This is NOT a dating site!

I like big butts and I cannot lie......

Oh wait wrong thread.....this is the no dating thread

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Wow so many replies I wonder how many people actually checked for you on Match.com...... super tactic.

No I will not make out with you. Did ya hear that? this girl wants to make out with me in the middle of class. You got Chlorophyll Man up there talking about God knows what and all she can talk about is making out with me. I'm here to learn, everybody, not to make out with you. Go on with the chlorophyll.

LOL that's a good one Gorilla!!

dont ask.

So wait-- I start a topic yesterday that asks men for their opinion on the use of smileys in other communication with men, that really went back and forth rather harmlessly, and Mike shuts that one down....but he has no problem with this one.

Yo, Mike-- ridiculous, buddy.

....or maybe someone reported your bigoted comment about homosexuals?

So wait... you're upset that guys are hitting on you so you told everyone on the website about it? Doesn't sound like you're annoyed, sounds like you're bragging to me.

@Halobender: ITA, yes, I've seen women that are absolutely lecherous on here and everywhere. Being salacious isn't the province of only men.


To whoever it was several pages back that said something along the lines of (paraphrasing here) you evil adults for bashing an innocent kid for her opinions..blah blah.

Said, innocent kid, has surely been on the internet for a decent amount of time that she understands how to set up a thread topic on her own, didn't ask what BUMP is, has a FB, a computer or access and has probably been on the internet for a few years at least. Note that these are just observations of what is likely to be her experience with the internet at this point- not a justification for anyone to accost her rudely on the internet - but that IS what happens on forums all over the net. Particularly if you set up your thread as a confrontation which she obviously did.

She seems to have handled all of it well and with humor from what I can see- a lot of people in this thread are simply playing around and there are actual posts that are debating the merits of different viewpoints (I did both). I don't even understand why people would be shocked that this topic would be so popular...her title is accusatory and has an exclamation mark and just screams drama...that will attract people on any forum.

This type of topic pops up at least every other week here on MFP- so yes- a lot of us who have been here and hang out on the forums have seen this over and over again. I find it quite hilarious. As one of my friends said on our profiles ..any site with three people on it is in essence a dating site. This is a social networking site for ostensibly furthering our 'weight loss goals' (btw I find it incredibly cheesy to walk around saying that...makes me lol all the time) with ADULTS. Anytime adults get together..attractions happen. Appropriate or not- they just do. Part of growing up and being an adult is learning how to deal with this with grace if at all possible. There is zero point in trying to change everyone else about issues like these- you just have yourself to be responsible for. You can only 'control' how you react to it and your own decisions. You can choose not to participate, change your avatar, just delete PM's and not even respond to them, or completely deactivate your account or just stay off the internet or just develop a thicker skin.

I do not think I'm being rude or egregious by pointing these things out ..whatsoever. I'm just being matter of factly. :flowerforyou:

P.S.
I'm looking for dudes with low esteem....this site is a diamond!

@Halobender: ITA, yes, I've seen women that are absolutely lecherous on here and everywhere. Being salacious isn't the province of only men.


To whoever it was several pages back that said something along the lines of (paraphrasing here) you evil adults for bashing an innocent kid for her opinions..blah blah.

Said, innocent kid, has surely been on the internet for a decent amount of time that she understands how to set up a thread topic on her own, didn't ask what BUMP is, has a FB, a computer or access and has probably been on the internet for a few years at least. Note that these are just observations of what is likely to be her experience with the internet at this point- not a justification for anyone to accost her rudely on the internet - but that IS what happens on forums all over the net. Particularly if you set up your thread as a confrontation which she obviously did.

She seems to have handled all of it well and with humor from what I can see- a lot of people in this thread are simply playing around and there are actual posts that are debating the merits of different viewpoints (I did both). I don't even understand why people would be shocked that this topic would be so popular...her title is accusatory and has an exclamation mark and just screams drama...that will attract people on any forum.

This type of topic pops up at least every other week here on MFP- so yes- a lot of us who have been here and hang out on the forums have seen this over and over again. I find it quite hilarious. As one of my friends said on our profiles ..any site with three people on it is in essence a dating site. This is a social networking site for ostensibly furthering our 'weight loss goals' (btw I find it incredibly cheesy to walk around saying that...makes me lol all the time) with ADULTS. Anytime adults get together..attractions happen. Appropriate or not- they just do. Part of growing up and being an adult is learning how to deal with this with grace if at all possible. There is zero point in trying to change everyone else about issues like these- you just have yourself to be responsible for. You can only 'control' how you react to it and your own decisions. You can choose not to participate, change your avatar, just delete PM's and not even respond to them, or completely deactivate your account or just stay off the internet or just develop a thicker skin.

I do not think I'm being rude or egregious by pointing these things out ..whatsoever. I'm just being matter of factly. :flowerforyou:

P.S.
I'm looking for dudes with low esteem....this site is a diamond!

:drinker:

This is the internet. All human life is here. Please stop being surprised when people act like people, love.

telll 'em like it is girl!