Getting judged :(

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  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    Im sad to see so many people be so hostile here. I guess it comes with every website then

    No one is being hostile. You probably should look into sparkteen.com.

    Also, if you are being this sensitive to the advice being given to you and are deeming it hostile, maybe what you are taking as ridicule from your friends really is just some teasing that you decided to take too personally.

    Either way, take a step back, really think about what's going on and head over to sparkteens, which is dedicated for 18 and under.
  • delicious_cocktail
    delicious_cocktail Posts: 5,797 Member
    am I the only one smelling a troll, here? that post didn't read like a thinly-dressed list of MFP buzzwords to anyone else??

    ed grammar

    Feb 2014 join date is something that I've seen in common amongst a few.
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    Everyone here says HS sucked. I personally liked HS. Just rise up beyond the drama is all I have to say. Think about your future and college, etc. The rest will fall into place
  • SoLongAndThanksForAllTheFish
    SoLongAndThanksForAllTheFish Posts: 831 Member
    Well...everyone gets harassed in high school, I sure did. Try to ignore them and focus on what you want to do. It gets easier if you let it go, harder if you don't.
  • Bryttani_Marshe
    Bryttani_Marshe Posts: 3
    I feel like many parts of my family has high metabolism. My dad, sister, and brother all have high metabolism. I wouldn't say sadly I'm made like my mom but the truth is I am. I am made exactly like my mom. I don't feel like that's a bad thing but hey we're all born in the way we were suppose to. Some people that I hang out with are big, some even bigger than me. There are the ones that I hang out with that are skinny, not fit skinny but skinny. When I was little and had petty drama with other girls my weight would come up. What did my weight have to do with what we were arguing about? The things they would say would hurt my feelings but as I got older I didn't care anymore. I had to dig deep and find motivation to know that I can do this because I always had this dream seeing myself being skinnier than i am now.
  • JeriAnne84
    JeriAnne84 Posts: 543 Member
    I got judged for being fat in high school. Teased ALL the time by kids in my class. I was also scared of the ball while playing sports in P.E. (which I had every right to be because somehow they always end up smacking me in the head, even if I was walking past the friggen gym) so one of the girls started a rumor that I had AIDS because I was scared of the ball.

    THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. Friggen idiots.

    Still made me feel crappy, but you know what I did? Well, I felt bad and had low self esteem for years but then I grew up, stopped caring about what others thought and did what I loved. Then I went to my 10 year reunion and saw some of them got fat, so that was a bonus. I was still fat at my 10 year, but my 15 year or 20 year, I'll be a sexy beast and still won't care what they say.
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    I am a senior.

    then maybe not posting pictures in your underwear on an adult site might be something to consider.

    also- age limit. 18.

    spark teens.
    and
    This. Also this site is 18+... going on a limb and say you are not.

    she's a senior in high school. you can be 18 and a senior in high school. i was 18 the majority of my senior year of high school.

    OP: people, in general, suck. invest in a helmet, perhaps. metaphorically.
  • mizzzc
    mizzzc Posts: 346 Member
    Oh my goodness people. You may not be saying things that in your mind are hostile, but they are negative and don't need to be heard. She is not 15 years old, she is either 17 or 18, and I believe she has handled herself well so far in this thread. Get a grip people!! Can we focus on her actual post.

    We were all that age once...

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