Flirting with average looking girls vs. above average girls

bloodyhonest · June 2014

Which do you think occurs more often?

I have seen a lot of threads about flirting and I have noticed that there are a lot of average looking girls complaining about how they are being hit on etc

I have asked two of my lady friends how often they are being hit on and I got two different responses. One said it happens frequently, while the other one said that it hardly happens at all. But what surprised me was the fact that the Hottie said it hardly happens. My other friend is cute, but she wouldn't stand out in a crowd as much as the other one, BUT, she is more sociable, so that might be the reason why?

Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?

sissiluv · June 2014

I'd put my vote on intimidation/'they're out of my league I've got no chance' factors.

wheird · June 2014

I say go all in or gtfo of the game

Beautiful_disaster40 · June 2014

Never happens to me

bd0027 · June 2014

I'd say it has a lot to do with personality. I'm average but I'm sarcastic with most men that I meet and for some odd reason they like it, so I get hit on quite a bit. An awesome personality works wonders.

wheird · June 2014

Which do you think occurs more often?

I have seen a lot of threads about flirting and I have noticed that there are a lot of average looking girls complaining about how they are being hit on etc

I have asked two of my lady friends how often they are being hit on and I got two different responses. One said it happens frequently, while the other one said that it hardly happens at all. But what surprised me was the fact that the Hottie said it hardly happens. My other friend is cute, but she wouldn't stand out in a crowd as much as the other one, BUT, she is more sociable, so that might be the reason why?

Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?

It is likely becausd she has a better personality. That is as important or even more important than looks.

SugarBaby71 · June 2014

Which do you think occurs more often?

I have seen a lot of threads about flirting and I have noticed that there are a lot of average looking girls complaining about how they are being hit on etc

I have asked two of my lady friends how often they are being hit on and I got two different responses. One said it happens frequently, while the other one said that it hardly happens at all. But what surprised me was the fact that the Hottie said it hardly happens. My other friend is cute, but she wouldn't stand out in a crowd as much as the other one, BUT, she is more sociable, so that might be the reason why?

Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?

It is likely becausd she has a better personality. That is as important or even more important than looks.

This is EXACTLY what I was going to say. Either it's that or how much T & A she displays.

bd0027 · June 2014

Which do you think occurs more often?

I have seen a lot of threads about flirting and I have noticed that there are a lot of average looking girls complaining about how they are being hit on etc

I have asked two of my lady friends how often they are being hit on and I got two different responses. One said it happens frequently, while the other one said that it hardly happens at all. But what surprised me was the fact that the Hottie said it hardly happens. My other friend is cute, but she wouldn't stand out in a crowd as much as the other one, BUT, she is more sociable, so that might be the reason why?

Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?

It is likely becausd she has a better personality. That is as important or even more important than looks.

This is EXACTLY what I was going to say. Either it's that or how much T & A she displays.

The T & A part is definitely true.

vjohn04 · June 2014

I would say it does have to do with personality --- or exuding the air that they're approachable or not.

wheird · June 2014

Which do you think occurs more often?

I have seen a lot of threads about flirting and I have noticed that there are a lot of average looking girls complaining about how they are being hit on etc

I have asked two of my lady friends how often they are being hit on and I got two different responses. One said it happens frequently, while the other one said that it hardly happens at all. But what surprised me was the fact that the Hottie said it hardly happens. My other friend is cute, but she wouldn't stand out in a crowd as much as the other one, BUT, she is more sociable, so that might be the reason why?

Or maybe guys flirt within their league? What is going on?

It is likely becausd she has a better personality. That is as important or even more important than looks.

This is EXACTLY what I was going to say. Either it's that or how much T & A she displays.

I dont think T&A have much to do with it, tbh.

BinaryPulsar · June 2014

I would think there are many different factors that results in whether or not someone attracts other people. Various factors relating to looks, personality, how intelligence is expressed, warmth, smiles, body movement, eye contact, listening. Different people are attracted to different things and to the feelings that get brought up in them when they see or interact with someone.

rexroars · June 2014

I think a lot of it depends on location... I mean if you're in a big city or at a bar, girls get cat called or hit on all the time. I get hit on all the time (I work downtown, and am young and go out to bars sometimes) but so do my super hot friends. Maybe some hot girls are just better at putting on mean faces? Because they're more confident. That's something I wish I could do lol

mxmkenney · June 2014

I think some guys might be intimidated by a very attractive female, but others don't give it a second thought and go for it.

You said your cute but ordinary friend is very social, which is my guess as to why she gets hit on more. If she is putting herself out there, then guys are going to respond. If the hottie is sending the vibe she is not interested then that might detour a lot of guys. I think personality has a lot to do with it. Fun, outgoing girls are going to get hit on regardless of how "hot" they are.

prettyfitchick · June 2014

maybe it has to do with being approachable. To be honest guys never flirt with me had to go talk to them in club and bar setting but every guy in town would tell my friend I was with that they liked me thought I was cute or what not idk

kcmcd · June 2014

And the "hottie" could just have no idea. I never knew when guys were hitting on me. I'd be filled in by others after the fact, and it was always news to me. I probably still wouldn't recognize it, were it to happen. Flirting is not a skill I have. I just always assumed people are trying to be friendly and nothing more.