Just Starting, and family already annoyed.

Just come on MFP and tell us all about it!! lol

Oh yes. My husband would never say as much but I can see his eyes glazing over. Had my retinas scanned last week and went to supermarket after but eyes were blurry and couldn't read the labels. Husband had to read it all for me and it took about an hour to get a dozen items hahaha. Think he quite likes me being up early at weekends for the gym so he gets a lie in with the bed to himself tho

Barcode scanner? how am i missing this? is this on iphone4?

I've been very lucky because my husband has been very supportive, but I do find myself obsessing way more than I should. It hasn't gone away in nearly a month!

I've tried to obsess a little bit less, otherwise I will drive myself crazy!

I got my fiancee readling labels now, because of me. :laugh:

Just come on MFP and tell us all about it!! lol

AGREED! we're all here to listen and give feedback... he's just jealous he's not on top of it like you are hehe

My family/friends were annoyed at first too.... That was 2 years ago. Screw them. Take care of yourself.

In my case my boyfriend is trying to help me big time, since we mostly eat almost all our meals together. (This is where i believe a lot of my bad eating comes from and my weight gain because we are comfortable together, and when we once broke up for 4 months I lost almost 20lbs while watching what I eat, not that I'm putting all the blame on him I am the one who is eating the food!) But the only problem is when he is trying to help, he says things like "no", "do you really want to eat that", and I'm stubborn (there I said it!) and I hate when people tell me no or that I can't do something! So we are working out a way to come up with something, but still haven't found it.

I'm sorry to hear your support system isn't there. Maybe buddy up with someone on here, and chat about how your food dairy is going! Since we all want the same thing here! good luck with your weight loss! And if you want to chat feel free to message me, since this is like a new facebook for me! hehe

Oh yeah, my husband and I were in a 5 day no speaking jag a week or so ago. He's totally annoyed with all my calorie counting, label reading and exercising! I think he's jealous of me spending time doing something for me!

I was excited too when I started and wanted to share my success. Now, after 11 months, I only share if asked, because I learned people don't really want to hear if they are not ready. You can't force it on them, so explain if asked, continue to a deeper explanation if they seem interested and share it all with the people on MFP.

Wow. Too bad that he cannot see that you are just trying to get used to this new way of doing things and that you just need his support. If he will not give support, that is ok. That is what WE are for. Just voice your issues / concerns / hopes / successes / let downs, etc to us. Keep on keepin on!

Yep! I agree with what someone else said up at the top, STAY POSITIVE. Don't focus on the negative, with your family or with yourself. Having good experiences and sharing them will be beneficial with your family as well as hopefully, allowing them to jump on the bandwagon too because they see how great it can be.
I, too, have this "annoyance" problem with my family. They are always frustrated because they have to sit out some food without salt, pepper, bacon, etc, or when they order out, I'm very specific (dressing on the side, no sauce, extra greens and tomatoes, add...whatever, etc.). They are getting used to the fact that I just won't feed my body junk and expect it to perform and there are even times where they will joke and say, "You'd be so dissapointed, I had three brownies today." or "You'd be so proud, I skipped the seconds on the greasy lasagna today."
Just know that it will get easier and any time someone is varying outside what is expected of them, there are going to be people trying to pull them back in.... Stay Strong and (like someone else said), just come on here and tell US about it because Trust Me, We are all doing it too!

My daughter was annoyed when I first started. However, she has seen me drop the weight and she sees how much energy I have. She told me, "Mom, you look great. You've made me a believer." Now she's considering joining me.

It is easy to obsess over something you are passionate about. However, simply come online to the site and find other people (like us) who are just as passionate as you. We will always provide support and a positive attitude. :happy:


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I too have a very supportive husband; in fact it is really because of a recent health scare of his that got us both to make changes in a hurry. I think this time around will be easier for me as he is doing it all with me. We made the food changes, we cleaned out the pantry together, he reads labels more, understands why it may take me a bit longer in the grocery store, he works out with me and is keeping me motivated and from getting discouraged because I don't see the numbers dropping. Even when it was just me doing it last year, he was supportive; he made up log sheets for me so I could log everything I was eating and it helped but my big downfall had always been exercise - or shall I say - lack of it. Well I now have 3 different DVD's to work out with and my dad gave us the money to buy an elliptical; plus I have a set of 3 pound hand weights for me, 5 pound for hubby, resistance tube and body ball so we have enough things to use - it is just a matter of DOING IT.

Yes, i know what you mean.....I've been on this site for a week (lost 4 lbs this week !!! ) , and I love it. But, I too, have started receiving that "OMG, here she goes again" look when I start talking about it to my husband. But, you know what ? He reaps the benefits of a happier/healthier me, also. SO, he can just listen and be supportive. Last night we talked about going to Dairy Queen for icecream after running a few errands. At first I said yes, then after thinking about it a while, I changed my mind and told him I didn't want to go after all. He seemed kind of disappointed, but complied. I felt a little guilty, but not so much that I would jeopardize my progress because of it. I worked too hard this week for those 4 pounds ! Hang in there. If your spouse isn't enthusiastic and supportive, then find someone who is. I like this message board too. It's nice to read that others are having the same experiences, and to learn how they're dealing with it. Good luck to you.