what do you first notice in the opposite sex?

I check the whole person!:)

Everything. I just cannot point out one thing. Voice..eyes, expression, hair..walk..arms..hands? It's not a single thing. Face is obviously prominent.

Voice is a good one too! :bigsmile:

Monotone and nasally do anything for ya?

Everything. I just cannot point out one thing. Voice..eyes, expression, hair..walk..arms..hands? It's not a single thing. Face is obviously prominent.

Voice is a good one too! :bigsmile:

Shannon u dirty bird
*giggles*
I thought you were going to say a man that owns a vineyard :ohwell: :flowerforyou:

If he does, then I don't care if he looks like Quasimodo and talks like Richard Simmons. :embarassed:

He's mine! :bigsmile:

Everything. I just cannot point out one thing. Voice..eyes, expression, hair..walk..arms..hands? It's not a single thing. Face is obviously prominent.

Voice is a good one too! :bigsmile:

Monotone and nasally do anything for ya?

Do you own a vineyard?? :smokin:

I think this fits me to a T also... For me it's more how they present themselves and how they treat others before looks. I've dated ugly guys before, I've dated good looking guys... Personality is most important to me. I want them to make me feel special, make me laugh, carry a meaningful conversation, yet at the same time be able to be themselves, and allow me to be myself also...

Exactly. Biggest turn off is someone that wants me to be someone I'm not. :noway:

What kind of car they drive. (You didn't say it had to be physical) and yes I know i am superficial, but you can tell a lot about somebody by what they drive and the condition of their vehicle. :laugh:

Or lack of a car..... I don't think it's superficial at all. There really is alot to be said about a man who has a car that runs, is clean, and he doesn't ask you if he can hide it from the repo man in your garage. I don't care if its a pinto or a mercedes.

I first notice swagger.... How does he address me? How does he carry himself? Is he cool yet still polite and respectful? Can he carry an adult conversation? Is he using lines off a cheesy pick up website or is he actually funny? Can he look me in the eye? And is he a racist or political meanie?

These things mean the world to me. (I can usually tell all of the above in the first meeting. Including the car and whether or not he lives with his mom.):laugh:

Well, I got to say I like looks but they're not that important to me I'm more of an intellectual type I would have to go talk to the guy. Cause some guys look hot but are total jerks,Ok? So if they are kind and sweet then the rest doesn't really matter.

What kind of car they drive. (You didn't say it had to be physical) and yes I know i am superficial, but you can tell a lot about somebody by what they drive and the condition of their vehicle. :laugh:

Or lack of a car..... I don't think it's superficial at all. There really is alot to be said about a man who has a car that runs, is clean, and he doesn't ask you if he can hide it from the repo man in your garage. I don't care if its a pinto or a mercedes.

I first notice swagger.... How does he address me? How does he carry himself? Is he cool yet still polite and respectful? Can he carry an adult conversation? Is he using lines off a cheesy pick up website or is he actually funny? Can he look me in the eye? And is he a racist or political meanie?

These things mean the world to me. (I can usually tell all of the above in the first meeting. Including the car and whether or not he lives with his mom.):laugh:

Yeah thats what I was trying to say if they can talk to me and respect me like a woman and not just something he wants to hit and run then I'm pretty much happy.

I would have to say a great smile is the first thing I notice. One because it shows the teeth and the lips. He MUST have good lips to kiss.

I always notice the way they carry themselves... If they are confident, that is the FIRST thing I notice , I prefer men, that feel secure with who they are, so its nothing psychical , because ALL of that can and WILL change over time,..