schedules, whatever--open diaries certainly can and do help others tremendously.0 -
Mines private because honestly it's no ones business what I eat or how much. I log for me. I don't need strangers to keep me accountable. And it's not like my diary is going to inspire anyone.
But that's me.
If I were to ask for help on the forums with a food related or weight related question, then I would definitely open it to get advice but for now..I'm doing just fine.
However......I do enjoy looking at other's diaries. Because I'm kinda nosey. I freely admit it.0 -
Mine is open and I am very openly honest about everything I eat plus how I feel that day. I know if I was starting out weight loss again I'd like to see open diaries and real honest thoughts from others to help motivate and inspire me. It does make me feel more accountable but if I cheat or make a bad decision it hopefully only shows I am human. I've yet to be insulted about my diary but I've been insulted for losing weight period by friends so I feel impervious to strangers rude comments should they come my way.0
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I personally don't think keeping my diary open would make me more accountable in the least. If anything, I might be tempted to not log my poor choices so no prying eyes give me crap about it.
How honest is a person in, say, their personal journal if they know mom's going to read their personal thoughts later? Seems to me that having an audience is an incentive to create a decoy diary.0 -
Mine's open. I don't really see a reason for it not to be. What's going to happen? Someone going to take offense that I eat at Taco Bell and stalk me?0
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Mine used to be open to friends only but I recently made it public0
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I have mine totally open.
It was open to just my friends when I started. We all joined together so there's about 6 people I regularly hang out with that can see my diary. I know they look at it too cause we all spy on each other. It keeps me accountable cause I can't really lie on it cause I've usually eaten around at least one of them most days, and if I'm lying I won't lose weight so there's no point doing this at all.
I opened it to the public when I became a bit more active on the boards, just in case anyone was curious.
I did worry people were gonna think I was being rubbish at logging though cause most of the time I don't put spread on sandwiches, and I make porridge with just water and I've seen people get criticized for inaccurate logging when they don't put those things down. No one has though, so that's nice0 -
Open to friends. Agree with others that makes me more accountable - esp when I have a bad day but still force myself to log it all......
Also makes me think twice about pigging out completely or drinking a whole bottle of wine when I know others can see it - but I sometimes do it anyway!
Nothing against making it public but don't see why anyone else would be interested....0 -
I believe it's closed. I also use the food notes for my own notes about food, exercise, personal appts, whatever.
I might open it in the future, but to be honest, I've seen at least 2 people on the forums in my short time here use other people's diaries as a way to score points against them during some unrelated arguments.
That kind of thing doesn't make me feel open to the idea of being open.0 -
Mine is open. Let them talk *evil laughter*0
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Mine's open. Was interested to read lately that people who have open diaries and share them with their friends lose twice as much weight as those who don't, according to MFP.
http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/2014/05/myfitnesspal-ebook-the-rise-of-the-fitness-tribe/0 -
Mine is closed. As is everything I do on the internet, I proceed with extreme privacy. I don't look at others either, as I am accountable only to myself.
I have lost a ton of weight and have been maintaining, so it has worked for me. Everyone is different.0 -
Open to the world.0
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Mine is open to my friends...I believe that everyone should have an open diary - it helps in accountability, plus it gives your friends some ideas.0
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Mine is closed. Ultimately this is a very personal journey and I'm accountable to myself. I'm doing well with my approach, so do whatever works for you.
I've also been here over two years now if memory serves me right. I've seen too many people get unsupportive comments about what they eat. I don't mean on the forums. I mean on the newsfeed. And to people who don't have eating disorders. There are some self-appointed diary watchers who give unsolicited feedback. If you don't mind that then have an open diary. Some of us prefer to avoid that.0 -
Mine is open. I like it open so people can comment on it, give me suggestions on what to do better etc... but, it seems like this whole weight loss thing is pretty straight forward.0
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Mine is always open... I really dgaf what other people think of my eating.0
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Open! People who have nothing to hide hide nothing.0
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Mine's open. Was interested to read lately that people who have open diaries and share them with their friends lose twice as much weight as those who don't, according to MFP.
http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/2014/05/myfitnesspal-ebook-the-rise-of-the-fitness-tribe/
Eh, this is true. Or they cherry-picked the data. *Shrugs*.
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Mine is open. It keeps me accountable( a little ) . Whats weird is when mine was closed I was dishonest with myself but since it's opened I have been honest. A lot of my friends have open diaries too and when I see one day they'll go over but they'll post it anyway... it makes me think okay a little red is not the end of the world.... and it's not just me struggling.
also when I find something that works I tend to get in a rut... and only eat that so open diaries let me see other ideas.0 -
Open! People who have nothing to hide hide nothing.
Regardless of what anyone lists in their diary and regardless of whether it's private or open, the body keeps a very accurate record of what it's been fed. You can't hide anything from it. :laugh:0 -
^^^^^ This!0
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I keep mine open. TBH I don't understand the point of closing it.0
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Open to my friends, not that I think any of them care what I eat. If I were to ask a question about weight loss or diet on the boards, I would make it public so people could answer. I don't look at other people's diaries unless they are asking a question. Unless you are a badass, then I might creep it for inspiration and to get jealous of how many calories you get to eat.0
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Open! People who have nothing to hide hide nothing.
Regardless of what anyone lists in their diary and regardless of whether it's private or open, the body keeps a very accurate record of what it's been fed. You can't hide anything from it. :laugh:
Ha! Nailed it!
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Open to my friends, not that I think any of them care what I eat. If I were to ask a question about weight loss or diet on the boards, I would make it public so people could answer. I don't look at other people's diaries unless they are asking a question. Unless you are a badass, then I might creep it for inspiration and to get jealous of how many calories you get to eat.
Totally this. I don't look at other people's even they ask for suggestion because I don't think I have much to contribute.0 -
Closed. Have gone back and forth on this.
If I was struggling to lose weight and asking questions about what I eat, ok.
But I am fine with my progress.
So in turn. No need.0 -
Open for everyone's reading pleasure and amusement. Pretty boring though as I have found the approximate balance and what works for me and my lifestyle and doesn't really change that much day to day.0
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