Losing Weight but Not Inches - What is the Point?!

I am beyond frustrated. I am losing weight but have actually gained - not lost inches since I've started. What is even the point of losing weight if you're still fat? I've come to realize even at my goal weight I won't look much, if any, better if things continue as they are now.

I lost weight once before - didn't exercise, ate fast food every day, weighed a little more than I do now and was a much smaller size.

This time I eat a lot better, exercise, lift heavy things, supposedly do things the right way to lose weight but there's just no movement in body size. Is this punishment for gaining the weight back? Or the fact I'm just too old to look good or what?!

Any suggestions? I'm desperate here. You all were very helpful when the scale stalled and now that I've got that under control I'd really love to get the measuring tape moving too. I can't quit now, but it seriously is a struggle to keep going when you don't see any results!
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  • jardimgirl
    jardimgirl Posts: 522 Member
    In for reads. I too have lost eeight butmy belly measurments have not budged in about 4 months
  • detarrevo
    detarrevo Posts: 45
    I'm having the same issue as you.
    Lost 18 pounds, measuring tape hasn't budged at all...not like I'm expecting a lot but dang...
  • Branstin
    Branstin Posts: 2,320 Member
    You are not too old to look good. You are losing fine so have patience with yourself and your body. You stated you lift heavy things but what type of weight lifting are you doing?
  • jardimgirl
    jardimgirl Posts: 522 Member
    You are not too old to look good. You are losing fine so have patience with yourself and your body. You stated you lift heavy things but what type of weight lifting are you doing?

    Does it make a difference what type of lifting it done?
  • emdeesea
    emdeesea Posts: 1,823 Member
    If it's your trunk, it may be because that's just where your body hangs on to its fat. That's what mine does. I've lost weight every where else but there. My legs and arms are almost looking skinny, but my waist and hips have barely changed.

    I have a total of about 20 pounds left to lose and I think all 20 of it is sitting right on my abdomen.
  • krawhitham
    krawhitham Posts: 831 Member
    Sounds like a mystery to me. I have the opposite problem.. I haven't lost any weight in 3 months yet my waist seems to keep going down little by little (and I'm NOT lifting, so I'm not gaining muscle/thinning out) I'm assuming it's just water weight being redistributed elsewhere in my body?? Who knows... This whole weight loss thing is a mystery to me.
  • brittaney0625
    brittaney0625 Posts: 268 Member
    How long have you been back at it?
    Have you measured in lots of places?

    For me its happening the opposite. Loosing inches and hardly any weight. I am lifting 5 days a week.
  • itsbasschick
    itsbasschick Posts: 1,584 Member
    it may depend on where you measure. i've lost 16 pounds since may 1, but my belly still measures pretty close to the same. that being said, the area where my bra strap goes has lost more than an inch, and from my knees up to mid-thighs have lost some visible size.
  • BBBBB99999
    BBBBB99999 Posts: 13
    Hey there, Ready2rock.

    There are several potential factors to losing pounds but not inches.

    1, the most common: You just aren't seeing the results yet. Unfortunately we can't lose weight on particular zones of our bodies, the weight disappears from everywhere slowly. Though you may lose 10 pounds, it may not be your waist that's tapering. Where you'll see results first is dependent on your gender, age, ethnicity and genetics. For example, my crappy genetics say "Congratulations, you did great! Your breasts are the first to go." >:| In these cases, there really is a light at the end of the tunnel, slowly you'll notice it's not just your three magic numbers changing but the fact that your thighs don't rub or that your knees are nice enough to pull that summer dress back out.

    2: Your type of exercise may be making you bulk up. This isn't bad because once that last bit of excess fat sheds you'll be hardbodied, but for now your size may not change much. If you're doing a lot of strength training and only a little cardio, you're actually making yourself bigger because the muscle stacks under the fat and pushes it up! This is a nice way to get curves, but if you're wanting a daintier look, your exercise may be counter-intuitive.

    3: The exact opposite of above, not enough exercise and too much calorie-cutting. You may be seeing the pounds go down, but you won't be gaining definition because all those pounds are coming from unfed muscles shriveling away! Initially people are impressed with the numerics of it, but then they realize that they're still sagging and puffing in undesirable places, though their numbers are where they want to be at.

    4: The literal shape of your body. I have utilized a waist-training corset for years and have gotten amazing results. This is because my ribs used to be rather wide. Combine with my tiny shoulders and small chest, and you've got a rather bland top-half that doesn't lend itself to weight-loss. There are training devices for feet, ribs, and even nose bridges that utilize pressure to very slightly change your shape for good. They require a lot of patience, because you won't see the results with the corset on for the first year or so! Plus you should definitely consult a physician about altering your bones, as doing so on your own is very dangerous! But waist-training is surprisingly cheap for its permanent results, and if you find yourself having extremely wide ribs, you may find that weight loss won't give you the same attractive taper it's giving to your gym-buddies.

    5: Water weight, sodium-intake, puffing, swelling. This is a lot harder to diagnose and attack, but it can make a lady who is 120 look 140. This is more about your salt, the amount of water, alcohol, time your drink and eat, and most especially your ladyparts doing their ladythings with your ladyhormones. Which would be, making trouble for you (as usual.) If you notice changes in the texture of your body over the course of hours to 3 days that is extreme fluctuation in size and feel, you may want to talk to your doctor about it and see if they can help suggest ways to stabilize you with lifestyle changes, or even medication if need be.
  • dianastepheny
    dianastepheny Posts: 650 Member
    For me, my belly was always past my boobs. Finally, I lost enough weight for my boobs to be past my belly. Yeah! ....but wait...then I lost more weight, and my boobs shrank and my belly is now past my boobs again. So basically, I look just as fat as before but on a smaller scale. Uuuughhh!!!
  • Branstin
    Branstin Posts: 2,320 Member
    You are not too old to look good. You are losing fine so have patience with yourself and your body. You stated you lift heavy things but what type of weight lifting are you doing?

    Does it make a difference what type of lifting it done?

    Possibly and along with the duration.
  • jardimgirl
    jardimgirl Posts: 522 Member
    You are not too old to look good. You are losing fine so have patience with yourself and your body. You stated you lift heavy things but what type of weight lifting are you doing?

    Does it make a difference what type of lifting it done?

    Possibly and along with the duration.

    How and why? I'm curious to know if I too am doing this right
  • lee91356
    lee91356 Posts: 330 Member
    BE HAPPY! A loss is a loss no matter where is comes from. :happy: You cant control where the body reduces itself so dont try. Just keep at it and eventually you will see things even out. The worst is to set yourself up for failure and unrealistic expectations which then allow and excuse yourself to fail.

    It took me nearly 35 pounds before I really needed to buy new clothes and another 10 before people really noticed that I was even losing weight. There was weeks and months when NOTHING changed, not my clothes or the scale despite all my hard work.
    Well almost 3 years, 150 lbs, and 8 dress sizes later I'm glad I never gave up and listed to those who encouraged me, even if I wish my tummy and my calfs were smaller I'm way happier being smaller then I was being larger.
  • vismal
    vismal Posts: 2,463 Member
    Measuring, like anything else, is not a perfect measure of change. It is very easy to measure inaccurately, especially if you are measuring yourself. Measure your waist an inch lower or higher on your body then you did the last time and you might have a totally different result. The fact of the matter is that if you are losing weight, and you are lifting, then you are losing fat.

    You certainly are not bulking up as was said above. To bulk up you would have to put on muscle. If your weight is going down you are not building muscle. If your calories are in a deficit (which if you are losing weight, they are) then you are not building tons of muscle to throw off measurements.

    How much weight have you lost over what period of time? I'm guessing this is just a matter of needing to be more patient and continuing on the path you are already on. If the scale weight is going down, the measurements will eventually follow. The same is true for people losing inches but not lbs. Eventually, given enough time, all the markers of body composition will start to trend in the same direction. This is why it is important to use many different markers to monitor progress. Track weight, measurements, progress pictures, strength, etc.
  • Branstin
    Branstin Posts: 2,320 Member
    You are not too old to look good. You are losing fine so have patience with yourself and your body. You stated you lift heavy things but what type of weight lifting are you doing?

    Does it make a difference what type of lifting it done?

    Possibly and along with the duration.

    How and why? I'm curious to know if I too am doing this right

    Heavy means different things to different people but if you aren't lifting heavy enough and long enough for your height, weight, and eating properly then you won't lose inches.
  • hearthwood
    hearthwood Posts: 794 Member
    Well you can't lose weight without losing inches somewhere. If you've got problem spots, as everyone does, it's time to get specific and work those areas. Belly problems, core strength exercises, thighs, inner / outer thigh exercises, etc.
  • LexingtonBadger
    LexingtonBadger Posts: 12 Member
    Have you taken any progress pictures? With myself, I didn't think I was losing any inches from certain spots (probably from not measuring myself properly) until I looked at pictures to compare and noticed that there was actually a fairly significant difference. It might be a lot easier for you to notice a difference if you could compare pictures side by side?
  • brittaney0625
    brittaney0625 Posts: 268 Member
    I second the pictures. X1000 pictures are so important in any fitness journey.
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member


    How much weight have you lost over what period of time? I'm guessing this is just a matter of needing to be more patient and continuing on the path you are already on. If the scale weight is going down, the measurements will eventually follow.

    50+ lbs over about 2 years. My clothes fit the same too - so if it was just bad measuring I'd expect to see some change there. Patience is not something I'm great at - and it has been sooooo long I'm just feeling so defeated and more and more positive I'll never see results.
  • Meerataila
    Meerataila Posts: 1,885 Member
    If it's your trunk, it may be because that's just where your body hangs on to its fat. That's what mine does. I've lost weight every where else but there. My legs and arms are almost looking skinny, but my waist and hips have barely changed.

    I have a total of about 20 pounds left to lose and I think all 20 of it is sitting right on my abdomen.

    This! I know the rest of mine is on my abdomen. With maybe a couple pounds left for my thighs and one pound for each batwing. The rest of me is starting to get bony.
  • TEMMEAlexa
    TEMMEAlexa Posts: 79 Member
    I think you need to be patient with yourself.If you have lost those pounds you are sure to lose those inches too.Do not give up just yet because you might have lost the inches but not where you wanted to.You might need to not only eat right but also do exercise to do away with them.You could do target exercise which will help you to lose the inches from where you want.Well !! Good Luck, for your efforts.
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member
    If it's your trunk, it may be because that's just where your body hangs on to its fat. That's what mine does. I've lost weight every where else but there. My legs and arms are almost looking skinny, but my waist and hips have barely changed.

    I have a total of about 20 pounds left to lose and I think all 20 of it is sitting right on my abdomen.

    This! I know the rest of mine is on my abdomen. With maybe a couple pounds left for my thighs and one pound for each batwing. The rest of me is starting to get bony.

    I have no where that looks bony. Seriously I have no idea where the weight I've lost came from. I mean that's a pretty decent amount of loss with nothing to show for it. I'm almost starting to think there's just something wrong with the scale and I really haven't lost the weight!
  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member
    I used to measure my waist and got tired of seeing the same crappy measurement. So I stopped. But now finally I get to whine about pants getting loose. I don't know where the fat could be coming from otherwise. Intra muscular? Lol

    How heavy are the things you lift?
  • simplydelish2
    simplydelish2 Posts: 726 Member
    I can only speak from my experience, but it seems either the scale moves or the tape measure does...I generally don't get both moving at the same time. I've lost very little weight since the first of the year (12 lbs.) yet I've dropped almost 2 full sizes. Be patient, eat healthy, and exercise...it will all come together eventually!
  • amy8400
    amy8400 Posts: 478 Member
    I had a 2 month plateau recently and have only started to come off that by a couple of pounds. It was so hard to see everyone losing weight around me, though I was genuinely happy for my MFP friends. After careful review of my food logs and exercise, I learned that I needed to increase my intake to change up things--and it worked. I also discovered that I was logging one of my foods wrong and that accounted for an additional 110-220 calories a day I had missed. Really go over your food diaries and see if you can find places for improvement or change or accuracy. It's a good starting point if everything else seems to be at a stall.
  • chrisdavey
    chrisdavey Posts: 9,834 Member


    How much weight have you lost over what period of time? I'm guessing this is just a matter of needing to be more patient and continuing on the path you are already on. If the scale weight is going down, the measurements will eventually follow.

    50+ lbs over about 2 years. My clothes fit the same too - so if it was just bad measuring I'd expect to see some change there. Patience is not something I'm great at - and it has been sooooo long I'm just feeling so defeated and more and more positive I'll never see results.

    You've lost 50lbs and the measurements are the same? I'm sorry but I can't see any possible way this can be correct.
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member


    You've lost 50lbs and the measurements are the same? I'm sorry but I can't see any possible way this can be correct.

    Well my some of my measurements went up from last time I measured. :ohwell:

    I just looked again at my charts and if I go all the way back to my starting weight I've lost a couple inches here and there. I guess I need to look super long term and not just over the last year or so... Nothing significant lost, but it is something.

    I just want to buy new clothes!! :sad:

    I think I'll take another break from the measuring tape and try not to obsess over it. Really just focus on my gym time and my diet. Diet has improved a lot recently from the advice I was given here, so now that I have some new advice to work with hopefully I'll be seeing some more results.
  • vismal
    vismal Posts: 2,463 Member
    Something here seems very wrong. You lost 50 lbs of something, you're measurements should be quite different. Even if sizable fraction of the loss was water, you'd still have to had lost enough fat for measurements to change. You either had to have mis-measured before or you are now. There just is no way you can lose 50 lbs and not lose inches... Do you have pictures of then and now?
  • liekewheeless
    liekewheeless Posts: 416 Member
    Just an idea, but maybe you pulled that tape super tight before and not so much now?
    Oke, probably not this,..but maybe wrong side of the tape?

    Some measurements don't change much with weightloss, they are just your frame. Say you measure your waist at the top of your hip bone, that bone won't move. Have your arm and leg measurements changed?

    You lost over 50lb, where did you start?
  • Branstin
    Branstin Posts: 2,320 Member
    At 50 lbs. loss, you have loss inches somewhere. Don't get discourage because 50 lbs. is a lot to celebrate. You'll get to the mall so just hang in there a little while longer.