Im single because......

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  • cboehm
    cboehm Posts: 462 Member
    Im busy being a mom to 4 amazing boys - divorced and we raise our boys without drama. Life is good could not ask for more:)
  • dietcoke281
    dietcoke281 Posts: 226 Member
    Nobody has asked me out
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    I didn't communicate better, and ignorantly believed in fairy tale happy endings

    Happens to every relationship, whether they stay together or not. Reality is a HUGE slap in the face at some point, but then it makes things easier once you accept it.

  • aemech97
    aemech97 Posts: 11
    I have yet to be able to find someone that can handle all this awesomeness....
  • many_splendored
    many_splendored Posts: 113 Member
    Because the men I want are never the men I should have, and I know this.
  • getaterr
    getaterr Posts: 4 Member
    Because I am wildly insecure about my body, and when people ask me out or make moves, I firmly believe it's in jest.

    I know I'm not alone out there...

    Plus meeting guys at bars is annoying. Let's be real here.
  • many_splendored
    many_splendored Posts: 113 Member
    getaterr wrote: »
    Because I am wildly insecure about my body, and when people ask me out or make moves, I firmly believe it's in jest.

    I know I'm not alone out there...

    Plus meeting guys at bars is annoying. Let's be real here.

    I'm with you on that one - goin to bars is something I do expressly with my friends, not for meeting people.

  • Debbjones
    Debbjones Posts: 278 Member
    I won't settle! Been there, done that!
  • 1HappyRedhead
    1HappyRedhead Posts: 413 Member
    Because the men I want are never the men I should have, and I know this.

    ^^^^This... :(
  • earlnabby
    earlnabby Posts: 8,171 Member
    The only people who are attracted to me are the ones who want a mother rather than a wife and I will NOT be a woman who takes charge of everything. My Mom was that kind of wife and I saw what it did to my Dad over their 50 year marriage.

    I am very content with myself and who I am. I don't need another for validation, although I do get lonely sometimes.
  • MaxPower0102
    MaxPower0102 Posts: 2,654 Member
    My wife thought my girlfriend was a selfish, immature brat. Ironically, she was right. /fml
  • Belle8312
    Belle8312 Posts: 2,151 Member
    Only attract people that are: married, crazy, weird, and/or only want sex.
    And online dating sucks. :smiley:
  • cboehm
    cboehm Posts: 462 Member
    Belle8312 wrote: »
    Only attract people that are: married, crazy, weird, and/or only want sex.
    And online dating sucks. :smiley:

    I think we share the same dating pool :)
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    I focused on my studies more than relationships in college
  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    belimawr wrote: »
    I'm just really really badly anti-social. I can't even make friends on here because... I just find it hard to relate to people.

    are you a pod?

  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    I lost a wife in child birth. Ive dated... Usually not the right woman. Dated a 23 year old for a time but the 300 texts a day from her drove me nuts. Dated a woman recently but her life was even busier than mine so she just really wanted a FWB and I am worth more than that. So I am prob too picky. I want a woman who loves kids, funny, passionate, adventurous, stable, active, sweet and not crazy. Thats evidently a crap load to ask

    Sorry for the loss of your wife. You ARE worth more.

    As for the question, I am single because I'm widowed.
  • Tx_Julie_Mango
    Tx_Julie_Mango Posts: 48 Member
    There are not a lot of men trying to date me, there are a lot of men trying to f me. There is a big difference. I'm allergic to BS, so I'll just date myself :D
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Scorpiena wrote: »
    I'm boring

    If you're a Scorpio, I highly doubt that. You just need to find the one that gets you out of your shy shell, so you can bloom into the life of the party.
  • free1220
    free1220 Posts: 416 Member
    It seems I'm invisible to the opposite sex.
  • Agarland34
    Agarland34 Posts: 60 Member
    I will not settle for a piece of a man.
  • VintageMisery514
    VintageMisery514 Posts: 533 Member
    Because I haven't met anyone lately that I can't imagine being without. At least no one that is available to me anyway.
  • MaxPower0102
    MaxPower0102 Posts: 2,654 Member
    Because I haven't met @VintageMisery514 in-person yet. ;)
  • VintageMisery514
    VintageMisery514 Posts: 533 Member
    Because I haven't met @VintageMisery514 in-person yet. ;)

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  • Pretty_Little_Nobody
    Pretty_Little_Nobody Posts: 626 Member
    my self confidence is low and I always seem to end up liking people that are out of my league and being too scared to talk to them.
  • AmandaNicole083
    AmandaNicole083 Posts: 309 Member
    I just got out of an 11 year relationship/6 year marriage..
  • kangakev
    kangakev Posts: 2,430 Member
    i snore...sometimes during first dates
  • strwbry74
    strwbry74 Posts: 1,728 Member
    The career I chose has no place for an insecure/controlling partner.
  • Darkhawk1969
    Darkhawk1969 Posts: 1,419 Member
    strwbry74 wrote: »
    The career I chose has no place for an insecure/controlling partner.
    I know that feeling lol
  • barry1992
    barry1992 Posts: 692 Member
    I refused to take a beating and dialled a number starting with the numbers 999
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