what do you first notice in the opposite sex?

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  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    Damn, my crush thread really caused some chaos!

    It depends on the person for me. If they have an amazing smile, I notice their smile. If they have a nice build, I notice that. If it's a girl, it is the same, but mostly the legs and stomach area...I like both genders.
  • pinksocks73
    pinksocks73 Posts: 86
    Physically? Shoulders. God I love me some broad shoulders!

    After that it's how he treats others...esp his waitress.
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    Physically? Shoulders. God I love me some broad shoulders!

    After that it's how he treats others...esp his waitress.

    Broad shoulders...umph.
  • jay586
    jay586 Posts: 133
    Bewbs haha
    LMAO...glad you were the first. I was afraid of being accused of being piggish and superficial so...

    Hooray for being piggish and superficial!

    I have to confess that I will look at ladies profiles here as well to see if they have taken a picture of their butt. :embarassed:
    me too
  • pinksocks73
    pinksocks73 Posts: 86
    I gotta know that his shoulders can take what my eh....legs are gonna do to em. That's about the nicest way I can put it ;)
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    Bewbs haha
    LMAO...glad you were the first. I was afraid of being accused of being piggish and superficial so...

    Hooray for being piggish and superficial!

    I have to confess that I will look at ladies profiles here as well to see if they have taken a picture of their butt. :embarassed:
    me too

    <3 boobies, not gonna lie. And butts. But only girls, I think guys butts are awkward..
  • sparklesammy
    sparklesammy Posts: 465 Member
    yeah....i realise that when i'm casually people watching i am much more interested in what women look like than men....i guess because we are just more interesting....

    i am drawn to interesting bags and shoes and accessories....i am like a wee magpie! drawn to the shiny glint!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I gotta know that his shoulders can take what my eh....legs are gonna do to em. That's about the nicest way I can put it ;)

    thud.gif
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    I gotta know that his shoulders can take what my eh....legs are gonna do to em. That's about the nicest way I can put it ;)

    thud.gif

    Lmao.
  • kbubp
    kbubp Posts: 19 Member
    this
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    come on he said the first thing, you never notice anything about personality as the first thing
    for me is butt and small waist :P
  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    personality: confidence
    physical: eyes, but not so much how attractive the eyes are vs. how expressive a guy can be with them

    Now that's what turns me on about the opposite sex!

    great taste! :flowerforyou:
  • Karleyyy
    Karleyyy Posts: 857
    Shoulders and arms, my husband's are HUGE even when he hasn't worked out in a while. It's soooo hot.

    Yeah arms are a big one for me too!!


    Okay...I love arms. Tanned arms. My ex was blonde and tan, so his arms were just......:love:
  • pinksocks73
    pinksocks73 Posts: 86
    OK maybe you don't notice anything about personality first, but I can tell you that within 5 mins of meeting someone, I know whether or not I want to get to know them more.

    So....since we are being tech-y-nical: shoulders. If your shoulders don't look like a good resting spot for my ankles or calves....cya!
  • pinksocks73
    pinksocks73 Posts: 86
    LOL
  • MizzTy
    MizzTy Posts: 11
    his teeth have to be white because i cant stand kissing a guy with yellow teeth eww
  • jamiesgotagun
    jamiesgotagun Posts: 670 Member
    Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.

    A sincere, great smile goes a LONG way, too! The combo? Unbeatable!

    I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:
    I always open the door for a lady. I get some awful glares sometimes, like i am implying they are incapable.

    We are teaching our 5 year old son to hold the door for people and it is amazing how rude people are!!
  • rdy2begin
    rdy2begin Posts: 170
    Eyes...Smile and def personality can have nice looks but personality is a MUST ;)
  • abyt42
    abyt42 Posts: 1,358 Member
    Grammar.
  • chickadee2010
    chickadee2010 Posts: 1,389 Member
    Chivalry. It's a big deal for me that a man be a man (in my view) and it's a good sign of his character if he's a gentleman. It's big time points if they stand up to give an elderly person their seat, open the door for someone struggling to get through, etc.
    I'm old fashioned that way, I guess. :smooched:
    I SO agree with you!! I love it when they actually act like a man. Nice behavior will get you anywhere.
  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    OK maybe you don't notice anything about personality first, but I can tell you that within 5 mins of meeting someone, I know whether or not I want to get to know them more.

    So....since we are being tech-y-nical: shoulders. If your shoulders don't look like a good resting spot for my ankles or calves....cya!

    Lol got shoulder workout planned for tonite
  • annieinna
    annieinna Posts: 4
    mine is the teeth and smile....
  • pinksocks73
    pinksocks73 Posts: 86
    OK maybe you don't notice anything about personality first, but I can tell you that within 5 mins of meeting someone, I know whether or not I want to get to know them more.

    So....since we are being tech-y-nical: shoulders. If your shoulders don't look like a good resting spot for my ankles or calves....cya!

    Lol got shoulder workout planned for tonite


    HAHAHAHAHAHA. I think you just became my MFP crush!
  • TheMollusk
    TheMollusk Posts: 44
    Hmm, her face. Nothing specifically..Eyes, hair, lips :P
  • Ida13
    Ida13 Posts: 19 Member
    Attitude..... mmm.... not quite the right word... but the way a man carries himself.... confident (not arrogant), relaxed, happy-in-his-own-skin kinda body language. It's the kind of thing where you know you'll like the person even when just passing in the street. The men in my life had come in all shapes and sizes, but they always stood out for that reason to me!
  • wolf23
    wolf23 Posts: 4,278 Member
    What kind of car they drive. (You didn't say it had to be physical) and yes I know i am superficial, but you can tell a lot about somebody by what they drive and the condition of their vehicle. :laugh:
  • mentalbeat
    mentalbeat Posts: 104 Member
    What bike they are riding and how many gears does it have. Then when they see me checking out their bike I get a chance to check the smile.
  • sarahTV
    sarahTV Posts: 65 Member
    I guess I'm the weird one, I notice a guys flaws...like if he has crooked teeth or crazy hair or a beer gut...it doesn't really make a difference to me, but it is the first thing I notice.

    Maybe it makes them appear more approachable if they're flawed :blushing:
  • MontanaB
    MontanaB Posts: 439 Member
    being a shortie i notice height first - i like to reach up on my tiptoes for a hug/kiss :)
    after that its smile and the eyes
  • ladybu6205
    ladybu6205 Posts: 165 Member
    Physical attributes are pretty much all over the chart for me (eyes, hands, shoulders, smile, the usual)....I notice more how a guy is, if that makes sense. If he's laughing, smiling, how he holds himself, things like that. Otherwise, I'm a sucker for a quick wit and random humor. Lol.

    I think this fits me to a T also... For me it's more how they present themselves and how they treat others before looks. I've dated ugly guys before, I've dated good looking guys... Personality is most important to me. I want them to make me feel special, make me laugh, carry a meaningful conversation, yet at the same time be able to be themselves, and allow me to be myself also...
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