Skinny/fit people

I'm reasonably thin/fit.
I don't get a lot of hate thrown my way.

That's because I'm pretty pleasant and always have a smile on my face.

Generally when you think everybody is out to get you, that really shows on your face and you look like an unapproachable B*tch at any weight those people get a lot of hate thrown their way.

I got yelled at for opening a door for someone the other day. So I'm going to go ahead and agree with you.

ummm how about this - when I go swimming I have skinny/fit people staring at me disgusted..........

How about you smile at them next time and walk over and say hello?

I am sure you will find out that they actually don't look at you in a mean way.

Calling overweight people "fat" is harsh.

But....Everyone gets judged no matter what weight you are so you might as well get used to it and learn to love yourself because then it won't matter what other people think of you. Right?

Calling overweight people "fat" is harsh.

But....Everyone gets judged no matter what weight you are so you might as well get used to it and learn to love yourself because then it won't matter what other people think of you. Right?

lol this has gotten ridiculous. Just because I don't want to be "skinny"? I agree with uglyandold. It doesn't matter if people call me fat because it's something I'm working on. I still think it's a harsh word though. It doesn't matter who it's coming from.

That's silly, it's not an opinion when it's against her.

I have this crazy idea that everyone stops giving a flying jump in a rolling donut what other people MIGHT be saying and/or thinking about them and just worry about themselves. It'll never catch on, I know.

I have this crazy idea that everyone stops giving a flying jump in a rolling donut what other people MIGHT be saying and/or thinking about them and just worry about themselves. It'll never catch on, I know.

Your logic is no good here, madam.

Calling overweight people "fat" is harsh.

But....Everyone gets judged no matter what weight you are so you might as well get used to it and learn to love yourself because then it won't matter what other people think of you. Right?

lol this has gotten ridiculous. Just because I don't want to be "skinny"? I agree with uglyandold. It doesn't matter if people call me fat because it's something I'm working on. I still think it's a harsh word though. It doesn't matter who it's coming from.

That's silly, it's not an opinion when it's against her.

It's harsh, but talking down on others isn't. Gotcha.

Where in my posts have I said it isn't harsh? People can take offense to it if they want. I can see where others are coming from and I respect their opinions but I honestly didn't mean it to offend anyone. And I also wasn't trying to make myself better than anyone.

Calling overweight people "fat" is harsh.

But....Everyone gets judged no matter what weight you are so you might as well get used to it and learn to love yourself because then it won't matter what other people think of you. Right?

lol this has gotten ridiculous. Just because I don't want to be "skinny"? I agree with uglyandold. It doesn't matter if people call me fat because it's something I'm working on. I still think it's a harsh word though. It doesn't matter who it's coming from.

That's silly, it's not an opinion when it's against her.

It's harsh, but talking down on others isn't. Gotcha.

Where in my posts have I said it isn't harsh? People can take offense to it if they want. I can see where others are coming from and I respect their opinions but I honestly didn't mean it to offend anyone. And I also wasn't trying to make myself better than anyone.

You flat out said that you prefer a more womanly curvy body than a little girl twig body. SO yea, that makes it seem like you're saying you're more womanly than others.

Also, you can't say something is harsh, right after you said something that's probably worse. How is it harsh to call someone fat, when they're fat? That's like saying it's harsh to call me a guy because I'm a guy.

I have this crazy idea that everyone stops giving a flying jump in a rolling donut what other people MIGHT be saying and/or thinking about them and just worry about themselves. It'll never catch on, I know.

Your logic is no good here, madam.

My apologies! I'll see myself out.