Dealing with trainer BF's flirtatious client.

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  • LiveFree0505
    LiveFree0505 Posts: 11
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    Honestly, your BF sounds incredibly mature and open. He's in a position of authority, girls are going to have crushes on him, no matter what. Can you handle that? He's gone above and beyond in regards to sending her very clear messages. I see no need for you to say anything to her. Kill her with kindness
  • ajs8924
    ajs8924 Posts: 7
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    LiveFree0505 wrote: »
    Honestly, your BF sounds incredibly mature and open. He's in a position of authority, girls are going to have crushes on him, no matter what. Can you handle that? He's gone above and beyond in regards to sending her very clear messages. I see no need for you to say anything to her. Kill her with kindness

    That's what my best friend said to do! It's hard but I think that may be the best route to go :) Maybe if she sees that I am well adjusted and happy with BF, she'll back off? One can only hope.... I don't really understand her intentions at all.
  • LuvPosh
    LuvPosh Posts: 105 Member
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    ajs8924 wrote: »
    LuvPosh wrote: »
    You have far more self control than I would have by now.

    IF the decision is made to let her stay at his business, he needs to end all contact with her. He has business partners that she can go to with questions. Use sexual harassment as the reason.

    Thank you :) I wanted to see if I was overreacting. Maybe I am.


    lol she would have had a restraining order out on me by now :wink:

    You've done well with how you've handled it.

    No doubt everyone has noticed her pathetic desperation :)
  • smalltown_princess
    smalltown_princess Posts: 155 Member
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    gonna be honest, she's 10 years older than you and you've been in a commited relationship with this guy for 2 years. unless anything changes I don't think you have anything to worry about
  • ajs8924
    ajs8924 Posts: 7
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    smalltown_princess wrote: »
    gonna be honest, she's 10 years older than you and you've been in a commited relationship with this guy for 2 years. unless anything changes I don't think you have anything to worry about

    Thanks!! If she is ten years older, I don't understand why she can't find someone her own age and single to pay all this attention too!
  • kgeyser
    kgeyser Posts: 22,505 Member
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