Is belly fat sexy?

Llaaccyy
Llaaccyy Posts: 3 Member
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
I personally don't like my belly fat. But several guys have told me that it is sexy. Guys, do you find my belly fat sexy too? Why?
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  • climbing_trees
    climbing_trees Posts: 726 Member
    That girl from Pulp Fiction thinks a "pot belly" on a woman is sexy :P
  • opus649
    opus649 Posts: 633 Member
    That girl from Pulp Fiction thinks a "pot belly" on a woman is sexy :P

    You were looking in the mirror and you wish you had some pot?
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    I personally don't like my belly fat. But several guys have told me that it is sexy. Guys, do you find a belly fat like mine sexy on a girl?

    Why does it matter? If you don't like it, do something about it.
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I think different men have different definitions of sexy.
  • JenniDaisy
    JenniDaisy Posts: 526 Member
    I've heard it described as a third boob...
  • aelphabawest
    aelphabawest Posts: 173 Member
    I was thinking about this the other day - I'm fit (training for a marathon) and in great shape, but there's still some belly fat going on. Honestly though... it means my form looks a little less athletic and more Renaissance painting (think Birth of Venus. Only I think my boobs are smaller, sadly). Which I'm totally okay with, because I think it looks sexy and feminine and offsets my broad shoulders nicely.
    And my boyfriend (who has a damned six pack. Men and their body fat ratio. Ppft.) loves the way I look and likes that I'm both fit and soft. So. Yes. It can be.
  • BigT555
    BigT555 Posts: 2,067 Member
    I personally don't like my belly fat. But several guys have told me that it is sexy. Guys, do you find a belly fat like mine sexy on a girl?

    Why does it matter? If you don't like it, do something about it.
    this. sexiness is an objective term anyway. personally i think a gal can have a stomach like you profile pic and be sexy easily, for some it may be less sexy, for some it may be more. its a combination of a whole load of factors though
  • WreckaRed
    WreckaRed Posts: 116 Member
    I would not say it is "sexy", but I am not turned off by a man having some belly fat. I am not really a stomach girl though. I prefer nice arms and bums ;)
  • SezxyStef
    SezxyStef Posts: 15,267 Member
    Sexy is a function of your brain and internal dialoge that makes you confident and feel sexy regardless of what you look like.

    Physical attraction is too subjective to ask 100 men as you will get 100 different answers...
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    throw some cinnamon on that oatmeal and you got my attention \m/
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    I really like Korean pork belly tacos. Not sure how sexy they are, but damn tasty
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    if i find a woman's personality, humor, and intelligence sexy, then i tend to find her body sexy
  • Cheekies_
    Cheekies_ Posts: 319 Member
    Confidence is sexy! I think it's more about how you feel about you.
  • TheNewPriceIsLoading
    TheNewPriceIsLoading Posts: 2,135 Member
    Meat on the body is still desirable! I would rather a woman be healthy and happy with her body, than feeling the need to be as skinny as a rail to feel happy...
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
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  • lookin4gains
    lookin4gains Posts: 1,761 Member
    Although my wife hates hers, I see what our child did to her body. I don't find her any less attractive. It's just something that was sacrificed for our family and I find beauty in that. But no matter what I say, she criticizes herself. As far as other women I don't really pay much attention. I do agree, confidence is sexy, but only to a certain extent. A women must at least put a little effort to better herself instead of just playing the "fat is beautiful/confidence is sexy card". JMHO
  • MizTerry
    MizTerry Posts: 3,763 Member
    Thankfully different people are attracted to different things.

    My big thing is arms, but if you have the personality of a goat, it's lost right there, However, if a man can exude confidence, keep me engaged and make me laugh? That is a winner right there!
  • WhatAnAss
    WhatAnAss Posts: 1,598 Member
    if i find a woman's personality, humor, and intelligence sexy, then i tend to find her body sexy

    +1 Good for you!
  • solarpower03
    solarpower03 Posts: 12,161 Member
    Belly fat is not sexy to me at all. I prefer fat only on breasts and bum.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I think that whatever you look like there will be guys that adore it, and think it is the best, and those are the guys we attract the most. Though, we can't assume that's what will attract all men.
  • MikeCrazy
    MikeCrazy Posts: 2,716 Member
    nope, not to me
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    I think different men have different definitions of sexy.

    This
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    Is the woman as a whole "sexy"? If so, a little belly fat is inconsequential.
  • Organicgasm
    Organicgasm Posts: 592 Member
    That little softness around a woman's middle is an indication of fertility. It takes a certain store of nutrients to create life. So men are primally attracted to it in a woman they love. I personally (as a woman) like the lean fitness model look and will do what I can to get rid of my little post baby pooch. But if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen.
  • Chief_Rocka
    Chief_Rocka Posts: 4,710 Member
    no
  • Hophead43
    Hophead43 Posts: 1,634 Member
    They lied to you
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    That girl from Pulp Fiction thinks a "pot belly" on a woman is sexy :P

    It's unfortunate what we find pleasing to the touch and pleasing to the eye is seldom the same...
  • CJisinShape
    CJisinShape Posts: 1,404 Member
    Yes, on men and women. There were two belly dancers on America's Got Talent a while back. They had a handful of belly and were practically spilling over their bras. Curves everywhere. Definitly would be considered "plus sized" models and the male judges couldn't stop gushing over how sexy the pair were.

    Men, if they are muscular, can also carry a handful of fat and some love handles very sexily, especially if you can see stomach muscles through the fat, like on the sides of the abdominals.
  • jwats8
    jwats8 Posts: 112
    Confidence is sexy! I think it's more about how you feel about you.

    I agree with this completely. Lose it only if it's important to you.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    Well, I'm pretty sure different men have different tastes....so I'm sure some would think so and others, not so much.
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