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is it possible to get a girl friend even tho im fat ?

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  • Posts: 1,469 Member
    :laugh:
    This is what I was thinking about people that mentioned admiring celebs.

    Yeah, no. Not for me. :laugh: :indifferent:
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    Dressing the proper way could mean anything. It depends on what your looking for and where. That also brings me to another point. You don't wear a suit at a gun show and you don't wear work clothes to church. It just depends on the situation.
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    What has fat got to do with it?

    My partner is a bit on the chubby side (but he's tall too), he could certainly do with some vegetables in his diet and a good smashing in the weights room 3 times a week, but you know what, he's not into it. However, he is the most wonderful man I've ever met - so *shrugs* I just love him anyway...
  • all im looking for in a girl is that she is happy and fun to be around ( this is a legit post please no hate )

    Yes, yes, YES!!! I've had a crush on a big guy for years. Also, my last boyfriend is overweight and I think he's really good looking. As someone mentioned before, the girl doesn't want to hear you complain about your weight. Just keep that in mind. If they like you, they like you for who you are. If you're losing weight, that's just extra. Just be confident. Confidence is all you need. Good luck!! I know you'll get a girlfriend in no time. :)
  • Posts: 4,222 Member
    Yes.

    But don't be like Herkmeoff and ignore a girls text messages because it usually pisses them off. :wink:

    :laugh:
  • Posts: 470 Member
    Here's the deal...It don't matter if your large or thin. If your a good person, respectful, act like a gentleman, honest, and be yourself - than you will find a girlfriend and keep her. You are young, make your life what you want of it because you get one chance and the rest will fall into place. Be patient, she will come. Good luck! =)
  • Posts: 823 Member
    I'm 265 in my profile pic and that is my gf with me.

    Teach me.
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    Teach me.
    Be yourself is all you need to know. Soon as you start being someone you're not, it all goes downhill.
  • Posts: 3,271 Member
    Pretty much had girlfriends from 224 all the way up to 284 (well one was a wife at that point), so yeah.
  • When I was bigger, I didn't have a boyfriend. ...
    Lost about 20lbs and still no bf! So its not about weight, for me its an awesome sense of humor and height..:love:
  • Posts: 35,719 Member
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    my opinion:
    if you brush your teeth, shower, aren't an *kitten*, have manners, and be yourself(as long as "yourself" isn't a complete d-bag), then i think you're set. You'll find someone.
  • Posts: 915 Member

    Teach me.

    this^
  • umm.. well depends!
  • Posts: 53 Member
    Of course! It makes me sad you even felt you had to ask this. Be nice, never feel entitled to anything of hers, and shine your personality through (well, unfortunately some people's personalities are rude and jerkish, so don't be that). The right one won't care about fat or anything else, really.
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    all im looking for in a girl is that she is happy and fun to be around ( this is a legit post please no hate )

    NOT hating but your page says you are 18 and want to lose 14 lbs in 30 days.... that's a little crazy

    but to answer your question, yes, it has nothing to do with that.


    i agree with this ---

    " myopinion:
    if you brush your teeth, shower, aren't an *kitten*, have manners, and be yourself(as long as "yourself" isn't a complete d-bag), then i think you're set. You'll find someone. "
  • Posts: 2,407 Member
    Of course it is possible. Even while I was thinner, I was still always attracted to bigger guys. LOVE Big Hairy Bellies!! haha
  • Posts: 3,194 Member
    Teddy Bears, yes
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    My husband was obese when we started dating, and I was a healthy weight. Just don't pull her in to your bad habits! (Now I'm struggling to get back to that healthy weight....)
  • Posts: 2,407 Member

    Wtf? Haha .. wow.. what?!

    Oooooh no...I think its that time of the month where there will be a ton of "TOM" Threads pop up on an hourly basis.
  • Posts: 2,793 Member
    This is a stupid question. Of course!

    *Edited for spelling
  • Posts: 6,990 Member
    My uncle always had a girlfriend and he was always fat. He had skinny girlfriends too.
  • Posts: 15,267 Member
    I got a hot BF when I was fat...he even married me...so yah it's possible to find a great partner at any weight...

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    note hottie in my profile pic...
  • Posts: 785 Member
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    320lbs, has hot gf.

    It can be done! *glitter shower*

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface
  • Posts: 870 Member
    Yup. My boyfriend's a fat dude and we've been together almost 6 years.
  • Posts: 7,963 Member

    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface

    Dont worry, there was a kilt shaming incident a few weeks back so who knows of she and I can move past that
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    Darn I've been creeping on you I was hoping you didnt have a gf. Sadface

    Yeah, me too. But hes too small for me, I was going for a quarter tonner....
  • Posts: 810 Member

    Dont worry, there was a kilt shaming incident a few weeks back so who knows of she and I can move past that

    the kilt shaming is secondary to you hitting on my sister. we are supposed to be prioritizing our issues. :angry:
  • Posts: 1,373 Member

    the kilt shaming is secondary to you hitting on my sister. we are supposed to be prioritizing our issues. :angry:

    I call dibs if the kilt shaming and sister flirting sends your relationship into hellfire! :drinker:
  • Posts: 810 Member

    I call dibs if the kilt shaming and sister flirting sends your relationship into hellfire! :drinker:

    which one of us are you calling dibs on? (pls let it be me)
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