do you leave your diary open?

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  • SteampunkSongbird
    SteampunkSongbird Posts: 826 Member
    Mine is public. I know that if I keep it hidden from everyone, there's a possibility I might indulge more than I should; leaving it public means people can see and judge my choices, and nobody likes to be judged, so I'm more likely to stay within my daily calorie allowance (although I'm getting over that feeling now and finding it easier not to binge for the satisfaction of my own self.) Also, if I ask for advice or something, I figure it'd be easier for people to offer if they know what a typical food day is like for me.

    Plus, I thought it might be useful as a reference for someone else, maybe someone with the same dietary limitation as me, to get ideas for certain meals/snacks or whatever.
  • albayin
    albayin Posts: 2,524 Member
    Mine is public. I know that if I keep it hidden from everyone, there's a possibility I might indulge more than I should; leaving it public means people can see and judge my choices, and nobody likes to be judged, so I'm more likely to stay within my daily calorie allowance (although I'm getting over that feeling now and finding it easier not to binge for the satisfaction of my own self.) Also, if I ask for advice or something, I figure it'd be easier for people to offer if they know what a typical food day is like for me.

    Plus, I thought it might be useful as a reference for someone else, maybe someone with the same dietary limitation as me, to get ideas for certain meals/snacks or whatever.

    You will always be judged...:) I am not saying that's good or bad. Once open, people will feel entitled to comment/judge. I am very sensitive so I try to avoid to be in the poor position. :) good luck to you~

    To me indulging or not is very obvious. It's all up to me how to handle it. :drinker:
  • williams969
    williams969 Posts: 2,528 Member
    Yep, always open for everyone's viewing pleasure :tongue:. I figure what good is it to not be publicly accountable (I have only a handful of MFP friends, I like it that way) for my food choices. And I know peeking at others' open diaries has been super helpful for me to get ideas and get a handle on how to log accurately and how the whole "eat back your calories" thing works (um, brilliantly, by the way, when done properly--I totally earned my McDonald's feast tonight--still under for the day--YAY!).

    I thank ALL of you with open diaries and real life advice and inspiration. It has allowed me to NOT freak out about a couple of fast food burgers. That's NOT a binge--it's a REFUEL (ok--could've eaten my chicken breasts and broccoli and potato like a good girl, but I didn't wanna tonight).

    Good, bad, ugly, "weird", veg*ns, carnivores, non standard eating schedules, whatever--open diaries certainly can and do help others tremendously.
  • LifeWithPie
    LifeWithPie Posts: 552 Member
    Mines private because honestly it's no ones business what I eat or how much. I log for me. I don't need strangers to keep me accountable. And it's not like my diary is going to inspire anyone.

    But that's me.
    If I were to ask for help on the forums with a food related or weight related question, then I would definitely open it to get advice but for now..I'm doing just fine.

    However......I do enjoy looking at other's diaries. Because I'm kinda nosey. I freely admit it.
  • Goldilukes
    Goldilukes Posts: 45 Member
    Mine is open and I am very openly honest about everything I eat plus how I feel that day. I know if I was starting out weight loss again I'd like to see open diaries and real honest thoughts from others to help motivate and inspire me. It does make me feel more accountable but if I cheat or make a bad decision it hopefully only shows I am human. I've yet to be insulted about my diary but I've been insulted for losing weight period by friends so I feel impervious to strangers rude comments should they come my way.
  • Lourdesong
    Lourdesong Posts: 1,492 Member
    I personally don't think keeping my diary open would make me more accountable in the least. If anything, I might be tempted to not log my poor choices so no prying eyes give me crap about it.

    How honest is a person in, say, their personal journal if they know mom's going to read their personal thoughts later? Seems to me that having an audience is an incentive to create a decoy diary.
  • fredgiblet
    fredgiblet Posts: 241 Member
    Mine's open. I don't really see a reason for it not to be. What's going to happen? Someone going to take offense that I eat at Taco Bell and stalk me?
  • kethry70
    kethry70 Posts: 404 Member
    Mine used to be open to friends only but I recently made it public :smile:
  • 12pillows
    12pillows Posts: 81 Member
    I have mine totally open.
    It was open to just my friends when I started. We all joined together so there's about 6 people I regularly hang out with that can see my diary. I know they look at it too cause we all spy on each other. It keeps me accountable cause I can't really lie on it cause I've usually eaten around at least one of them most days, and if I'm lying I won't lose weight so there's no point doing this at all.

    I opened it to the public when I became a bit more active on the boards, just in case anyone was curious.
    I did worry people were gonna think I was being rubbish at logging though cause most of the time I don't put spread on sandwiches, and I make porridge with just water and I've seen people get criticized for inaccurate logging when they don't put those things down. No one has though, so that's nice :D
  • mullycathNZ
    mullycathNZ Posts: 64 Member
    Open to friends. Agree with others that makes me more accountable - esp when I have a bad day but still force myself to log it all......

    Also makes me think twice about pigging out completely or drinking a whole bottle of wine when I know others can see it - but I sometimes do it anyway!

    Nothing against making it public but don't see why anyone else would be interested....
  • paulawatkins1974
    paulawatkins1974 Posts: 720 Member
    I believe it's closed. I also use the food notes for my own notes about food, exercise, personal appts, whatever.

    I might open it in the future, but to be honest, I've seen at least 2 people on the forums in my short time here use other people's diaries as a way to score points against them during some unrelated arguments.

    That kind of thing doesn't make me feel open to the idea of being open.
    I've seen this too. There was a lady who kept calling another lady "Fruit loop eater" It was so stupid. I might add the "fruit loop eater" had met her goal and was drop dead gorgeous. Mine's open to friends.
  • SugaryLynx
    SugaryLynx Posts: 2,640 Member
    Mine is open. Let them talk *evil laughter*
  • paulawatkins1974
    paulawatkins1974 Posts: 720 Member
    Mine's open. Was interested to read lately that people who have open diaries and share them with their friends lose twice as much weight as those who don't, according to MFP.

    http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/2014/05/myfitnesspal-ebook-the-rise-of-the-fitness-tribe/
    Or they lie lol
  • eileen0515
    eileen0515 Posts: 408 Member
    Mine is closed. As is everything I do on the internet, I proceed with extreme privacy. I don't look at others either, as I am accountable only to myself.

    I have lost a ton of weight and have been maintaining, so it has worked for me. Everyone is different.
  • ddixon503
    ddixon503 Posts: 119 Member
    Open to the world.
  • simplydelish2
    simplydelish2 Posts: 726 Member
    Mine is open to my friends...I believe that everyone should have an open diary - it helps in accountability, plus it gives your friends some ideas.
  • Booksandbeaches
    Booksandbeaches Posts: 1,791 Member
    Mine is closed. Ultimately this is a very personal journey and I'm accountable to myself. I'm doing well with my approach, so do whatever works for you.

    I've also been here over two years now if memory serves me right. I've seen too many people get unsupportive comments about what they eat. I don't mean on the forums. I mean on the newsfeed. And to people who don't have eating disorders. There are some self-appointed diary watchers who give unsolicited feedback. If you don't mind that then have an open diary. Some of us prefer to avoid that.
  • krawhitham
    krawhitham Posts: 831 Member
    Mine is open. I like it open so people can comment on it, give me suggestions on what to do better etc... but, it seems like this whole weight loss thing is pretty straight forward.
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Mine is always open... I really dgaf what other people think of my eating.
  • jenmom2myboys
    jenmom2myboys Posts: 311 Member
    Open! People who have nothing to hide hide nothing.
  • Froody2
    Froody2 Posts: 338 Member
    Mine's open. Was interested to read lately that people who have open diaries and share them with their friends lose twice as much weight as those who don't, according to MFP.

    http://blog.myfitnesspal.com/2014/05/myfitnesspal-ebook-the-rise-of-the-fitness-tribe/
    Or they lie lol

    Eh, this is true. Or they cherry-picked the data. *Shrugs*.



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  • Nt2Badhuh
    Nt2Badhuh Posts: 107 Member
    Mine is open. It keeps me accountable( a little ) . Whats weird is when mine was closed I was dishonest with myself but since it's opened I have been honest. A lot of my friends have open diaries too and when I see one day they'll go over but they'll post it anyway... it makes me think okay a little red is not the end of the world.... and it's not just me struggling.


    also when I find something that works I tend to get in a rut... and only eat that so open diaries let me see other ideas.
  • Booksandbeaches
    Booksandbeaches Posts: 1,791 Member
    Open! People who have nothing to hide hide nothing.

    Regardless of what anyone lists in their diary and regardless of whether it's private or open, the body keeps a very accurate record of what it's been fed. You can't hide anything from it. :laugh:
  • MonaLisaLianne
    MonaLisaLianne Posts: 398 Member
    ^^^^^ This!
  • davert123
    davert123 Posts: 1,568 Member
    I keep mine open. TBH I don't understand the point of closing it.
  • kgeyser
    kgeyser Posts: 22,505 Member
    Open to my friends, not that I think any of them care what I eat. If I were to ask a question about weight loss or diet on the boards, I would make it public so people could answer. I don't look at other people's diaries unless they are asking a question. Unless you are a badass, then I might creep it for inspiration and to get jealous of how many calories you get to eat.
  • Froody2
    Froody2 Posts: 338 Member
    Open! People who have nothing to hide hide nothing.

    Regardless of what anyone lists in their diary and regardless of whether it's private or open, the body keeps a very accurate record of what it's been fed. You can't hide anything from it. :laugh:

    Ha! Nailed it!


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  • albayin
    albayin Posts: 2,524 Member
    Open to my friends, not that I think any of them care what I eat. If I were to ask a question about weight loss or diet on the boards, I would make it public so people could answer. I don't look at other people's diaries unless they are asking a question. Unless you are a badass, then I might creep it for inspiration and to get jealous of how many calories you get to eat.

    Totally this. I don't look at other people's even they ask for suggestion because I don't think I have much to contribute.
  • pita7317
    pita7317 Posts: 1,437 Member
    Closed. Have gone back and forth on this.
    If I was struggling to lose weight and asking questions about what I eat, ok.
    But I am fine with my progress.
    So in turn. No need. :)
  • BillRicks1
    BillRicks1 Posts: 473 Member
    Open for everyone's reading pleasure and amusement. Pretty boring though as I have found the approximate balance and what works for me and my lifestyle and doesn't really change that much day to day.