is it possible to get a girl friend even tho im fat ?
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which one of us are you calling dibs on? (pls let it be me)
I am deliberately remaining ambiguous. I can figure out which is more of a trainwreck and more likely to take me. :flowerforyou:0 -
Yeah, me too. But hes too small for me, I was going for a quarter tonner....
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I'm hopeful someone will look my way some day.0
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There is such a thing as a chubby chaser. My current and previous boyfriend have both been over 300 lbs at some point.0
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I call dibs on Rachael!0
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I call dibs if the kilt shaming and sister flirting sends your relationship into hellfire! :drinker:
get in line. I'm next up for both of them.
ETA: Oh, yeah OP. No. Just give up now.0 -
Yes, it's possible.0
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Wow really, like who are you to judge that his face doesn't look like he weighs 320 pounds? Like why does it matter? My face deff doesn't look like the weight that I weigh either... Like we don't have anything better to do with our time than judge people by what they post?
Wow, you like really used the word like a lot to like get you point across.0 -
get in line. I'm next up for both of them.
ETA: Oh, yeah OP. No. Just give up now.
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my opinion:
if you brush your teeth, shower, aren't an *kitten*, have manners, and be yourself(as long as "yourself" isn't a complete d-bag), then i think you're set. You'll find someone.
This.
Yes, OP, it is definitely possible.0 -
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I love this thread. This is making my day so much better.0
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282lbs. Haz GF who.. isn't 282lbs.0
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Yes it is! A good personality and being able to make someone laugh are the most attractive qualities of all - be positive about yourself and about life and best of luck!!0
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Omg. i just died laughing.
The female versions of these really piss me off.
And to the OP, yes. Personality > Weight0 -
282lbs. Haz GF who.. isn't 282lbs.
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Plenty of girls like a bigger guy or look beyond that. Being confident has much more to do with it.
A friend of mine who is in my opinion regular sized and pretty, always has a "larger" boyfriend. I don't think that's what she looks for but these guys are always very nice and treat her very well.
Can't speak of personal experience because my husband is not that big. I'm more concerned about his health than his looks although I think he looks great.
Ones you find the right girl she'll think you're awesome no matter what you weigh, be it 400lb or 150lb0 -
Its about the personality... not what youre housed in! Besides, youre working on losing the weight and your confidence will increase as your weight decreases.. never settle and dont listen to these bi tches that tell you you have to have a fat chick just because youre still not as healthy as youd like to be!
Kuddos to just doing you my friend, stay happy and dont let people bring you down! :flowerforyou:0 -
282lbs. Haz GF who.. isn't 282lbs.
Not that there is anything wrong with a 282 lb gf, right?0 -
Literally doubling the chances. It's basic numbers at this point.
I think you all mean bi.
Either that or you're really bad at basic numbers.
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No, not one single overweight person is in a relationship. It just doesn't happen.0
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haha seriously!Wait, why is everyone upset that some dude said another dude didn't look his weight? lol. I get that all the time and I'm flattered.0 -
my ex is 330, so yes, its possible.0
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Love my plus sized guy
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@Sexystef Oh my goodness I have seen you post in the forums for so long and I just visited your profile for the first time. Incredible transformation! Also, from your profile pic I always assumed you were like 20.I got a hot BF when I was fat...he even married me...so yah it's possible to find a great partner at any weight...
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note hottie in my profile pic...0 -
haha seriously!
I didnt even find it offensive. In fact it was a bit flattering.0 -
I had a girl, then married her all while floating above 280 and going up to my highest of 340.
Divorced now but had a very good looking (hell she was just rediculously cute) girl while I was even around 240 and she was maybe 110? She was only about 5'4.
Single now unfortunately, but relationships aren't always based on looks, there are many other things that go into play. If it's only based on looks then it's not a real relationship in my opinion.0 -
I think this has been the best MFP thread I've followed..... Now I'm curious about the kilt shaming incident lol0
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No, just pointing out there's quite a difference between us - ala the weight isn't important or contributory.
Not that there is anything wrong with a 282 lb gf, right?0 -
Wow really, like who are you to judge that his face doesn't look like he weighs 320 pounds? Like why does it matter? My face deff doesn't look like the weight that I weigh either... Like we don't have anything better to do with our time than judge people by what they post?
Aren't you judging him for his "in your words" judging post?!0
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