Question for the Ladies...

RCKT82
RCKT82 Posts: 409 Member
edited September 27 in Chit-Chat
so... I saw a post from a lady discussing the preference of guys on if they like thicker or thin girls...

Do woman prefer bulky guys that cant walk through a door without turning sideways or do you like thin guys?

I know its personal preference... just curious what the general census is...
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  • Heather75
    Heather75 Posts: 3,386 Member
    I don't like bodybuilder types. Too many visible veins. Veins are supposed to be private.
  • vabheegaard
    vabheegaard Posts: 61
    Do not like bodybuilder types - prefer a man who is fit and looks healthy.
  • Hype
    Hype Posts: 349
    I like slim guys, toned is good - lately muscles have had a good appeal to them, but nice muscles not stupid looking body building, that leave your head looking like a pea! =)
  • Starlage
    Starlage Posts: 1,709 Member
    personally I don't like a guy to be bulky, full of hard muscles and prominent veins. I prefer in shape, some muscle- but definitely not scrawny guys. I guess you could just call it leaner muscle...
  • MiniMichelle
    MiniMichelle Posts: 801 Member
    Arms, I am all about the arms :)
  • littttlelaurra
    littttlelaurra Posts: 229 Member
    I don't like bodybuilder types. Too many visible veins. Veins are supposed to be private.

    agrees with this, I dont like body builder types, a nice toned body with definition is fine, but I dont honesty care if a guy is overweight.
    I would just want him healthy, I dont tend to care so much as his personality and he has to just wanna have fun in life, I would support him wanting to get fit and healthy but size has never mattered to me.
  • mishelnkiki
    mishelnkiki Posts: 775 Member
    i like my guys to have a build to them, but not a LOT of muscles. personally, i would take a guy built like u ANY DAY OF THE WEEK ;)
  • 812sara
    812sara Posts: 72 Member
    I actually prefer huskier men.... But that is my own preference.
  • mishelnkiki
    mishelnkiki Posts: 775 Member
    I don't like bodybuilder types. Too many visible veins. Veins are supposed to be private.

    agrees with this, I dont like body builder types, a nice toned body with definition is fine, but I dont honesty care if a guy is overweight.
    I would just want him healthy, I dont tend to care so much as his personality and he has to just wanna have fun in life, I would support him wanting to get fit and healthy but size has never mattered to me.
    THIS!! this is perfect!
  • michelletyler38
    michelletyler38 Posts: 469 Member
    Ur looking pretty good ;)
  • freshy_cutie
    freshy_cutie Posts: 4
    I don't like guys that are too thin cause I feel like they'll get blown away before me when the wind comes....I don't like guys that are too buff either cause it looks like they care more about themselves than about the girl! Um....the good body type would be like Jacobs in Twilight hahahaha (that's just my personal preference :P)
  • ToniAnn411
    ToniAnn411 Posts: 83
    I do not like guys that can't put their arms down..lol. But at the same time I don't like skinny guys. I guess you can say I like the Mark Wahlberg (sp?) back in the day of cut stomach.
  • michelletyler38
    michelletyler38 Posts: 469 Member
    i like my guys to have a build to them, but not a LOT of muscles. personally, i would take a guy built like u ANY DAY OF THE WEEK ;)

    LMAOOO agreed.
  • eversits
    eversits Posts: 177 Member
    I prefer guys with muscle on, but not the skinny side...however I dont like them Arnold style either. As you said, it goes by preference... my mom likes "bear type" guys, the ones that are huggable.
  • RDH0513
    RDH0513 Posts: 245 Member
    i like a guy about 6'5, 220 lbs, wide back and built legs! I also hate hate hate little shoulders. guys with huge biceps and little shoulders should hide somewhere.
  • jillerin457
    jillerin457 Posts: 70
    "Veins are supposed to be private" -- that's hilarious!

    I like guys somewhere in between. Thicker than me, for sure, but not huge! There's nothing attractive about a gym rat who can't wear normal pants. He's probably going to be way more obsessed with working out that maintaining a relationship or even a friendship.

    Guys like Bradley Cooper, Dustin Zito, etc. are the most attractive to me. (Too bad they're probably not interested in ladies anyway!)
  • serendipityrr
    serendipityrr Posts: 109 Member
    No bodybuilder type for me either....
    I prefer toned, a little bit bigger than a 'runner's body'.
  • StephanieDuckie
    StephanieDuckie Posts: 29
    I want him to look healthy, and that's that. No sickly skinny, and no bulging belly [which is funny, since my husband is a bit on the large side, haha]. =]
  • katekrise
    katekrise Posts: 178 Member
    I like tall (at least 6ft) and skinny :-) I'm dating a tall, pale, balding, skinny accountant and I think he's the sexiest thing :-)
  • Breckgirl
    Breckgirl Posts: 606 Member
    I told my first love that if he developed one more muscle, I'd kick him to the curb.


    I wonder what he's doing now? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • 44isthenew29
    44isthenew29 Posts: 141
    While physical attractiveness is important, and I definitely have my preference (athletic and toned as opposed to a musclehead) - I'm all about the chemistry and personality and what other qualities the guy brings to the table. Doesn't matter what he looks like if he doesn't have good character.
  • Brandicaloriecountess
    Brandicaloriecountess Posts: 2,126 Member
    Not skinny, but not the hulk.
  • RCKT82
    RCKT82 Posts: 409 Member
    I see a lot of guys at the gym that are pretty big and want to get bigger.... I from time to time have the urge to get bigger... You ladies are tuff... not too thin... not too big... what's a guy suppose to do? LOL
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    There's a balance. Twigs no. Killer definition yes. Bulky and mega... no thanks ;) Big range though.
  • CassieLEO
    CassieLEO Posts: 757 Member
    Yep, I like a man with a fit body!! Not body builder fit, but nicely toned is very nice! I want to feel protected by a man, not the other way around!
  • SaraTonin
    SaraTonin Posts: 551 Member
    I read a study that women on birth control prefer skinnier, paler men while women off birth control prefer muscular heathens. Over time, of course.

    It's been true for me!
  • hellokatee
    hellokatee Posts: 211 Member
    To be honest, muscle bulk is not attractive to me. I have liked lean, skinny guys and I have liked lean, muscular guys. I think that having some muscle definition is nice and it's ALWAYS a perk for a guy to be bigger than you in general, but the huge veiny muscles just aren't for me!
  • otr12
    otr12 Posts: 632 Member
    I don't like the appearance of a guy that seems obsessed with his body, or neglectful of his body.
    I can't stand guys that get manicures!
  • alifer
    alifer Posts: 387 Member
    Fit and toned, but not a bodybuilder type.
  • Shannon023
    Shannon023 Posts: 14,529 Member
    I think this is the first "Question for the Ladies" that didn't involve bloating, cramps, cravings or weight gain. :heart:

    You're my new favorite. :flowerforyou:
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