what do you first notice in the opposite sex?

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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Face and shoulders. I love broad shoulders on a man. :love:

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  • TORNATO1
    TORNATO1 Posts: 52 Member
    Bewbs haha
    LMAO...glad you were the first. I was afraid of being accused of being piggish and superficial so...

    Hooray for being piggish and superficial!

    Why thankyou sir lol.
  • DPruneda17
    DPruneda17 Posts: 124 Member
    I look at what they are wearing. You can tell alot about someone by what shoes they wear. And of course their face, smile, teeth, and hair... And their fingernails. If they are cut and clean! Hmmm, guess I'm kinda picky... :smile:
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    Physical attributes are pretty much all over the chart for me (eyes, hands, shoulders, smile, the usual)....I notice more how a guy is, if that makes sense. If he's laughing, smiling, how he holds himself, things like that. Otherwise, I'm a sucker for a quick wit and random humor. Lol.
  • gooteek
    gooteek Posts: 64
    For the personality part, How they carry themselves and act towards others around them.
    For the attraction part, well, situational; I like balance of all the elements, body, smile, teeth, hair, dress and makeup use. An awesome body with bad teeth or a great smile but one that doesn't take care of themselves all tend to have me move on. Like I said each case is different. An awesome personality and nice smile can negate other problems areas sometime, but it really is a balance and case by case situation for me.
  • mamagooskie
    mamagooskie Posts: 2,964 Member
    Looks in general. I like to check out the eyes (color especially) lip fullness, how big of biceps, chest etc, tattoos, hair style.

    I give a quick once over and unless something is completely striking and amazing or terribly discusting I don't think I have any one actual thing I notice first.

    a beer gut is hard to miss though!!
  • Wendi_S
    Wendi_S Posts: 489 Member
    For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage - second is his smile- needs to be sincere and friendly- finally it's his shoes- no duck taped cowboy boots please ;-) Oh and another big plus is if he is well groomed- clean shaven or neatly trimmed facial hair- and especially a clean and neat neck line..... nothing worst than a 'summer sweater' that includes a hood!! oh and speaking of 'summer sweaters' no one ever died from a little manscaping ;-)
  • kelligonzales
    kelligonzales Posts: 391
    Swagger for sure
  • Stefani74
    Stefani74 Posts: 448 Member
    Eyes and smile!!
  • FAKECED
    FAKECED Posts: 61
    The eyes
  • heavenrain
    heavenrain Posts: 36 Member
    Teeth first. Then eyes and smile.
  • appleshells
    appleshells Posts: 165
    Eyes. Then his shoes, you can tell so much about a man by the kind of shoes he wears.

    And I am gonna be the girl who goes there.......I notice womens butts.
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage
    Ironic coming from someone with 3883661_5775_thumb.jpg in their profile. LMAO.gif
  • Wendi_S
    Wendi_S Posts: 489 Member
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    And I am gonna be the girl who goes there.......I notice womens butts.
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    Oh on a woman I notice her boobs- always comparing the size to mine LOL Are they real or not? And if she is wearing a good support bra!! Nothing worse than a woman with her nips past her belly button.... support support support!!!!! It's all in the support!!
  • Wendi_S
    Wendi_S Posts: 489 Member
    For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage
    Ironic coming from someone with 3883661_5775_thumb.jpg in their profile. LMAO.gif

    stealing my pics I see! It's not like I'm walking around wearing a bikini all the time..... and that pic is there to remind me what I am fighting for......
  • TakeOne
    TakeOne Posts: 345 Member
    As far as physical stuff, I notice a nice smile :bigsmile: (teeth, mouth, the whole deal) and I am a sucker for a guy with nice arms and shoulders (nothing extreme, nothing crazy, just strong).

    Personality wise, I notice somebody who is grounded, knows what they want, and is wity enough to get my attention :wink:
  • DPruneda17
    DPruneda17 Posts: 124 Member
    Eyes. Then his shoes, you can tell so much about a man by the kind of shoes he wears.

    And I am gonna be the girl who goes there.......I notice womens butts.

    haha! Don't we all?! Us women are great at appreciating other women... attributes! :happy:
  • Mrs_McFadden
    Mrs_McFadden Posts: 1,139
    Everything. I just cannot point out one thing. Voice..eyes, expression, hair..walk..arms..hands? It's not a single thing. Face is obviously prominent.
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    For me it's his eyes- they need to be bright and alive and not staring at my cleavage
    Ironic coming from someone with 3883661_5775_thumb.jpg in their profile. LMAO.gif

    stealing my pics I see! It's not like I'm walking around wearing a bikini all the time..... and that pic is there to remind me what I am fighting for......
    I just appreciate the irony...that's it.

    ...and I can certainly delete it out of my PB...I was just making a point. angel.gif
  • TrainerRobin
    TrainerRobin Posts: 509 Member
    Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

    A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

    I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:
  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    personality: confidence
    physical: eyes, but not so much how attractive the eyes are vs. how expressive a guy can be with them
  • sparklesammy
    sparklesammy Posts: 465 Member
    Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

    A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

    I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:


    awww....yes totally!
  • TORNATO1
    TORNATO1 Posts: 52 Member
    lol
  • shanolap
    shanolap Posts: 1,204 Member
    personality: confidence
    physical: eyes, but not so much how attractive the eyes are vs. how expressive a guy can be with them

    Now that's what turns me on about the opposite sex!
  • kiannlouise
    kiannlouise Posts: 310 Member
    their eyes and smile :)
    they have to have good teeth!
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

    A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

    I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:
    I always open the door for a lady. I get some awful glares sometimes, like i am implying they are incapable.
  • jnicke
    jnicke Posts: 6 Member
    I would have to say their face, which is eyes, nose and mouth. Obviously nice teeth. After that, I think its how a man holds himself, level of confidence is big. I really do love nice shoulders and arms. Its what makes a man a man, after all....:)
  • vzepol
    vzepol Posts: 131 Member
    The smile
  • suziehomemaker
    suziehomemaker Posts: 116
    Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

    A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

    I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:
    I always open the door for a lady. I get some awful glares sometimes, like i am implying they are incapable.

    love it when a man is courteous....chivalry is not dead yet......i LOVE EVERYTHING about a man....i like admiring women too....im not afraid to tell another women that she looks great:smooched:
  • ArchyJill
    ArchyJill Posts: 548 Member
    Handshake! Yes, I shake a lot of hands in my job...the handshake says it all for me.
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