What is the oldest age you would ever go for in a partner?

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  • usmc01462
    usmc01462 Posts: 1,944 Member
    younger woman are hot...as far as older woman as long as she is in shape
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    I prefer younger guys. Those my age and older can't seem to keep up.
  • michael1976_ca
    michael1976_ca Posts: 3,488 Member
    I'm going on 38 next week I'd probably go up 45 or a little order but it all depends on the woman
  • 33Freya
    33Freya Posts: 468 Member
    Go there to play if you wish, but what ever you do, you'll 99.9% probably regret it if you get serious with someone more than just a few years older than you. I was 29 when I divorced my husband who was 49 at the time, and I still shudder when I see how old he is now compared to me (I'm 37 and he's 57). Lots of regret there.
  • Fit_Housewife
    Fit_Housewife Posts: 168 Member
    And how old are you?

    I'm 19 and a 50 year old man (my college professor) had made it clear that he likes me. To be honest though I actually wouldn't mind going with a man that age! The only thing stopping me would be my parents and friends I guess.

    It's weird but I've only ever been attracted to men between the ages of 35-60.

    What about you guys? :D

    Lol depends on the grade u would get. BTW I'm 31 my husbands 47.
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    I've always gone older, but that's never worked out so I think it's time to swing the pendulum.
  • kkay3182
    kkay3182 Posts: 90 Member
    I am 32 and married to a 26 yr old, I have always dated people a little younger than me :devil: :bigsmile:
  • Valrotha
    Valrotha Posts: 294 Member
    And how old are you?

    I'm 19 and a 50 year old man (my college professor) had made it clear that he likes me. To be honest though I actually wouldn't mind going with a man that age! The only thing stopping me would be my parents and friends I guess.

    It's weird but I've only ever been attracted to men between the ages of 35-60.

    What about you guys? :D

    If you're attracted to him, go for it. Just be wary if he's married or something like that. And make sure you understand what you're getting into ahead of time. Is it just a friends with benefits kind of thing or serious relationship. You can learn a lot from older partners, and I don't just mean about sex.

    Americans are kind of weird about age issues. Personally, I view worrying about age too much as being unsubstantive and shallow, but that's just me. If you like someone, age shouldn't be an issue (of course, not including kids). I've been with women 17 years younger and 15 years older, and everything in between.

    It's also noteworthy that when an older woman like a significantly younger man, she's a 'cougar'; however, when an older man likes a significantly younger woman, he's 'creepy.'
  • ilenewilliams
    ilenewilliams Posts: 48 Member
    I'm 47 my husband is a very young and healthy 75. We got married when I was 27 and he was 54 and I have to say we have a very happy marriage, and three amazing kids (two biological kids, 12 and 17, and one adopted 17 year old) he is very involved with the kids and if you didn't know his age, you would never guess it from how he is. As a matter of fact, he retired in December only because his company closed down, he is just now outlining the beginnings of his own IT business plus he takes care of everything around the house both inside and out now that he's home. I think age is a number and if I had let the number bother me, I would have missed out on a truly awesome life.
  • jan3h
    jan3h Posts: 55 Member
    My partner's 18 years older than me. We have been together for 7 years. He is wonderful, and he thinks I am wonderful too, so i am pretty lucky I guess. Mind you, I am in my late 40s, so the gap between age and experience is not so vast as it would be if I was 19 and he was 37.

    Just be aware that there really IS a gap between age and experience when you are in your late teens and you meet someone hot who is 50. Such a gap could lead to a power imbalance if his motivation is not in your best interests. What do you want out of the relationship? What does he want? If you want the same things, you will be fine. If not ....
  • usmc01462
    usmc01462 Posts: 1,944 Member
    dam I need a younger woman
  • FrozenSongBird
    FrozenSongBird Posts: 3,892 Member
    dam I need a younger woman

    :flowerforyou:
  • Topsking2010
    Topsking2010 Posts: 2,245 Member
    dam I need a younger woman


    Well said!!!
  • Shalaurise
    Shalaurise Posts: 707 Member
    I am with some here. As a professor, there are generally rules against having a relationship with him. If you really like him and him you, then in my opinion, you should wait until you graduate from that college. He won't lose his job that way and you won't lose the credibility of your degree.

    The largest age gap I have had is 13 years older than myself. The one after that was 11 years older. I give him **** to this day cause he is going to be retirement age when our daughter hits college. My hubby is 6 years older than me... I think.... honestly, most days I don't know how old I am. A friend convinced me to give someone younger than myself a try once. I dated a kid that was 4 years younger than me once (29-25)... okay dated isn't the right word... he was yummy to look at and in another way, but other than that he was a child. I had enough Hanna Montana for a lifetime in one weekend.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    Couldn't imagine going younger than 21, or older than 22.

    You don't want something too new or too old.
  • sugarstrawberries
    sugarstrawberries Posts: 140 Member
    Oldest man I dated was 45, but I'm a weird outlier and love an older man. I'd go older. I wouldn't want to date someone younger than my own age really (26), but it depends on the person... That would be a great exception though.
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  • aedreana
    aedreana Posts: 979 Member
    I am attracted to men literally half my age, in their 20s and early 30s. Probably could not see myself with 40+. I have never seen a naked man that was over the age of 26. One of my friends always went for the geezers. A 60-year-old guy when she was 19. Curious, I asked her, "What happens to their junk when they get old? Does it bag and sag?," And she said, "They shrivel up like prunes."
  • dietcoke281
    dietcoke281 Posts: 226 Member
    I'm 19 and I'm attracted to older men. Probably wouldn't date someone older than my mum - she's 45!
  • FrozenSongBird
    FrozenSongBird Posts: 3,892 Member
    Im 31 the ex husband is 26....I don't really have a set age that I would or wouldnt date... under 25 probably not... I guess it depends on the person... I am trying to stick with the older variety .... or at least my age...
  • mtruitt01
    mtruitt01 Posts: 370 Member
    I am attracted to men literally half my age, in their 20s and early 30s. Probably could not see myself with 40+. I have never seen a naked man that was over the age of 26. One of my friends always went for the geezers. A 60-year-old guy when she was 19. Curious, I asked her, "What happens to their junk when they get old? Does it bag and sag?," And she said, "They shrivel up like prunes."

    I had to see what you replied to this post. Wow!-no naked men over 26? You go woman!
  • La_Malfaisante
    La_Malfaisante Posts: 1,509 Member
    If he can get it up we're good to go. :bigsmile:
  • Smirnoff65
    Smirnoff65 Posts: 1,060 Member
    97....
  • Relaeh
    Relaeh Posts: 102 Member
    I'm 39...but 50 would have to be my max...youngest 35 :)
  • Relaeh
    Relaeh Posts: 102 Member
    97....
    LOL
  • ge105
    ge105 Posts: 268 Member
    I'm taken now but I would have gone for with anyone I found attractive. The oldest I've found attractive was 47...I was 17 at the time. My music teacher. Used to follow him around like a lost puppy and he'd try to get rid of me and I never took the hint :ohwell: Poor man was probably scared to death I'd lose him his job with all the drooling I was doing over his desk :laugh:

    edit- I suck at english
  • mrbyte
    mrbyte Posts: 270 Member
    And how old are you?

    I'm 19 and a 50 year old man (my college professor) had made it clear that he likes me. To be honest though I actually wouldn't mind going with a man that age! The only thing stopping me would be my parents and friends I guess.

    It's weird but I've only ever been attracted to men between the ages of 35-60.

    What about you guys? :D

    I don't mind the age difference but a college professor shouldn't be hitting on his students.
  • minimalistmom
    minimalistmom Posts: 137
    I'm 32 years old. My limit is 50 years old.
  • dottyb1tchmouse
    dottyb1tchmouse Posts: 31 Member
    I'm 23 and like guys in their 30s-40s. I briefly went out with a 43-year-old when I was 22 but that felt like a little too much, and he had children the same age as me which was kind of weird. I'd probably go up to late 30s for a long term relationship.
  • nicoleambersumpter
    nicoleambersumpter Posts: 48 Member
    i'm 24... I wouldn't say I have an age "cut off" If i said 40 and i met a 41 year old i'm not going to discount them for being a year over my top age.. You can't help what the heart wants. As long as you're both genuine in the relationship and of legal age (Obviously) who cares what age they are, that's what i say! :smooched: :bigsmile:

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