Unsupportive friend... HELP!

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  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    :huh: Why would you even think of expecting a cat to get involved in your successes? Its not like they can congratulate you or anything Cats have a mind of their own as all animals do. However If your concerned that your cat does not pay as much attention to you or wont go away from you, this could maybe be that your can may need a little guidence to adjusting to this new part of you. Because all of this self changing yourself may not be what you cat is used to. But dont get angry with a cat

    wtf...

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  • mstifb
    mstifb Posts: 230
    Maybe you need to get your kitty some catnip and a margarita? LOL!! :laugh:
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Why are you asking us??! You need to sit down and have a talk with your cat to find out what's going on.
  • Im sorry if that is what I feel:ohwell:
  • darlilama
    darlilama Posts: 794 Member
    My dog motivates me.

    I wish I could have a dog but my apartment is too small!!! And she'll probably be jealous of the dog too.
    Is your cat overweight? Lots of times friends who are overweight feel insecure when they see us losing weight - they don't want to be the fat one.

    I hate to say it, but she gained some weight after spending a week at someone else's house while we moved. This was over a year ago. She may be bitter that she can't lose it.

    A dog won't be much better. At least not my dog. Anytime I get the mat out, he comes over and stares at me. I can see it in his eyes, he's saying "Again?!? You're going to jump around when it does not involve playing with me again?!". Its like I'm annoying him that early in the morning. He tries to get in my way, lick my face, walk right in my path while I'm doing jumps. He eventually gives up and goes in the bedroom and gives me the evil eye from there.
    And then when I take him for runs with me, he deliberately tries to trip me up.


    My Dogs EXACTLY. But I taught my dogs "down stay" and that NEVER worked on the cat… god rest her little furry soul.
  • Yanicka1
    Yanicka1 Posts: 4,564 Member
    You should divorce you cat......you deserve so much better.
  • KarenAnnne
    KarenAnnne Posts: 190 Member
    Maybe a kitty intervention?:laugh:
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    Im sorry if that is what I feel:ohwell:

    images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQDtK7PKEMnCv_24pHvvNrcpOXxdlbScNvaAT5M1M_3Igch6zIU

    because you STILL don't realize the whole thread is tongue-in-cheek...

    and just in case you think that means she was french kissing her cat, let me clarify...

    IT IS A JOKE.
  • tennisbabe94
    tennisbabe94 Posts: 444 Member
    Maybe she's jealous! You should invite her to work out with you!
  • im sorry :smile: want to be friends
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Maybe you and your cat should go to counseling together. There might be some things that she just can't say to you.
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    im sorry :smile: want to be friends

    sorry sweetie, but my wall would confuse and horrify you at the same time...
  • thats ok i already seen your wall it: dont scare me:indifferent::smile:
  • Where do I find a motivating goldfish? I must have one. :D
  • Stephendw9
    Stephendw9 Posts: 88 Member
    Delete the cat! :laugh:


    ^^^ this ^^^
  • JSlattery79
    JSlattery79 Posts: 116 Member
    this post is so cute!.. lol!
  • bellesouth18
    bellesouth18 Posts: 1,071 Member
    Find an animal psychic to read its mind. Luv this thread! :love:
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    The kitty is my sole motiviation for trying to look as good as I can ;)
  • Desterknee
    Desterknee Posts: 1,056 Member
    My cat is still a jerk in case you were wondering.
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    Not as big as you for bumping a useless thread from 3 years ago.
  • kjm3579
    kjm3579 Posts: 3,974 Member
    My cat used to be my best bud too, but then we took her for a little trip to the clinic and she came home a few ounces lighter and she has resented me ever since.....
  • Desterknee
    Desterknee Posts: 1,056 Member
    Not as big as you for bumping a useless thread from 3 years ago.

    It's still relevant, man.
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Lol what a cute post.
  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
    You should have gotten a fish.
  • lizzardsm
    lizzardsm Posts: 271 Member
    Kick her to the curb! You don't need a friend like that! She's just using you for your warm milk and shelter. She's jealous of all your losses and huge gainz. She wants you to just stay with her - sedentary and sitting on the couch, sniffing catnip.
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
    :huh: Why would you even think of expecting a cat to get involved in your successes? Its not like they can congratulate you or anything Cats have a mind of their own as all animals do. However If you are concerned that your cat does not pay as much attention to you or wont go away from you, this could maybe be that your can may need a little guidence to adjusting to this new part of you. Because all of this self changing yourself may not be what you cat is used to. But dont get angry with a cat.:smile::wink:

    Me thinks this post went way over your head.
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  • sofaking6
    sofaking6 Posts: 4,589 Member
    Desterknee wrote: »
    My cat is still a jerk in case you were wondering.

    Actually, all cats are jerks. They should have told you that when you got one, sorry.

  • jgnatca
    jgnatca Posts: 14,464 Member
    robin, I think you need a few more lessons on image linking.
    The obvious solution is to get your cat on team exercise.

    Cat and girl treadmill
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
    Desterknee wrote: »
    This is really upsetting and I don't know what to do.

    So my cat is really not supportive of my weight-loss. She was the last one I expected to act this way. She used to come over to me, hop on my belly, massage my fat, purr, and snuggle. This morning she comes over, puts a paw on my belly, gives me stank-eye and walks away. We barely hang out anymore.

    You know what else? When I am clearing a path to do walking lunges she ALWAYS lays down right in the middle of it. And when I put my exercise mat on the floor she sits on it. When I get into push up position, she goes under my belly and gets in my way. SHE IS TRYING TO SABOTAGE ME! Why would she do that?

    Do you think my weight loss is making her insecure? I don't understand why she would do this to me. I think I need to confront her but I'm not sure if I'm overreacting.

    HELP!!

    I feel your pain. My younger cat is mad because I put him on a diet. The brat is 2.5 yrs old and almost 18 pounds! He slept in the laundry basket on the clean clothes instead of in the bed with me last night. But it's ok, my other, skinnier cat slept right next to me. ;)
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