Still Have Anger Towards Ex

Count your blessings that it took you 50 years to meet a guy like that! And only one to boot. There are women who end up with losers over and over again.

Good luck getting the money back if you didn't have a promissory note or other paper evidence that it was a loan. Courts have tended to view exchanges between partners as gifts.

Don't be angry. Do you. Living well is the best revenge.

I 1000% vouch for the glitter bomb.

Time is money girl.. and you're still dropping $$ on him in the here and now. You don't need sympathy, it won't get either your $$ or your time back. Go find someone worth your time and forget the loser exists. Nothing pisses a nacist off more than moving on.

in my exp people suck *kitten*.good friends are few and far between lol

Can I be one of your future-hated exes so I can get free money?

Best way to get over an x is to eat more hummus.

I was always told if you loan someone money it's best not to expect it back, because guess what, most men that borrow men from their women, aren't real men.

Holding onto anger gives the other person an awful lot of power over your emotions. He's an *kitten* and will likely always be an *kitten*. Let him own that problem and move on. You can't give him the satisfaction of preventing you from being happy.

This hereby concludes my rare non-sarcastic post of the day. Carry on.

If you are going to do something to his car, only do enough damage where the deductible won't be hit on his insurance.

My ex was emotionally and physically abusive towards me. I busted my butt working while he sat around doing nothing. He didn't even help take care of our son. He isolated me by moving me 6 hours away from my family and broke every cell phone i had. I got away from him I'm waiting on my divorce from him now. I'm just glad i got myself abd my son out of that horrible situation!

Can you prove the money thing? Take him to small claims court. Keep it all business.

I have a dreaded ex. I spent a lot of time being angry and hating him. It's just not worth the energy. I've let him know that I forgive him, but that doesn't mean I want to be friends or even acquaintances.

Forgiveness is hard because most people think that it means you've accepted the bad behavior. But, that's not really what it is. It's really just about letting go of the "why me" and the "f&ck him" script in your head.

I decided after an extended period of hating my ex that I wasn't hurting anyone but myself by holding onto my anger. He didn't know I was angry, nor did he care. So I just got over it. I'm a happier person for it.

The problem I learned with taking him to small claims court is that you're going to have to prove that there was an agreement where he would be paying you back. And having a text message or email isn't necessarily proof as it can be constituted as "hearsay".

I learned this the hard way myself. Plus there are limits on small claims court and you'd need to hire an attorney, pay filing and court costs, etc. Depending on the amount he owes you, it might be best to chalk this one up to a lesson and move forward thinking that at least you have the individual out of your life.

And you can either send him glitter (http://shipyourenemiesglitter.com/), hope that karma comes back and bestowes upon him a festering case of anal warts, or make the conscious decision to move forward.

Personally, moving forward and using the experience as a life lesson has worked for me. It's hard sometimes, but I know deep down that he'll have to live with himself for doing the things he did, and I can sleep soundly at night knowing that I have tried to be the best person I could.