Overweight fitness instructors

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  • CipherZero
    CipherZero Posts: 1,418 Member
    What if these trainers have medical issues that prevent them from losing weight easily? PCOS, thyroid, etc? You never know what is going on in a person's life.

    I despise these excuses. 'harder' does not equate at all with 'impossible'.
  • GatorDeb1
    GatorDeb1 Posts: 245 Member


    That was just in fun. I've been overweight my whole life. I would never make fun of someone else for being in the same boat. I wasn't calling anyone a lardbutt and never would. I said "if" they were. Hey. I'm nearly obese in my BMI and not one to point fingers or call names. It was supposed to be in jest. I admit I'm a little warped, but usually in the self-deprecating manor. I tell my friends I shop in the "fat lady section". It isn't a blow to anyone else. Just my own way of being silly. I (heart) overweight fitness instructors. And firemen. And teachers...

    Ok we can be friends then :laugh:
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    What if these trainers have medical issues that prevent them from losing weight easily? PCOS, thyroid, etc? You never know what is going on in a person's life.

    I despise these excuses. 'harder' does not equate at all with 'impossible'.
    i agree with this.
  • thepandapost
    thepandapost Posts: 117 Member
    I had a slightly over weight instructor back in the day when I used to do aerobics. He was fit though, high energy and would say hilarious things to motivate people such as, "slim is in and fat is out!"... and when someone was struggling (normally a thin girl), he would say, "You are fat on the inside! let's go!"... Everyone appreciated him because he was obviously fat and saying all this was just hilarious. Another very ripped instructor tried this approach and the members didn't take unto him too kindly... lol. The point of the matter is, if the instructor is fit and know how to energize the class, I'll definitely sign up to join. However, if the instructor is ripped and doesn't engage or motivate the class, I will not join. I prefer a high intensity class, no matter who is teaching.

    Same here. I took a Zumba class once with an instructor who was a bit overweight and her class was 10x better/harder/intense than another instructor who the majority here would consider "fit".
  • tallgirlshelley
    tallgirlshelley Posts: 108 Member


    That was just in fun. I've been overweight my whole life. I would never make fun of someone else for being in the same boat. I wasn't calling anyone a lardbutt and never would. I said "if" they were. Hey. I'm nearly obese in my BMI and not one to point fingers or call names. It was supposed to be in jest. I admit I'm a little warped, but usually in the self-deprecating manor. I tell my friends I shop in the "fat lady section". It isn't a blow to anyone else. Just my own way of being silly. I (heart) overweight fitness instructors. And firemen. And teachers...

    Ok we can be friends then :laugh:

    Yay! :)
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I was in Japan in the Early 70's. Studying Karate under a person the was not only a Master, but would be considered obese by today's standards.

    I didn't have the ability to choose who I studied under back then, but if I hadn't had the Master Fusei Kise as an instructor, I wouldn't be as good as I am today, 42 years later.

    Google him. He's still around.

    Try to look past the superficial, people.
  • rosebette
    rosebette Posts: 1,660 Member
    I just did classes two days in a row with a substitute instructor. She is a Latina with a "thick" body. Yesterday was supposed to be pilates, but she called it "core"; we were doing crunches and planks until we ached. Today, kickboxing, and she knocked us out. Also, certain ethnicities have heavier body types; does that mean we shouldn't train with them? A heavier body does not always mean an unfit one.
  • meshashesha2012
    meshashesha2012 Posts: 8,329 Member
    I just did classes two days in a row with a substitute instructor. She is a Latina with a "thick" body. Yesterday was supposed to be pilates, but she called it "core"; we were doing crunches and planks until we ached. Today, kickboxing, and she knocked us out. Also, certain ethnicities have heavier body types; does that mean we shouldn't train with them? A heavier body does not always mean an unfit one.

    ummm...

    wow....

    :huh:
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    I just did classes two days in a row with a substitute instructor. She is a Latina with a "thick" body. Yesterday was supposed to be pilates, but she called it "core"; we were doing crunches and planks until we ached. Today, kickboxing, and she knocked us out. Also, certain ethnicities have heavier body types; does that mean we shouldn't train with them? A heavier body does not always mean an unfit one.

    ummm...

    wow....

    :huh:

    Remember, that one time, Arnold said latinas have very hot blood.
  • efwolfcub
    efwolfcub Posts: 99 Member
    Actually the skinny doctor who has never struggled with their weight and who don't understand the challenges are some of the worst at counseling patients on weight loss. My previous Doc was like that totally clueless when it came to weight management. Just didn't get it.

    This, this and so much this. Fitness instructor that weighs about what I need to lose? My "First Impression" (since they are what we're talking about here) is that he/she has no idea what someone of my size is struggling with and is, at best, not going to connect with me in any material fashion, and (more likely) is going to intimidate the hell out of me or make me feel unwelcome.

    I think the idea that a fitness instructor should be close to a perfect example is honestly offensive. Should they be a great teacher at what they're teaching? absolutely. can they do that and be 100# overweight - you better believe it. Fitness instruction is about 70% personality, 30% actual skills (that's not meant to be a jab at instructors, quite the opposite, in fact). If an instructor can't connect and motivate their students, then they can't do their job, no matter how skinny/fat they are.

    Personally - I'll give anyone a chance, but a "shining example of fitness" is going to have a much harder time connecting with people that need the most help.
  • cdoesthehula
    cdoesthehula Posts: 141 Member
    Possibly not the same thing, but I once did a beginner's badminton class. This was before I put on my weight.

    The instructor was overweight. She had a belly. She was in her late fifties.

    I was paired up with a very fit young woman, and we played as a team against her on her own.

    She slaughtered us.

    Fit people don't have to be skinny.
  • VelveteenArabian
    VelveteenArabian Posts: 758 Member
    I just did classes two days in a row with a substitute instructor. She is a Latina with a "thick" body. Yesterday was supposed to be pilates, but she called it "core"; we were doing crunches and planks until we ached. Today, kickboxing, and she knocked us out. Also, certain ethnicities have heavier body types; does that mean we shouldn't train with them? A heavier body does not always mean an unfit one.

    Crunches and planks *are* core exercises. She was right to call them that.

    And seriously... you should maybe get some more exposure to more types of people. Your "logic" about "certain ethnicities" is incredibly misinformed.

    I'm a chubby girl because I made bad food decisions, not because of my race.
  • No it wouldn't make a difference to me.

    I have been exercising since childhood. I have taken some dance classes from instructors of all different sizes. For me it is about the class. I am one of the bigger dancers in my area but, I still can take an advanced dance class like someone who is a different size than myself.

    That is the thing about some people just because you gained weight from not exercising doesn't mean that others trying to lose weight have done the same. Everyone's story is different. Honestly, I think my activity has save me from getting high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and Diabetes. Plus, I agree with the comments about that they were a higher weight. Being that everyone is different not everyone ends up being "tight" after they completed their goal. I know even for myself I am not expecting this.

    This is why I have shielded myself from going to gym workout classes. When I was lighter even I had this instructor peg me for being an inexperienced person with working out made a stupid comment. But, the smaller new people in class were told they should be fine. They couldn't even make it through 20 minutes. It is hard to get over it because I keep having the "well she is fat she must not know what she is doing" experience.

    Size does not equal stamina or health. It is just a size.
  • rosebette
    rosebette Posts: 1,660 Member
    I just did classes two days in a row with a substitute instructor. She is a Latina with a "thick" body. Yesterday was supposed to be pilates, but she called it "core"; we were doing crunches and planks until we ached. Today, kickboxing, and she knocked us out. Also, certain ethnicities have heavier body types; does that mean we shouldn't train with them? A heavier body does not always mean an unfit one.

    Crunches and planks *are* core exercises. She was right to call them that.

    And seriously... you should maybe get some more exposure to more types of people. Your "logic" about "certain ethnicities" is incredibly misinformed.

    I'm a chubby girl because I made bad food decisions, not because of my race.

    I put "core" in quotes because the name of the class was originally pilates. I am aware that all of these things are core exercises.

    I'm sorry I didn't intend any disrespect. These women (some women in the class, including the instructor)would be considered "overweight" but were also larger framed and "curvier." Does this mean they are that way because they have different body types or because they have bad eating habits? I have even seen posts from Latina women on this site post about the cultural differences in what is an appropriate body type (U.S. culture vs. Latin culture) for a woman. I was not trying to denigrate a certain ethnicity.

    I teach a wide variety of students of diverse nationalities in my profession , and I would say different ethnicities often have different body types. For instance, I'm considered petite, but I teach Asian students my height who have wrists half the circumference of mine. Does that mean Asians are small because they eat less?
  • fairygirlpie9
    fairygirlpie9 Posts: 288 Member
    Prior to this thread I certainly would've raised an eyebrow or two at the thought of a larger person teaching a class because the physique of my instructor has always had an influence on whether or not I regularly attended that class. However, this thread has caused me to realise that I shouldn't be so quick to judge and that I should look at how beneficial the class was to me as an individual and not the instructor.
  • The only way I'm receiving fitness instruction from a hefty is if they are a powerlifter.

    Squat, bench, dead: check ma form, bro. I need to get fatstrong.
  • missiontofitness
    missiontofitness Posts: 4,059 Member
    Nope.
    My Zumba instructor isn't stick thin, but that girl can move like nobody's business. I like it because she has a similar body type to everyone else in the class, and can get us all worked up in a sweat, and keep up the workout for the entire 50 minutes. It really motivates me, because if she can do it, there's no reason I can't.


    As long as you're teaching me the class well, you can be 90lbs or 900lbs for all I care.
  • LINIA
    LINIA Posts: 1,159 Member
    Summertime_Girl makes an excellent point!
    Personally, it says to me that the trainers can't even get fit with their workouts. How do they expect participants to get fit? Nope, no overweight trainers.
  • I see a lot of overweight fitness instructors. I've seen more of that than actual fit instructors. To me fitness and nutrition should go hand in hand and I want an instructor who is health conscious in all areas, not just going to the gym. For me it's cool to be strong if that's your only goal but if I'm dedicating that much time to working out, I want to look like it. I want to feel and LOOK good. But everyone has different goals.
  • Dgydad
    Dgydad Posts: 104 Member
    Can he/she do the job properly? If so, I'd have no issue and neither should you. If that's not the case, you are the one w/ the problem. Unless the job is nutirtion education, you need to move beyond your personal biases.................
  • Bry_Fitness70
    Bry_Fitness70 Posts: 2,480 Member
    What if these trainers have medical issues that prevent them from losing weight easily? PCOS, thyroid, etc? You never know what is going on in a person's life.

    I despise these excuses. 'harder' does not equate at all with 'impossible'.

    The myth of a flawed metabolism is such an enabling crutch. We take issues that affect a handful of people and imagine that they are plaguing all who are obese. In a vast majority of cases, weight issues are derived from eating too many calories.
  • Bry_Fitness70
    Bry_Fitness70 Posts: 2,480 Member
    If you are legendary coach, like those in pro sports, your physical condition is irrelevant. However, if you are a local personal trainer that is the business of dispensing advice on fitness and nutrition, I don't see how you can rationalize being overweight.
  • caterpillardreams
    caterpillardreams Posts: 476 Member
    If this was asked a couple years ago, I would have said yes, it is a turn off to see an overweight instructor.

    There is a female trainer at my gym who I would say is at least 50+ lbs overweight. I've done a couple of her spin classes though, and let me tell you, she is a machine! I know she's doing high resistance, and has lots of hill climbs & sprints thrown in and never sounds winded. I haven't worked with her one on one, but I think she does power lifting with her clients.

    If I walked into a class now and the instructor was overweight, I might be a bit dubious, but I would give him/her a chance. They might really know their stuff and have a good fitness level. Maybe, like me, their diet just isn't where it should be. If I like the class and can push myself to get a good workout, how they look doesn't really matter. I've done other classes with "in shape" instructors and they were awful classes.

    Same here an instructor I know is also a bit overweight but she has an amazing endurance. Its unbelievable. I may have judged before but now I know better. You may not know who you can learn from. So if someone else judges without first taking a chance and seeing for themselves they may miss out on something amazing.
  • _whatsherface
    _whatsherface Posts: 1,235 Member
    Depends on how overweight. People need to realize that bodies come in all shapes, sizes and forms. Not everyone is going to look like that "perfect" trainer you think they should and it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Are they educated in what they're doing? Do they give YOU a good work out? Do you enjoy the session, their personality, their drive? We have no idea what's going on in their lives. Where they are, or even where they came from. Whose to say that person didn't weight 300 lbs before and changed their life around and still has some weight to lose and wants to inspire others? I think it's fine to have over weight instructors. Give the gym some diversity and maybe help with the people who have body issues. I think an over weight instructor could probably pull out a lot more over weight people then a super fit one. Some people are easily intimidated. But really, I think it all boils down too did you feel like YOU got a good work out?
  • meerkat70
    meerkat70 Posts: 4,605 Member
    It's a fitness instructor, right? Not a fatloss instructor. If they're fit, and they know their subject, what does it matter if they're carrying extra weight?
  • azwen
    azwen Posts: 237 Member
    That's true, I don't know if she's bulking up right now. But she's looked the same way for about a year that I've been working out at the gym. It's not really my business, but I was just answering the question honestly. After seeing lots of "fit-looking" trainers, I was a little surprised that she didn't fit that image, but then figured if she's being paid to be a trainer she must be qualified. My guess was that maybe she used to be even heavier, and was still working on losing weight. But you may be right, too, that she is bulking up.
  • Dgydad
    Dgydad Posts: 104 Member
    Can he/she do the job properly? If so, I'd have no issue and neither should you. If that's not the case, you are the one w/ the problem. Unless the job is nutirtion education, you need to move beyond your personal biases.................

    It's been brought to my attention that some folks found the above comment offensive. That was not my intent; and I apologize. The OP's statement, in my opinion, is suffused with a "soft" bigotry toward overweight people. I perceive it thusly b/c I have personally witnessed such bias on a number of occaisions. To me, the suggestion that a person is incapable of professional conduct because they are heavy is no less offensive than to suggest that a chef can't do "soul food" because they are white, or that a woman can't competently discuss the NFL because she can't be a player. I really don't know if that's what the OP intended, but it's the way it resonated with me, and that's what I was focusing on with my original statement.
  • trojan_bb
    trojan_bb Posts: 699 Member
    If you are legendary coach, like those in pro sports, your physical condition is irrelevant. However, if you are a local personal trainer that is the business of dispensing advice on fitness and nutrition, I don't see how you can rationalize being overweight.

    exactly. I may get some flack for stating this on MFP, but being a normal weight is not difficult. It's not. Eating and basic discipline is not a fundamentally challenging thing. ESPECIALLY if you are already IN the gym for 4-12 hours a day. They can't workout for 1 hour and stop shoving food down and just be a normal weight? Looking like a fitness competitor is one thing, being non overweight is another.

    If you have an impeccable client list, then by all means, look however you wish. But 99& of "trainers" have no real accomplished clients or transformations, minimal education. For those who are building their resume, how about just at least LOOK semi fit?

    Business is business. Demonstrate your product prior to the sale or have a world class background. Every other industry gets this point.
  • Carnivor0us
    Carnivor0us Posts: 1,752 Member
    Kinda like going to a dentist that has bad teeth? Maybe like asking a fat doctor about weight loss?

    You live in a town with two dentists.
    One has good teeth, the other has bad teeth. Which one do you go to?

    Hahaha got beaten to the answer
  • llamajenn
    llamajenn Posts: 34 Member
    If you are legendary coach, like those in pro sports, your physical condition is irrelevant. However, if you are a local personal trainer that is the business of dispensing advice on fitness and nutrition, I don't see how you can rationalize being overweight.

    exactly. I may get some flack for stating this on MFP, but being a normal weight is not difficult. It's not. Eating and basic discipline is not a fundamentally challenging thing. ESPECIALLY if you are already IN the gym for 4-12 hours a day. They can't workout for 1 hour and stop shoving food down and just be a normal weight? Looking like a fitness competitor is one thing, being non overweight is another.

    If you have an impeccable client list, then by all means, look however you wish. But 99& of "trainers" have no real accomplished clients or transformations, minimal education. For those who are building their resume, how about just at least LOOK semi fit?

    Business is business. Demonstrate your product prior to the sale or have a world class background. Every other industry gets this point.

    It definitely helps to "look the part." However, there is a difference between fitness instructor and trainer. Most fitness instructors I know don't do this full-time. They may only teach a few hours a week and otherwise lead a "regular" life. This is true for some trainers as well.