Anyone else afraid of flying?

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  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    edited March 2015
    I used to have panic attacks every time I flew. Then two years ago my daughter who was 2600 mi away had premature labor at 23 weeks and they didn't expect the baby to make it. I had to grab a standby flight with 4 plane changes and ended up stuck in Atlanta for nearly two nights desperate to get to my Daughter, and was devastated every time I didn't make the list on each flight. Finally at the end of day two I got the last flight out of Atlanta literally the last person on and couldn't have been more happy to get on that plane! I never experienced those panic attacks again!!! We were very blessed with a 1lb4oz baby girl who spent 6mos in NICU. I flew back and forth nearly a dozen times that year and now flying doesn't even phase me. Best advise I can give you is to take a breath, remember that it's safer to be in the air than on the street and take a good movie on your laptop or hopefully if your lucky you'll get on a flight with your own TV screen in front of you. This is the best distraction and makes the flight time go by very fast! I hope you enjoy your trip to Vegas! :smiley: Have Fun, Have a Very Happy Birthday and don't go broke!!! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
  • carrieliz81
    carrieliz81 Posts: 489 Member
    I love to fly and I'm not scared of it, but no one likes turbulence........ that *kitten*'s unnerving. One thing someone told me once that always helps me is, think of the turbulence bumps as waves in the ocean. Flying a plane is very similar to driving a boat.... you're floating around and subject to the matter you're in shifting and changing. It happens, and it's just part of the ride. So -- I always think, it's just like waves in the ocean, waves in the ocean.......... and that helps relax me.
  • JZygmunt72
    JZygmunt72 Posts: 262 Member
    im actually in a training school for flying :P the truth about flying is that there are more car crashes than plane crashes, they just blow them up on the new because its a plane, is spectacular. when was the last car crash you heard on the news? you probably cant remember. but plane crashes, since there is so few they bring them up day after day, year after year, just to have some sort of news. the aviation safety board works hard finding ways to not let crashes happen again. im sure you will be fine!
  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
    nope, flying is boring, the people i usually sit next to are annoying.
    dont worry, the chances of a plane crash are slim, youll be fine.
    bring headphones, pretend youre in a car and dont look out the window, and breath, focus on your breath when you get anxious, look up breathing exercises for anxiety
  • GDLAZ
    GDLAZ Posts: 3,784 Member
    I used to love to fly, but now I avoid it as much as possible. I will drive across country if I have the time. EVERY time I fly now I get pulled for a "random" inspection. Last time they checked me twice, once before I entered the security line and again on the other side. Did they think I may have picked something up while standing in line?
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    Still afraid to fly, but I've done it quite a bit so it gets easier. You can't be terrified for hours straight in the air. I know the stats, but it's a control thing (all in the hands of one dude). Also, cars crash more often, but they are on the ground and people are more likely to walk away. Planes are 10,000 feet in the air minimum, and if they crash, it's pretty unlikely anyone walks away.
  • barry1992
    barry1992 Posts: 692 Member
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    As previously stated , it is the lack of flight that we should be frightened of. I have put up this picture to demonstrate "lack of flight". This should not under any circumstances be confused with actual flight. Flight does not involve any such physical contact with mother Earth. (Unless flight takes place in a simulator...which isnt really flight at all.......a bit like fairies......imagined !! ).
    I would like to point out that no planes were hurt during this MFP production and that the plane pictured is actually just resting having arrived from Australia. :D
  • Spnneil06
    Spnneil06 Posts: 18,745 Member
    I love to fly, I laugh as everyone else is sitting with their heads down!
  • ilfaith
    ilfaith Posts: 16,769 Member
    My father-in-law hasn't flown in a plane since he came back from Korea...where he served as an air traffic controller (we think he knows something and he's just not sharing). In 1950something he flew from Seoul to San Francisco, then hopped on a train back to NYC.

    My husband (his son), on the other hand, had some 150 USAir segments last year...and that's not the only airline he flies.

    I don't mind flying...it's just the hassle of getting through the airport I don't care for.
  • KHaverstick
    KHaverstick Posts: 308 Member
    I actually love flying. I find it to be relaxing. When else can I just sit in a seat and have no agenda, no pressure, and am able to do whatever I want to do, even if that's just stare off into space for a couple of hours? Never. The safety aspect has never concerned me.
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  • barry1992
    barry1992 Posts: 692 Member
    Its not the speed that matters. Its the fact that as the plane crashes and stops abruptly you carry on flying at the same rate and overtake the damn plane forehead first !
  • barry1992
    barry1992 Posts: 692 Member
    Im thinking that this thread is more relevant just now. Although I have been finding humour through this subject it always is with this in mind ... Im a nervous flyer , laughing helps.
    What happened in France is a reminder some fears are justified , but it shouldnt stop us trying to fly
  • TheProudDadLife
    TheProudDadLife Posts: 654 Member
    no ,just the falling
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    I moved from LA to Vegas, took a plane here with all my junk and my kitteh.
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