Anyone feel bashed for "gaining weight" ?

I’m not taking the time to read everyone’s comments, so my apologies if I say what others have already said.

I’m 5’ and weight 258 lbs. I have a coworker who is 5’ and struggles to keep her weight over 100. I listen to people make comments to her and I cringe. It isn’t socially acceptable to criticize people for being overweight, which I’m incredibly grateful for, but people have no problem criticizing her and her weight needs.

Remember, people sometimes are a bit self-centered and that’s where those comments are coming from. If you listen to the tone of what is being said it’s all about them and not about you.

Take pity on them, they know not what they do.