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I really want to take time and thank all of the good and uplifting and encouraging responses I have received. It is nice to know that others of you have and are feeling the same way. I have a few good tid bits to try. This doesn't mean I am not still frustrated. It is hard to put in so much hard work for so long and not reap many rewards. I know now that there are a few things I lost focus of and a few I never knew to focus on.0
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I dont get this whole weight loss thing. You put in the work, and the results dont show. But look at your little lady bug...you have lost 14 pounds!!! That is nothing to take lightly. You earned every one of those pounds. There is something that needs tweeked. Somehow we have to find out what that is and it is going to melt away. I know its frustrating. But dont stop. Six months will go by before you know it. You can look back with regret wishing you would have kept going, or you can look at yourself and say dang, I look good!
Come on friends, lets try and help Kristen figure this out. Lets get the lady bug home!!!!
This is one of the sweetest things I have ever read on here.0 -
Keep going it's so worth it0
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You said you mix up your workouts which is good, but do you mix up your diet? I would try for one week to eat (almost) no processed foods. I know it sounds hard but if you're at the end of your rope and you're working out more than ever, I've got to say that your diet is the problem.
For 7 days:
- eat oatmeal for breakfast (not the prepackaged kind --> too much sugar)
- have lots of small snacks all day like almonds, a hard boiled egg, veggies with hummus, rice cakes, etc
- if you have to get fast food for lunch, order healthy. all of the chains have had to make serious changes to their menus and there are PLENTY of healthy options available, around 300 calories which is a good amount for lunch if you're eating lots of healthy snacks
- cook your own dinner! then you'll know what you're putting in your body, and follow the rule where half your plate should be veggies, 1/4 starch, and 1/4 meat
You'll probably find its cheaper to eat like this anyways (for example, 1 container of oatmeal is like $4 and gives you about 20-25 breakfast meals!) and you'll be much more full than you expected because of all the new fiber you'll be getting. Obviously this is my opinion and doesn't work for everyone. I know its tough to get started but its so worth it, don't give up!0 -
Looking back a few more days on your diary I see you do choose smart snacks and meals for the most part! I didn't look too far back so I don't know if these past couple days were just hectic and unusual for your habits but I still saw fast food on most days even if it was "just" dessert. So maybe for 7 days don't go to any fast food? I mean there's got to be some thing you're overlooking here, so might as well try to single some of them out and see if that scale drops!0
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I really feel like I have no reason to continue down the path of trying to lose weight. I am currently about 40 lbs over weight and have been on MFP for 3 months. I am seeing no results at all. I am no longer even seeing the little things to keep me going. I am working out harder than I have since college sports and I am eating the healthiest I have in my entire life but can't seem to lose anything. I am so discouraged and feel like there is no reason to continue. I give myself a free day every week, I vary my exercises, keep right around my net and under my goal 6 days a week. I work out 6-7 days a week and I have plateaued for the past 2 1/2 months. I lost weight right away but can't get past 201. This is so frustrating. I have always been able to lose weight in the past (between kids etc) but this time I can't. Not only has the scale gone up (today at 205) but my inches all over my body have gone up. It is so frustrating to do everything everyone tells me to, I work out more eat less and wayyyyy healthier and here I am still fat, no progres and frustrated. I would rather stay this weight and enjoy my fatty crappy foods again than work my butt off to stay this weight. I am really looking for a reason to not give up, because I am right there wondering why I should keep going.
When I first started working out, and eating right I actually gained weight, and I looked bigger. I discussed this with my wife, who is a personal trainer. She explained to me that my weight gain was because I was building muscle, and I looked bigger because the new muscle is pushing the visceral fat to the surface. This trend continued for about two months before I started to notice my waste line shrinking. It is possible you could be experiencing something similar. You even build muscle up to a certain point doing nothing but cardio. Also my wife doesn't let me weight myself that often, she says it often discourages people, so instead I take a progress picture every two weeks and compare them. This progress picture method has been a big help in keeping me motivated. Don't give up, show that despair an iron fist and bull through. Good luck.0 -
I am stronger and more fit that I have been for a long time . . I'm in my 50's. I finally got outside (first time this year . . it's been too cold) and ran 2.33 miles this morning at a 5 MPH pace and it seemed effortless. I could barely run a block this time last year and I weighed 30 lbs more than I do now.
OK Right there you inspired me to keep running...I started a variation of couch25k in february, am only up to running about 4 minutes at a time and I run really slow...but I just keep doing it...because in my 50s, I want to be able to run a couple miles and have it seem effortless
Thanks for sharing your success!0 -
Read this article and see what you think. " Understanding Weight Loss Plateaus
Obstacles to Strength, Endurance and Weight Loss"
http://exercise.about.com/cs/weightloss/a/weightplateaus.htm
Read it and this was awesome. #7 describes how I feel, so maybe I need to vary intensity and not push through days my body says not to.0 -
Sometimes it's not the calories, but rather the kind of food you are eating. The suggestions to take food & exercise diary to nutritionist or trainer is good. Don't give up! I went from doing not much exercise and eating crappy to running 20 miles a week and eating healthily. I thought I would lose the weight right away, but it took a solid 3 months and then I started seeing some results. You really just need to keep at it.
I agree a nutritionist can guide with a clearer understanding of what's healthy what's not and why.
When I checked out your diary. You seemed to have an awful lot of fast food and a lot sugar. (try tracking that for a while you'll see 1) a lot of foods that you wouldn't expect have a lot of sugar 2) sugar spurs your appetite, when you cut back it also cuts back your cravings.)
So you probably need just a little education to get on the right track.
I'm a big believer in small changes that you can maintain over a long time.
incorporate a few small things every couple of weeks and they become habits.
when you completely revamp your eating habits. You'll revert to old behaviors in times of stress.
& let's face it stress blindsides us all at times.0 -
When I first started working out, and eating right I actually gained weight, and I looked bigger. I discussed this with my wife, who is a personal trainer. She explained to me that my weight gain was because I was building muscle, and I looked bigger because the new muscle is pushing the visceral fat to the surface. This trend continued for about two months before I started to notice my waste line shrinking. It is possible you could be experiencing something similar. You even build muscle up to a certain point doing nothing but cardio. Also my wife doesn't let me weight myself that often, she says it often discourages people, so instead I take a progress picture every two weeks and compare them. This progress picture method has been a big help in keeping me motivated. Don't give up, show that despair an iron fist and bull through. Good luck.
Wow, thanks so much for the insight! I did take a pic about a week or two ago, I should check the date and do another in a couple weeks and see if there is a difference.0 -
Are you sure your HRM's are correct? If for any reason they are off then you would be eating too many calories per day. Also if I want to lose, I have to give up eating out except as a treat once a week. The sodium in restaurant food is SOOOOOOOOOO high! I would make it my mission to cook my own food so I know what is going in my body. Don't give up, there are other positives to a healthier lifestyle, number one, to be here with you family for as long as you can!!! How rewarding is that?0
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I looked back a few weeks in your diary, and it seems like most days you will have at LEAST one meal from a fast food restaurant (sometimes more). I'm sorry, but it's simply unrealistic to think that you will lose weight doing that, especially when a lot of your other calories are processed and nutritionally empty as well (Starbucks drinks, dressing, sugary yogurt, etc).
You really should try to get at the very least, 2 servings of vegetables at lunch and dinner, and LEAN protein at every meal. Its not just about counting calories, it's about getting quality calories that will provide you with the proper nutrients that your body needs.
Eat fruits, vegetables, fish, and chicken/turkey and I PROMISE you the weight loss will follow, provided you cut the junk and are exercising!0 -
Hi Kristin
I understand what it is like to plateau and feel like you are getting nowhere. I'm glad you opened up your diary - I've just had a look.
It seems to me that your daily intake is around 1400 - is that right? So in order for you to have good "calorie coverage" or distribution of energy throughout your day you should eat 5 small meals which you appear to be doing, but each of your meals should be no more than 280 calories, (1400 divided by 5 meals) unless you have exercised and then you can up it - but only a little. Otherwise your body doesnt have a chance to burn off the energy you give it before you feed it the next lot.
The other thing I have noticed is that there seems to be a lot of processed foods in your diary. My advice would be to get rid of them - you may fall under your calories presently but these types of foods will not give you good energy and help to burn fat - they will only create fat and slow your metabolism. The foods you need to stick to are things like salad, steamed vegetables, grainy cereals, no fat yoghurts, fresh meats (no bigger than your palm or around 150 grams per day), eggs, and of course, vitamins :-) No fizzy or cordial - only water. No starbucks coffee, only coffee you make at home. No takeaway foods or any food from a takeaway store - fresh is always best. That doesnt mean you can't still go out to eat every once in a while, but personally I try to limit my temptations while losing weight. Once you reach your goal and go into maintenance, you can allow yourself a bit more, but always in moderation.
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Best of luck - don't give up! That isn't an option if you want to lose weight :-)0 -
Well sorry if this has been mentioned a million times already (I don't feel like reading through 6 pages to find out!) but you ought to see a doctor and explain all of that and see if your problem isn't thyroid related. A good friend had something similar going on and had placed a lot of blame on herself and got really depressed about it before she finally saw a doctor and got some meds for her thyroid condition and slimmed right down. Worth checking out!0
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I give myself a free day every week
Do you mean free to eat whatever you want or a day free from exercise? If it is the former, that could be the problem.
There's one thing you can tweek. Cut that out!
And then get to a MD to see if any hormonal issues are happening (thyroid or others). Some meds side effects aren't that nice to us, either. So review it all and bring the printouts of your diary and workouts. Also I agree with some posting to eat enough, and make sure everything is accurate. Including measuring and weighing food.0 -
You said you mix up your workouts which is good, but do you mix up your diet? I would try for one week to eat (almost) no processed foods. I know it sounds hard but if you're at the end of your rope and you're working out more than ever, I've got to say that your diet is the problem.
For 7 days:
- eat oatmeal for breakfast (not the prepackaged kind --> too much sugar)
- have lots of small snacks all day like almonds, a hard boiled egg, veggies with hummus, rice cakes, etc
- if you have to get fast food for lunch, order healthy. all of the chains have had to make serious changes to their menus and there are PLENTY of healthy options available, around 300 calories which is a good amount for lunch if you're eating lots of healthy snacks
- cook your own dinner! then you'll know what you're putting in your body, and follow the rule where half your plate should be veggies, 1/4 starch, and 1/4 meat
You'll probably find its cheaper to eat like this anyways (for example, 1 container of oatmeal is like $4 and gives you about 20-25 breakfast meals!) and you'll be much more full than you expected because of all the new fiber you'll be getting. Obviously this is my opinion and doesn't work for everyone. I know its tough to get started but its so worth it, don't give up!0 -
I have been down that road a few times in my life. I lost some weight and then got frustrated and gave up and I always ended up gaining the weight back plus some. What seems to be making a difference this time is that I am looking at it as a lifestyle change and a way to be healthier. I haven't weighed myself in over 2 months, but I know that I am losing weight or at least inches by the way my clothes fit. I know that I am in better shape because I can easily run 3x what I could when I started. Every time I tried to lose weight in the past I would have given up by now, but for me not worrying about numbers has given me the motivation to keep going. All of the goals I have set for myself have to do with fitness, not weight loss. I don't get frustrated when my goal is to run a mile or work out 30 minutes a day, but I do get frustrated if it is to lose a certain number of pounds and I fail.0
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This post sums it up perfectly, excellent advise, small meals often is the key and stay off the processed foods as much as possible...good luck:)
Woops, this was supposed to be part of my post above, pressed the wrong button !!0 -
a cheat day once a week is way too much if you wanna lose .... i give myself a meal a month0
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Hey there Kristin!
Please dont give up! i almost did and it was people on here that kept me going and i have finally started losing again. my guess, you are building muscle and muscle takes longer to register on the scale than just fat. also are you drinking heaps cos its true that it flushes out your system....sometimes you can eat the healthiest foods and exercise hard out and still not lose till u pump up the water (which is what i have started to do and am now losing)....also vary your food and your exercise...if your calorie intake is 1500 eat 1200 one day and 1800 the next......do extra work outs around that time of month......anyway dont give up....stay strong. ill support you.
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Stay encouraged, lady.... when I hit 202, I stayed there for 3 to 4 weeks... With support, I kept pushing through it... eventually it started coming off. just finding out what your body needs. Chin up!0
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Don't give up! It's not a race it's a journey. 14 lbs is a great loss. Next time you go to the store, pick up 3 - 5 lb bags of sugar or look at the butter section and see what 14 boxes of butter look like. You WANT to do this. It's hard to make lifestyle changes. Just like any other addiction it takes time for your body and mind to detox. You seem to eat out alot, for some it is a social thing. I agree with others... packaged food should be for convenience only. If you have the time, take the time to prepare something you really enjoy.
Start a journal! Use the one on MFP or start a personal one. Two things, allow yourself a few hours to write your first entry.... emotionally dump all of your doubts, fears, pains and sorrows in it first. Then take at least 15 - 30 minutes to write all of the good things, things you've done well, accomplishments, proud moments. After the initial day, take 10 min a day but ALWAYS end the journal on a good note. Go back and read now and then to see where you were emotionally at the time.
If you are using Word... there is a way to password protect it. Many people are afraid that someone will find what they've written.
You have to choose to live better for you. Sometimes we have to break it down, focusing on each choice - bite - meal - drink - day - hour. Don't give up! You are young and starting this change was the hardest part.0 -
Understanding Weight Loss Plateaus
•Dieting Plateau
Almost everyone reaches a weight loss plateau at some point in their fitness lives. The
reason is that the human body works hard to keep energy intake and output in balance. In
other words, your body does not like to lose weight (not a revelation, huh?).
After your initial weight loss, your progress will slow down and eventually stop even
though your exercise and food intake is consistent. The bottom line is that the very
efforts you make to burn more calories may eventually slow it down.
Problem 1. Lowering your calories too much
Fact: It takes calories to burn calories. When you decrease your food intake, your body
simply lowers its metabolic rate in response. This still allows the body to function
properly, but ultimately your body requires fewer calories which creates hunger and
prevents you from losing fat.
Solution:
Keep your calories slightly below your maintenance calories so that your energy and
metabolism remain high. A deficit greater than 500-700 calories makes it much more
difficult to maintain your lean body mass. To determine your approximate daily caloric
needs, use this formula:
Men
kg (body weight) x 24 = kcal/day
Women
kg (body weight) x 23 = kcal/day
note: kg = pounds divided by 2.2 (i.e.: 180 lbs / 2.2 = 81.8 kg)
My Fitness Pal will calculate your Basal Metabolic Rate to determine how many calories
you need to function, and add the calories you burn through out the day and with
exercise.
Problem 2. Loss of lean body mass
Fact: Muscle burns fat and losing muscle means burning fewer calories. Lean body mass
uses five times the calories as fat mass so, if you lose it, your metabolism drops and
your weight loss stops.
Solution:
Make sure your exercise program is combined with a fully nourished body. You can
accomplish this with a diet that creates a safe calorie deficit along with some type of
multivitamin to help with any nutrient deficiencies.
Problem 3. Weight loss
A loss of any amount of weight will lead to a reduced energy requirement and by
updateing your weight loss on MFP it will compensate for the weight loss.
Solution:
Make sure you start (or continue) a weight training program to help increase lean body
mass, which can help compensate for the loss of calories.
Problem 4. The 'Adaptation' Phase Ends
When you start a new exercise program, your body responds because it is required to make
numerous changes to adjust to different workloads. So, your muscles are rebuilding
themselves and this consumes all kinds of calories. But, at some point your body will
stop adapting to the new workload and, as a result, you burn less calories for the same
activities. My Fitness Pal wont compensate for this.
Solution:
Don't let your body get used to the exercise. Maintain your body's adaptation period by
changing the intensity, duration, frequency and/or the mode of exercise and include
interval training if necessary.
Problem 5: Exercise Efficiency
The more you do something, the better you get at it. As your body becomes better at
performing your exercises, it can actually use fewer calories during the exercise. Think
of it this way: trained athletes often use fewer calories than untrained athletes with
similar body types and workouts. So, if this describes where you are, consider yourself
a trained athlete and read on! Again My Fitness Pal wont compensate for this.
Solution:
The solution to this is the same as for Problem 4; don't get used to the exercise.
Concentrate on more dramatic changes such as trying brand new activities. For example,
if you use the treadmill for two weeks, switch to something different like the rowing
machine or the bike. Don't forget to make changes in your weight training routine as
well!
Problem 6: Over-training
Just like not eating enough can lower the amount calories you burn, so can over-
training. When you exercise too much, there is a point of diminishing returns when an
increase in exercise energy expenditure is negated by an equal decrease in non-exercise
energy expenditure. In other words, when you increase your exercise intensity, your body
responds by decreasing the amount of calories you burn during the rest of your day.
Solution:
Take time to recover. If you reach exercise burnout, this is a great time to take a
break for a few days, or try something gentle like yoga or a stretching routine. After
you've rested, get back to exercise but lighten up your original routine and increase
your intensity only as necessary. Nor this
7. Enhanced Physical Condition
As you get into better shape, your body is more efficient and it costs fewer calories to
operate. Improved health means a lower resting metabolic rate and fewer calories are
burned during normal daily activities. Part of this is because your cardio-pulmonary
system is more efficient now and you have a lower resting heart rate. Nor this.
Solution:
Congratulations! You're officially in shape and healthy. Focus on that and feel good
about yourself. Concentrate on changing your routine as described in Solution 5
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Hey! You've lost 14 pounds and you want to give up? If I can stick to it while only being 4 pounds down since February, you can do it. I was down 7 at one point. Put some back on when I got sick. I get super frustrated and feel like giving up all the time, but I know I can't. And the support I get here has talked me down off the ledge a couple of times already. People have told me they've had plateaus that have lasted several months, but then they finally start losing again after a lot of persistence and trial and error. Hang in there. Tweak a few things. Be patient. I believe it's in the cards for you or you wouldn't be asking for help in the first place.0
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I really feel like I have no reason to continue down the path of trying to lose weight. I am currently about 40 lbs over weight and have been on MFP for 3 months. I am seeing no results at all. I am no longer even seeing the little things to keep me going. I am working out harder than I have since college sports and I am eating the healthiest I have in my entire life but can't seem to lose anything. I am so discouraged and feel like there is no reason to continue. I give myself a free day every week, I vary my exercises, keep right around my net and under my goal 6 days a week. I work out 6-7 days a week and I have plateaued for the past 2 1/2 months. I lost weight right away but can't get past 201. This is so frustrating. I have always been able to lose weight in the past (between kids etc) but this time I can't. Not only has the scale gone up (today at 205) but my inches all over my body have gone up. It is so frustrating to do everything everyone tells me to, I work out more eat less and wayyyyy healthier and here I am still fat, no progres and frustrated. I would rather stay this weight and enjoy my fatty crappy foods again than work my butt off to stay this weight. I am really looking for a reason to not give up, because I am right there wondering why I should keep going.
Are you sure you're writing down EVERYTHING you eat & tracking it? And measuring?? MEAsURE EVERYTHING TO THE T! I'd really focus on measuring & tracking every little thing you eat! If you still have these odds results I'd go straight to a doctor. Could be a thyroid issue or something else. If you already are tracking everything & pushing yourself in the gym I'd immediately go to a doctor.0 -
Working out 6-7 days a week hard? My bet is you are not eating enough.0
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Bump..lots of good advice here.
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Kristen, you may be getting sorry you asked for advice by now, and I apologize for not reading all the other posts carefully, but 6 pages is too much! Many of these issues have at least been touched on by others. Nevertheless, here's my 2 cents' worth:
When you aren't getting the desired results, examine the underlying assumptions, such as:
1. The goals are set correctly: you may have assessed your baseline activity incorrectly, or you may be an "outlier" - abnormal due to genetics, medical conditions, or just luck of the draw. For instance, it appears I underestimated my activity level, and am probably losing a little too fast (after the first week of water loss).
2. The MFP database is always correct: no way! For instance, my saturated fat goal and my polyunsaturated fat goal are each appearing as 100 gm - approximately 1800 calories daily! Many of the database entries are user-generated, and are off-target in at least a small way, or perhaps the food isn't exactly what it appears to be from the listing.
3. Published calorie counts are always right: restaurant foods may be way off from their published information, or published recipes may be off.
4. You are correctly assessing calorie expenditure in exercise: as others have pointed out, the MFP estimates may be way off for you, and HRM data is only an estimate.
A couple of other observations: sodium intake is not likely an issue. Sodium is responsible for short-term fluid retention, but usually this will level off fairly quickly, unless you are otherwise gaining weight. It would not explain, for instance, a 6-week plateau. And, if you are otherwise eating well, it is generally okay not to "eat all your exercise calories", as long as your daily deficit does not exceed 1000. For example, if your target deficit is 700, you need not eat extra for the first 300 exercise calories unless you want to, but you should be sure to cover everything past that level, unless you are under medical supervision.
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Kristin, sorry for the misspelling!0
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Wow you have really gotten some wonderful advice here! I have been on Weight Watchers for 8.5 months & had only lost 25 pounds when I hit the plateau that lasted 4 months!! I found this site 2.5 weeks ago & have lost 6.6 since then. What I found was by balancing my nutrients (watching fat, carbs & protein) & trying to keep them all in healthy range it broke my plateau! I also have low thyroid so it is harder for me to lose. I will be using alot of the suggestions you have here to help me as well. Please get your thyroid checked. I read the other day that 70% of thyroid problems are undiagnosed. Good luck!0
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