Finding an Exercise Partner/Buddy/Pal/Comrade/Ally/Colleague

MrTolerable
MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
in Motivation and Support
How did you go about finding an exercise partner?

Typically I try to work with the girl I'm dating my exercise partner to get some foreplay action going, but I never date the same person unfortunately in excess of two-three weeks.

Any idea on the best way to find someone, preferably a guy actually so the person sticks around-with similar build and goals to share to motivate and get motivated from on the workout experience?
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  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I go to the gym. I look for people who are lifting solo who lift almost as much or more than me and have decent form.
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    Tinder.
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    I go to the gym. I look for people who are lifting solo who lift almost as much or more than me and have decent form.

    I guess I'm talking more than the gym life, cause I do have that already -I'm talking like partner - trail runs, hikes, swimming - I do a great deal of activities to maintain the body.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Tinder.

    I keep hearing about this tinder but don't know much about it. Would you suggest it for me to find a good workout partner?
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
    MFP



    also... what happened to the brazilian?
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I go to the gym. I look for people who are lifting solo who lift almost as much or more than me and have decent form.

    I guess I'm talking more than the gym life, cause I do have that already -I'm talking like partner - trail runs, hikes, swimming - I do a great deal of activities to maintain the body.

    get a dog. Less maintenance
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    Tinder.

    I keep hearing about this tinder but don't know much about it. Would you suggest it for me to find a good workout partner?

    Only if you want cardio or so I've heard.
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    Tinder.
    :noway:


    I just said I have done that with tons and tons of people but I never am around for over two to three weeks and neither are they.. its da tinder way.
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    MFP



    also... what happened to the brazilian?

    ^she dumped me...it was my fault I still have a little more growing up to do. - we are on good terms and everything tho.. :embarassed:

    I'm talking to a few new ladies now, one is a former run-way model that just got back to the states, and the other does modeling as well.. not a former run-way model, but she is a QT 3.14 and has the sexxy hair. ;)

    4 years younger then me tho...

    but as I said I really should find a workout buddy - girls I have other things going on with tend to be only around temporarily....
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    get a dog. Less maintenance

    Poop duty, no thank you.
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
    What makes you think your new guy "workout buddy" won't want a commitment of longer than two or three weeks? Fidelity has no gender!
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  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    grindr
  • EddieHaskell97
    EddieHaskell97 Posts: 2,227 Member
    I try to make the girl I'm dating

    Oh, Grasshopper... :no:
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    -brags about the number of ladies he picks up

    -unable to keep one around

    Speaks volumes.
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    -brags about the number of ladies he picks up

    -unable to keep one around

    Speaks volumes.

    ummm... "unable to keep one around"
    :noway:
    da faq bro...? She was a former run-way model from Brazil, super active with the sexy cute vibe going on simultaneously... I dated her exclusively for a lil-bit and had a great time and learned a lot, and it ended as okish 'friends'..
    it's much more comprehensive then simply not keeping one around.. she is a lady so I respected her decision. I only want the very very best to stick around, and only will stick around if the girl is better than me, because being incredible myself I'm not willing to settle for anything less than whats my view of the ideal individual. If I wanted some average chick, then I could have them stick around easy.

    jeez man.
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    How did you go about finding an exercise partner?

    Typically I try to make the girl I'm dating my exercise partner to get some foreplay action going, but I never date the same person unfortunately in excess of two-three weeks.

    Any idea on the best way to find someone, preferably a guy actually so the person sticks around-with similar build and goals to share to motivate and get motivated from on the workout experience?

    Since you can't maintain a relationship longer than 2-3 weeks, I would suggest you stop focusing on women and instead focus on yourself because you clearly aren't ready or even capable of a relationship... seeing as you switch girls as often as I change my panties and all you do is brag about the "models" you date. Newsflash: looks only go so far.
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  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    -brags about the number of ladies he picks up

    -unable to keep one around

    Speaks volumes.

    ummm... "unable to keep one around"
    :noway:
    da faq bro...? She was a former run-way model from Brazil, super active with the sexy cute vibe going on simultaneously... I dated her exclusively for a lil-bit and had a great time and learned a lot, and it ended as okish 'friends'..
    it's much more comprehensive then simply not keeping one around.. she is a lady so I respected her decision. I only want the very very best to stick around, and only will stick around if the girl is better than me, because being incredible myself I'm not willing to settle for anything less than whats my view of the ideal individual. If I wanted some average chick, then I could have them stick around easy.

    jeez man.

    Humbleness goes a long way. You should try it.
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
    MFP



    also... what happened to the brazilian?

    ^she dumped me...it was my fault I still have a little more growing up to do. - we are on good terms and everything tho.. :embarassed:

    I'm talking to a few new ladies now, one is a former run-way model that just got back to the states, and the other does modeling as well.. not a former run-way model, but she is a QT 3.14 and has the sexxy hair. ;)

    4 years younger then me tho...

    but as I said I really should find a workout buddy - girls I have other things going on with tend to be only around temporarily....

    sorry to hear that brah. it might be good to find someone with similar interests, but you really should stay focused on one thing at a time. you are all over the place and consistency is a good thing.
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  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    How did you go about finding an exercise partner?

    Typically I try to make the girl I'm dating my exercise partner to get some foreplay action going, but I never date the same person unfortunately in excess of two-three weeks.

    Any idea on the best way to find someone, preferably a guy actually so the person sticks around-with similar build and goals to share to motivate and get motivated from on the workout experience?

    Since you can't maintain a relationship longer than 2-3 weeks, I would suggest you stop focusing on women and instead focus on yourself because you clearly aren't ready or even capable of a relationship... seeing as you switch girls as often as I change my panties and all you do is brag about the "models" you date. Newsflash: looks only go so far.

    yeah I'm not even arguing - totally agree - even that at this moment I'm not capable of a relationship - sure I need to grow up a bunch - I'm working on it.

    And I know looks only go so far, I'm really working on developing and enhancing my character as well.

    OP bash fest 'up in here'?
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    I'm somewhat surprised at the number of single models in Reading, Pennsylvania. It's almost like...nah.. I can't even say it.

    yeah there are none. Philadelphia my friend, manayunk, Conshy, my word man. - da faq is with your attitudde?
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    I try to make the girl I'm dating

    Oh, Grasshopper... :no:

    ^word thanks, that was a n00b move. edited.
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    grindr

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    I will check out grindr - never heard of it.
  • IPAkiller
    IPAkiller Posts: 711 Member
    Typically I try to work with the girl I'm dating my exercise partner to get some foreplay action going, but I never date the same person unfortunately in excess of two-three weeks.

    Any idea on the best way to find someone, preferably a guy actually so the person sticks around-with similar build and goals to share to motivate and get motivated from on the workout experience?
    You could just date dudes...
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  • greeneyes0809
    greeneyes0809 Posts: 422 Member
    grindr

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    I will check out grindr - never heard of it.

    LOL
  • McCluskey1128
    McCluskey1128 Posts: 88 Member
    I'm somewhat surprised at the number of single models in Reading, Pennsylvania. It's almost like...nah.. I can't even say it.
    Yup!
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    grindr

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    I will check out grindr - never heard of it.


    I haven't used it but I have a cousin who swears by it.
  • JesChernosky
    JesChernosky Posts: 37 Member
    I find it best to stay motivated if I don't work out with my husband. He and I have different workout styles and different needs. If I go to the gym with him we split up as soon as we hit the door and usually don't see each other until we're ready to leave. I find people in my social group who want to go with me. Mondays and Wednesdays I go to the gym with my friend after work. Saturdays I workout by myself and Sunday mornings I meet my grandma and mom to workout. We've also met people at the gym recently that I may hit up as a workout buddy. I do suggest someone of the same sex that will keep you competitive and motivated.

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