is it ok to be a chubby chaser?

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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    tl;dr


    Yes it is ok to be attracted to bigger guys.
    No you cannot tell him that he cannot lose weight.
    If you cannot deal with it and aren't attractive to him after, then JBU.
  • WreckaRed
    WreckaRed Posts: 116 Member
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    How about you do what makes you happy, have your own weight goals, and respect your husband enough to let him have this own as well.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
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    Is someone pulling their pork yet?
  • postrockandcats
    postrockandcats Posts: 1,145 Member
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    ...Okay.

    Here's my 2 cents. Instead of telling each other to not lose or only lose a certain amount, why don't you go into this journey TOGETHER and not be so scared of what the other one will or won't do. It will bring you closer and boost your self-worth.

    Also? Look back at what you wrote. Does this sound remotely healthy to you? Would you two really, *really* be unattracted to each other post weight loss? REALLY?
  • Saiyanbrahh
    Saiyanbrahh Posts: 693
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    Tell him that its ok if he shredded emm all down to muscles. Bet you havent seen him like that

    And they be killing every chubby chaser down at the purge anyway yo. Thug life chose em
  • karenrich77
    karenrich77 Posts: 292 Member
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    This is going to sound horrible.... but YES, it IS wrong!

    If he wants to lose weight and be healthier and live longer, who are you to say he can't.

    I'd be dumping you if you said that to me.

    Love is beyond skin deep and if you want him to be truly happy in himself. Don't stand in his way!

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