Sex?

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  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    GalaxyBird wrote: »
    For those of you who have lost significant amounts of weight, I am wondering how it has affected your sex life, especially the act of having sex. I am just curious to see what has gotten better, worse, or changed.

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  • shadowloss
    shadowloss Posts: 293 Member
    Mine Has :o
    Her's Hasn't, never had it :s

    Great News is, Fitbit counts all arm movement.
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    I've always had a high sex drive, but it's gotten much higher since I've lost weight. The fitter I get, the better it gets. And squats... makes it so tight down there.
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  • gallifreyfallsnomore1
    gallifreyfallsnomore1 Posts: 149 Member
    Stamina has improved. The frequency still isn't as much as would like.
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    For one to notice a change, the said "sex life" would need to be existent to begin with lol... Ahh, the single life.
  • LotusAsh
    LotusAsh Posts: 294 Member
    stamina has gone up, so has frequency
  • Suz_8589
    Suz_8589 Posts: 146 Member
    I think honestly in more confident so there is more sex...
  • Basilin
    Basilin Posts: 360 Member
    So... how many of you log sex as exercise? lol
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    I log it as prancercise.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    Eh no difference here.
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    sydneydeb wrote: »
    What is this "sex" you speak of? ;)

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    It's been so long I don't even remember what sex is :(

  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    fat2fit4good wrote: »
    my arm doesn't get as tired as before...

    :p
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    Even just losing 11 lbs makes me feel sexier. My boyfriend is happy about that (me feeling sexier) :wink:
  • KylaDenay
    KylaDenay Posts: 1,585 Member
    tracyannk28 wrote: »
    sydneydeb wrote: »
    What is this "sex" you speak of? ;)

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    It's been so long I don't even remember what sex is :(
    +2 smh
  • nikkilove7070
    nikkilove7070 Posts: 82 Member
    funny.....now that I've lost 50 pounds, dress better, feel better.....I got it more when I was heavier. .....
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    KylaDenay wrote: »
    tracyannk28 wrote: »
    sydneydeb wrote: »
    What is this "sex" you speak of? ;)

    x1

    It's been so long I don't even remember what sex is :(
    +2 smh

    +3 :/
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    vjohn04 wrote: »
    My ex was less attracted to me. No harm no foul though. We got together when I wasn't as fit, and that's what he liked. I can't fault him for that.

    I'll fault him for you.
  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    Drive dips during high exercise weight loss program but stamina and endurance increases. Spouse gets worried because the fitter I get the harder time she has keeping up.
  • BV1980
    BV1980 Posts: 272 Member
    I am 34 years old and have been fat my whole life. I have been 400+ lbs (452 lbs being the highest) for quite a while now. So, I have never been able to be successful with getting a girlfriend or having a sex life. My body is ruined because my flaw in my life has been overeating. Even if I lose the weight, I will be a mess of skin and not what girls want, so I doubt losing weight will improve, or I should say create, a sex life for me. Since it is something I want very badly, I may have to live with this unfulfilled desire, pay for it (which wouldn't be what I want and I would still be unfulfilled), or distract myself constantly with work or hobbies or whatever. I don't think distraction would work though since sex is everywhere and you cannot escape it. It is a constant reminder of my desire and what I cannot experience. So I think I may have to just cope with the lack of it or eventually just not exist anymore so it isn't an issue.
  • Basilin
    Basilin Posts: 360 Member
    dbmata wrote: »
    I log it as prancercise.

    This should help.

    Sorry I asked, by the way. :astonished:

  • wilsoncl6
    wilsoncl6 Posts: 1,280 Member
    BV1980 wrote: »
    I am 34 years old and have been fat my whole life. I have been 400+ lbs (452 lbs being the highest) for quite a while now. So, I have never been able to be successful with getting a girlfriend or having a sex life. My body is ruined because my flaw in my life has been overeating. Even if I lose the weight, I will be a mess of skin and not what girls want, so I doubt losing weight will improve, or I should say create, a sex life for me. Since it is something I want very badly, I may have to live with this unfulfilled desire, pay for it (which wouldn't be what I want and I would still be unfulfilled), or distract myself constantly with work or hobbies or whatever. I don't think distraction would work though since sex is everywhere and you cannot escape it. It is a constant reminder of my desire and what I cannot experience. So I think I may have to just cope with the lack of it or eventually just not exist anymore so it isn't an issue.

    Relax BV1980, there is someone for everyone. Good thing is that women aren't as shallow as us guys and a good personality goes a long way. Until you lose the weight, work on your sense of humor, confidence and big billfold doesn't hurt either.
  • Tiamo719
    Tiamo719 Posts: 256 Member
    edited November 2014
    BV1980 wrote: »
    I am 34 years old and have been fat my whole life. I have been 400+ lbs (452 lbs being the highest) for quite a while now. So, I have never been able to be successful with getting a girlfriend or having a sex life. My body is ruined because my flaw in my life has been overeating. Even if I lose the weight, I will be a mess of skin and not what girls want, so I doubt losing weight will improve, or I should say create, a sex life for me. Since it is something I want very badly, I may have to live with this unfulfilled desire, pay for it (which wouldn't be what I want and I would still be unfulfilled), or distract myself constantly with work or hobbies or whatever. I don't think distraction would work though since sex is everywhere and you cannot escape it. It is a constant reminder of my desire and what I cannot experience. So I think I may have to just cope with the lack of it or eventually just not exist anymore so it isn't an issue.

    A woman looks at a mans face first and then sense of humor. Make them fall for you and your loose skin will not phase them. That's the kind of women you want anyway :smile:
  • Noogynoogs
    Noogynoogs Posts: 1,028 Member
    Less
  • WildOkapi
    WildOkapi Posts: 81
    Never had a sex drive and still don't!
  • whitehorse67
    whitehorse67 Posts: 101 Member
    edited November 2014
    Nothing reduces my sex drive...Hahahaha!...as far as the act of sex?...Well....in a bit of a dry spell....So I can't really compare before I lost weight to now....(anyone wanna help me create a study?...purely for science of course!! :smile: )
  • shortntall1
    shortntall1 Posts: 333 Member
    All I will say is VA VA VA VOOM :)
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    vjohn04 wrote: »
    My ex was less attracted to me. No harm no foul though. We got together when I wasn't as fit, and that's what he liked. I can't fault him for that.

    He felt threatened...you look amazing!

  • gamesandgains
    gamesandgains Posts: 640 Member
    On a more serious note, I had a dummy phase where I thought less fats in my diet equals more weight loss. Obviously not smart. My sex drive plummeted. Testosterone was minimal. Learned the ways, ate proper diet, been staying up all night ever since. Last part was a joke.
  • farfromthetree
    farfromthetree Posts: 982 Member
    fat2fit4good wrote: »
    my arm doesn't get as tired as before...

    LOL!!!

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