Need Boob Success Stories For My Mental Health

tmw098
tmw098 Posts: 24
edited November 8 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi everyone,

I am new here, and decided to start my weight loss journey. I'm excited, but I'm also really scared of what I will look AFTER losing 60-70 pounds. I am 31, 5'9 ish, female. Single, no kids. I am worried about possible lose skin and more importantly, my boob shape.

I know I know, don't worry about it yet because I'm not there and the better health is worth it. I absolutely agree, but I'm having a lot of anxiety about the boob thing. I do not care at ALL if they get smaller, but I don't want them to be severely misshapen or flat when i'm done. I know a lift/implants are always an option, but I really really don't want to go there.

Do any of you have any success stories of losing around this kind of weight and being kinda happy with the shape of your boobs after time? Did they get better over time (I read another post in the maintaining weight section where about half said they did get better half said they didn't). I know everyone is different and it will depend on a lot of factors, but what I'm looking for are positive responses/experiences if there are any of you out there, so I can read these and feel hopeful as I set out on my journey.

Thanks I really appreciate your replies!


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  • ruffnstuff
    ruffnstuff Posts: 400 Member
    So you only want the half with good experiences to respond? Cuz then you can trick yourself into thinking it'll be a guaranteed "win" for your boobs? Sorry...it just doesn't work like that. Either you really want to lose the weight (regardless of what might happen to boobs), or you're going to use the "but, my boobs!!" excuse as a reason not to lose weight. It's all up to you.

    P.S. It really, truly matters NOT AT ALL what others have experienced in the boob department. It will not effect how YOUR boobs respond. Good luck.
  • PrizePopple
    PrizePopple Posts: 3,133 Member
    Scoop the dangle-y parts into a bra, and voilà.

    There's more to life that what you're boobs are going to look like, if they aren't the first things to go along with fat loss. That said, if you're so concerned with it then just get surgery later on to make them look the way you want.
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    I lost 50 pounds. No one complains about my boobs.
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    No, I don't necessarily only want the good ones to reply, but I'm hoping if they're out there then reading them might give me some HOPE. I understand what happens to another might not happen to me as I said, but looking for some positives. That's all.
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  • emkayelle91
    emkayelle91 Posts: 846 Member
    I've lost 64 pounds and my boobs are still giant and up to my chin. lol I think it just depends on your fat/tissue ratio in your boobs.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    My boobs have not suffered when I've. Lost 25, 30, and 51 lbs in the past. They've remained epic each time and are referred to by some as a national treasure.
  • hmckelsonsh131
    hmckelsonsh131 Posts: 2
    Heh, I'm with you. I'm a 30H which could prove to be a problem as I try and get in shape... God only knows what happens to boobs from this sort of thing. I've love to hear some experiences with this. :-)
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    emkayelle91 wrote: »
    I've lost 64 pounds and my boobs are still giant and up to my chin. lol I think it just depends on your fat/tissue ratio in your boobs.

    Wow, amazing job!!!! And luck you :smile: Congrats on your weight loss!!

  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    MyChocolateDiet wrote: »
    My boobs have not suffered when I've. Lost 25, 30, and 51 lbs in the past. They've remained epic each time and are referred to by some as a national treasure.

    hahaha Love it "national treasure". Thanks so much :smile:
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    hmckelsonsh131 wrote: »
    Heh, I'm with you. I'm a 30H which could prove to be a problem as I try and get in shape... God only knows what happens to boobs from this sort of thing. I've love to hear some experiences with this. :-)

    You're so young and don't have too much to lose. I am optimistic for you :smile: Thanks for the post!

  • AOdell79
    AOdell79 Posts: 94 Member
    Lost 25 lbs. boobs = the same.
  • stinkytofu5
    stinkytofu5 Posts: 1
    edited November 2014
    I have G(6D) cup boobs, and it hasn't gotten smaller after losing around 15lbs (~10% of my weight). With the exercise I am doing, they look slightly perkier even. I can never go braless in any kind of top/dress, so I get well fitting bras regardless of my weight.
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    I've only lost 45 lbs but my boobs are fine. Honestly I think they're better than they were because now they're proportionately bigger (I went from a 36C to a 32D).

    But you said yourself that it's going to depend on a lot of factors. Genetics is a big one.

    Also Big_Bob_Lob is right, God help him. The right bra does make a huge difference, so once you get to your goal get a professional fitting and invest some nice bras. Also keep in mind that even if you think you're unhappy at first you should give it some time. It took me about 6 months to really see myself as I was after I reached my goal weight.
  • emkayelle91
    emkayelle91 Posts: 846 Member
    tmw098 wrote: »
    emkayelle91 wrote: »
    I've lost 64 pounds and my boobs are still giant and up to my chin. lol I think it just depends on your fat/tissue ratio in your boobs.

    Wow, amazing job!!!! And luck you :smile: Congrats on your weight loss!!

    Thanks! :) And I agree with the other ladies, about them looking even better after weight loss. My boobs somehow look better than before. I really wouldn't worry about it too much :)
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  • mitch16
    mitch16 Posts: 2,113 Member
    I would definitely say, lose the weight now while you are still young and your skin is still elastic and your boobs should be fine. Also--I think that slow and steady weight loss is the way to go to help maintain skin elasticity.

    I'm not even the lightest I've been in my life, but I'm past 40, have breastfed a baby, and with my recent weight loss my boobs are now the smallest they've ever been (BTW--they're a 32 E/F--not really 'small')--I definitely chalk this up to my age.

    Even if they're not perfect, my husband still likes them, and well-fitted bras go a long way at keeping them looking awesome under clothing.



  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    OP has anxiety about something that hasn't happened, and is using it as a reason to not achieve goals?

    Das ist sehr interessant.
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    dbmata wrote: »
    OP has anxiety about something that hasn't happened, and is using it as a reason to not achieve goals?

    Das ist sehr interessant.

    No.
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    mitch16 wrote: »
    I would definitely say, lose the weight now while you are still young and your skin is still elastic and your boobs should be fine. Also--I think that slow and steady weight loss is the way to go to help maintain skin elasticity.

    I'm not even the lightest I've been in my life, but I'm past 40, have breastfed a baby, and with my recent weight loss my boobs are now the smallest they've ever been (BTW--they're a 32 E/F--not really 'small')--I definitely chalk this up to my age.

    Even if they're not perfect, my husband still likes them, and well-fitted bras go a long way at keeping them looking awesome under clothing.

    Thanks so much for the encouragement!
  • 365andstillalive
    365andstillalive Posts: 663 Member
    Went from 235/240 to 165 (I've still got 15-20lbs to go); my boobs are two cup sizes smaller, and maybe slightly perkier.

    It all depends on if your boobs are mostly fat or breast tissue (which is slightly different and denser). The shape of your boobs is kind of just the shape of your boobs. Most women will lose a couple inches off their bust, but it really depends on where you carry your body fat. You'd likely have to lose far more weight to see drooping etc, but again, I don't know if you're rocking DD/DDDs the way I was (I'm a C/D now) or an H cup.

    It's like any area of your body though; skin elasticity is a big factor in how your skin stretches, as is how hydrated you are (to an extent) and the speed at which you lose the weight. Drop 70lbs in 6 months; you might see some saggy skin which may eventually catch up. Drop it in 1-1.5 years, probably not.
  • tibby531
    tibby531 Posts: 717 Member
    my T&A were the first to go. with time, and the right weight workouts, they're now smaller, but they defy gravity.
  • ponycyndi
    ponycyndi Posts: 858 Member
    After kids, mine are floppy and deflated. However, I went from a 38A to a 32C, and they are better proportioned to the rest of my body now. Lifting weight has helped restore a small amount of their former glory.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    tmw098 wrote: »
    I know I know, don't worry about it yet because I'm not there and the better health is worth it. I absolutely agree, but I'm having a lot of anxiety about the boob thing.
    Yes.

    If it's really a concern, and not just an excuse, start saving some money now for a boob job. Then, if that happens, you have the money to resolve the issue. If it doesn't happen, you have the funds for a trip. :)
  • MamaRiss
    MamaRiss Posts: 481 Member
    edited November 2014
    Mine are quite depressing now to me. Went from 38c to 36a. But hubby still likes them. He says boobs are boobs, and they're all good.

    ETA:I've also breastfed two kids
  • doctorsookie
    doctorsookie Posts: 1,084 Member
    MB_Positif wrote: »
    I lost 50 pounds. No one complains about my boobs.
    Nope no complaints from me. ;-)
    And no one complains about mine after my loss. I love the way they look...and they keep looking better every time I see them.

  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    I've lost 51 pounds and they look so much better/more proportionate now. I was maybe a 44G (nowhere near what I assumed then!), now a 38DD
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    Thanks for your replies everyone :smile:
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    doctorsookie wrote: »
    MB_Positif wrote: »
    I lost 50 pounds. No one complains about my boobs.
    Nope no complaints from me. ;-)
    And no one complains about mine after my loss. I love the way they look...and they keep looking better every time I see them.

    do you mind me asking how much you lost and what exercises you are doing?
  • tmw098
    tmw098 Posts: 24
    365andstillalive wrote: »
    Went from 235/240 to 165 (I've still got 15-20lbs to go); my boobs are two cup sizes smaller, and maybe slightly perkier.

    It all depends on if your boobs are mostly fat or breast tissue (which is slightly different and denser). The shape of your boobs is kind of just the shape of your boobs. Most women will lose a couple inches off their bust, but it really depends on where you carry your body fat. You'd likely have to lose far more weight to see drooping etc, but again, I don't know if you're rocking DD/DDDs the way I was (I'm a C/D now) or an H cup.

    It's like any area of your body though; skin elasticity is a big factor in how your skin stretches, as is how hydrated you are (to an extent) and the speed at which you lose the weight. Drop 70lbs in 6 months; you might see some saggy skin which may eventually catch up. Drop it in 1-1.5 years, probably not.

    Thanks for the encouragement and advice. GREAT JOB on your weight loss!
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