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Im 30 fml

Posts: 550
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
no kids, no wife, no gf. is there any point to carry on with life anymore? besides being shredded as fukk I mean

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  • Posts: 5,589 Member
    Yeah, now you can try to beat Cell.
  • Posts: 8,646 Member
    edited February 2015
    shut up and go fishing.

    There is no fulfillment that someone else can offer that even remotely compares to topwater fishing for stripers busting the surface for example...
  • Posts: 5,589 Member
    _John_ wrote: »
    shut up and go fishing.

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  • _John_ wrote: »
    shut up and go fishing.

    There is no fulfillment that someone else can offer that even remotely compares to topwater fishing for stripers busting the surface for example...


    too much real life. be right back, spent the last 12 years basically fishing and hunting.
  • Posts: 1
    Lol, who needs new pokémon when you can just do this! p)
  • Posts: 1,184 Member
    fishnbrah wrote: »
    no kids, no wife, no gf. is there any point to carry on with life anymore?
    Beating your PR for number of faps in one day?

    I'm up to 9...
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  • Posts: 37 Member
    fishnbrah wrote: »
    no kids, no wife, no gf. ...\

    Do you want those things?
  • Posts: 1,819 Member
    Jkfriesen wrote: »

    Do you want those things?

    @fishnbrah‌ here is your offer. You're 30, so you better act now.
  • Posts: 644 Member
    530roman wrote: »

    @fishnbrah‌ here is your offer. You're 30, so you better act now.

    I have no input, I just thought this was funny

  • Posts: 37 Member
    530roman wrote: »

    @fishnbrah‌ here is your offer. You're 30, so you better act now.

    haha, mr. Matchmaker. I don't think he's my type. ;) My question is more along the lines of, if men want to be husbands and fathers, what are they doing to pursue those goals? Being the best at Call of Duty isn't going to cut it. :p And being "cut" isn't going to cut it either. :p
  • Posts: 2,716 Member
    I'll say this. If you want those things, you will need to work on them just like working out. Change the things you need to change so you can get the things you want. It doesn't happen over night.
  • Posts: 485 Member
    Jkfriesen wrote: »

    Do you want those things?

    She's on to something! :)
  • Posts: 780 Member
    There is nothing anyone can say that doesn't amount to an aphorism.

    Be happy with yourself first! they'll say.

    You have to put yourself out there! It'll happen when it's meant to! There's nothing wrong with being 30 and single anymore, it's 2015! There's always a reason to carry on with life, think about what your mom/dad/brothers/sisters/nieces/nephews/friends would think if you weren't here anymore! and so on.

    What are you going to do? All I, or most of us, can do is give you more aphorisms. The only real thing I can say is that you have to sit down and think about why it's not happening, whether that's what you actually want and so on.
  • Posts: 2,732 Member
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  • Posts: 22,834 Member
    Good times. Good "workouts". Shred away.

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  • Posts: 1,819 Member
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  • Posts: 5,585 Member
    who the hell wants kids tho
  • Posts: 432 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    who the hell wants kids tho

    this!
  • Posts: 819 Member
    Slacker16 wrote: »
    Beating your PR for number of faps in one day?

    I'm up to 9...

    LMAO! So Funny!

  • Posts: 11,502 Member
    I'm reading this... currently single myself and haven't even gone on a date in years. But I'm picky. I do not want kids. Ever. Where I live, every woman either has or wants kids (or both). I will be 30 in a few months, so here is my advice as someone in a similar circumstance:
    1. Do not get desperate and settle for someone who doesn't fit... that can only end badly.
    2. Figure out what you want and make a long-term plan for how you might achieve it.

    In my case, I know that location is a weakness. Unfortunately, I'm locked into my location for several years. I've done research about demographics in various areas and I have a specific place that I can move to for the best opportunities, and I intend to move there in 4-6 years (unless something changes the location or timeline).
  • Jkfriesen wrote: »

    haha, mr. Matchmaker. I don't think he's my type. ;) My question is more along the lines of, if men want to be husbands and fathers, what are they doing to pursue those goals? Being the best at Call of Duty isn't going to cut it. :p And being "cut" isn't going to cut it either. :p


    i dont feel like i should have to "work" on it. i mean i could go out and get random dates but how do you ever meet someone good like that without settling.
  • Posts: 407 Member
    I'm almost 30 with a failed marriage behind me... All good things happen when they are supposed to happen - that's my motto. I know that my forever kind of guy will come along when he's supposed to. Until then, I'm on a campaign for free dinners... just kidding! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
  • Posts: 1,469 Member
    Slacker16 wrote: »
    Beating your PR for number of faps in one day?

    I'm up to 9...

    Novice numbers. For real.
  • Posts: 485 Member
    edited February 2015
    fishnbrah wrote: »


    i dont feel like i should have to "work" on it. i mean i could go out and get random dates but how do you ever meet someone good like that without settling.

    Not sure what you mean... If you want to find someone to date, you will have to put some work into it. Generally, people don't just fall into our laps saying "I'm the perfect one for you, so let's date."
  • Posts: 2,732 Member

    i dont feel like i should have to "work" on it. i mean i could go out and get random dates but how do you ever meet someone good like that without settling.
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    Wow- didn't realize you were seriously asking for advice. My apologies for thinking this was all shred related attention seeking.

    Little confused- define "someone good" and "without settling" raises some flags.

    If you like someone. I mean really like, like them, you will knock yourself out trying to shine for them. That IS a little bit of work- but pleasurable effort.
  • Posts: 91 Member
    You'll find someone when you stop looking. But don't settle for the first random girl that comes your way if she's not quite what you're after. In saying that no one is perfect, everyone has flaws and baggage, some more than others, but the good qualities usually outweigh those.
  • Posts: 3,845 Member

    Novice numbers. For real.

    I'd have to agree with this. Someone's slacking.
  • Posts: 1,469 Member
    _Tink_ wrote: »

    I'd have to agree with this. Someone's slacking.

    Right!? I can do that in an hour.

  • Posts: 1,916 Member
    Is this a thread for people who are complaining about being 30?! C'mon man!
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