Lots of guys DO NOT like super skinny girls...

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  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    Seems like everyone has a different definition of what super skinny even means. I'm slender, but don't consider myself super skinny. I'm healthy and happy. That's all I need to care about. Does it matter what others like and don't like.
  • traceywoody
    traceywoody Posts: 233 Member
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    Some people will like you, some people won't. The desire to be thinner(or not) really has more to do with how we see ourselves than anything else.
  • Commander_Keen
    Commander_Keen Posts: 1,179 Member
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    So how did women get this mindset of wanting to be super skinny??

    I believe it came from movies and TV.

    When was the last time anybody saw a super hot guy chase after an over weight girl?
  • DymonNdaRgh40
    DymonNdaRgh40 Posts: 661 Member
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    I've never had that mindset.
  • pobalita
    pobalita Posts: 741 Member
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    So how did women get this mindset of wanting to be super skinny??

    TV and fashion magazines
  • crsawinton
    crsawinton Posts: 96 Member
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    From competition with other women. Media distortion. And you are never good enough talk. (whether it's self talk or other)
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    supernatural gif already? <3
  • scrapalooza
    scrapalooza Posts: 335 Member
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    I just want to look good for me, look how I want & the right guy will like me or not, lol I don't really care.
  • jms1739
    jms1739 Posts: 80 Member
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    i'm all 'bout the Bass no treble
    Yeah, it's pretty clear, I ain't no size two
    But I can shake it, shake it
    Like I'm supposed to do
    'Cause I got that Boom Boom that all the boys chase
    And all the right junk in all the right places

    Here is what I say to guy who want the skinny girls

    You know I won't be no stick figure silicone Barbie Doll
    so if that's what you're into then go ahead and move along!
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
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    Well since every decision I make in life is dictated by what "guys like" I'll be sure to keep that in mind.
  • Veil5577
    Veil5577 Posts: 868 Member
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    It's not about what GUYS like. It's what I like. I'm doing this for ME.
  • Return_of_the_Big_Mac
    Return_of_the_Big_Mac Posts: 474 Member
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    these cues are picked from popular culture but these ideas change - http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/05/perfect-body-change-beauty-ideals_n_4733378.html

    Notice how body types correlate with economic opulence. The leaner the times, the more curvy the ideal.
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
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    How do you know this? Did you take a poll of all the guys in the world?
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    I remember back when I used to say dumb things. 14 was an awkward age.
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
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    mmmmmm.... k. :noway:
  • Timelordlady85
    Timelordlady85 Posts: 797 Member
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    Some people will like you, some people won't. The desire to be thinner(or not) really has more to do with how we see ourselves than anything else.

    this though I do agree with others that have said some women want to be "thinner'' to attract their partner but I have been told by my husband repeatedly that I'm beautiful,sexy at the weight at I'm at, thing is I'm doing this for me. not him or anyone else. :)
  • RunnerStephe
    RunnerStephe Posts: 2,195
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    Depends on her personality. Judging by the outside is narrow minded.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
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    Yeah, the op is only 19.
  • vegkitten
    vegkitten Posts: 106 Member
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    Lots of reasons. One, maybe she's into a man (or a group of men, or the man she is with) who IS into really skinny women Two, maybe she's into women and what certain men find attractive doesn't matter to her. Three, maybe SHE likes being super skinny for HERSELF.

    I like being skinny for ME and ME ONLY. If my partner didn't like it, that's too damned bad. Granted, I do need to put on about 10 pounds, but I would still be pretty damn skinny with those extra 10 pounds.
  • kevinsmithrn
    kevinsmithrn Posts: 70 Member
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    Bodies are all shapes and sizes - to each his/her own preference however I believe it's in our DNA to find physical fitness attractive. That's why you notice the 40+ mom with all her ( curves ) living an active lifestyle and hardly see the sedentary twenty something. Plenty of physically fit women out there that nobody would ever call skinny. Good Luck!
  • lizzybathory
    lizzybathory Posts: 229
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    Just..
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