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    Single Ladies... Where would you liked to be approached?

    Posts: 431 Member
    edited February 25 in Chit-Chat
    A lot of people pretty much goes to nightclubs to meet women but that's probably not that grandest of places to meet someone and from what I've read on the forums women don't like to be approached at the gym either.

    Where would you like to be when approached by someone that might be interested

    Just asking out of interest's sake.

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    • Posts: 3,194 Member
      Just got to take your chances wherever you can get them.
    • Posts: 1,763 Member
      i think its less about WHERE and more about how.... if its accidental / spontanious then its fine whereever.


      If you are planning to spend your evening going somewhere just to meet and hit on women then i would go with

      strip clubs
      speed dating
      swingers clubs
      or even online dating
    • Posts: 6,573 Member
      Just got to take your chances wherever you can get them.

      Yeah I would agree if I was single. I can't see why it matters where you meet a person you get along well with and want to spend more time with.
    • Posts: 185 Member
      Supermarkets seem to be the new chat up territory! I've been chatted up a few times whilst doing the shopping.....it certainly makes the mundane weekly shop seem a little more interesting!!
    • Posts: 402 Member
      anywhere but on here.... flirty mfp messages make me cringe
    • Posts: 3,194 Member
      Flirty, I don't mind. It's the creepy I don't like
    • Posts: 2,793 Member
      anywhere. if youre geniune and not creepy, the venue won't matter
    • Posts: 26 Member
      I wouldn't mind being approached at the gym if i were single. It depends on how you go about it. Plenty of guys come up to me with nasty cheesy pick up lines at the gym. When i'm make up less, sweating and not in the mood it isn't nice but if you're just friendly and have normal conversation topics then it's fine. I think that stands for anywhere really. It's more the how than the where i think.
    • Posts: 6,573 Member
      I'd hate to be a guy. Women can be rather odd about what is and isn't ok. I don't know how the heck they always supposed to get it right. They aren't mind readers. I'm sure most of them are good guys just wanting to have a friend or relationship and aren't creepy.
    • Posts: 1,763 Member
      anywhere. if youre geniune and not creepy, the venue won't matter

      agreed
    • Posts: 344 Member
      Dating sites maybe? I heard this was one? m-i-ryt?
    • Posts: 199 Member
      Supermarket, dog park, bar, the gym isn't bad as long as you're not busing in during the middle of the workout...

      For me the most important thing about location is that I want to be able to hear the conversation. That's the main reason I'm not a fan of guys who approach me at a club. If he doesn't care to have a conversation, he's probably not what I'm looking for anyway. I like a little brain and personality with my brawn :blushing:
    • Posts: 1,013 Member
      CHURCH
    • Posts: 5,276 Member
      Somewhere secluded, dimly lit, and without an escape route.
    • Posts: 1,469 Member
      Somewhere secluded, dimly lit, and without an escape route.

      :love: :flowerforyou: :heart:
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      A lot of people pretty much goes to nightclubs to meet women but that's probably not that grandest of places to meet someone and from what I've read on the forums women don't like to be approached at the gym either.

      Where would you like to be when approached by someone that might be interested

      Just asking out of interest's sake.

      On the beach waving ocean or at a party or....in my house
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