Called a DILF!!!
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Lol. Good work on your loss and progress.
The bagger at the grocery store yesterday called me "miss" instead of "ma'am" and I gave myself a mental high five. I'm under no impression that he thought I was young enough to default to "miss" status but it was nice to hear anyway. There's nothing wrong with enjoying a compliment (or "compliment".)0 -
OP keep it in your pants, it's hard to maintain a diet in the slammer.0
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Its an expression, its not about actually F'ing.
Relax.0 -
FitWarrior7 wrote: »OP keep it in your pants, it's hard to maintain a diet in the slammer.
You got that right. Apparently with the weight loss, Id be too hot make it in prison!
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Good grief.
I think we should just let the OP be happy with his compliment
I'm 20 and I don't think it's that weird. Like whatever floats people's boats. 0 -
Hahahaha. Glad you have a sense of humor with this thread. Congrats on your progress so far.FitWarrior7 wrote: »OP keep it in your pants, it's hard to maintain a diet in the slammer.
You got that right. Apparently with the weight loss, Id be too hot make it in prison!
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Thanks! Life is too short to see the glass half empty day after day.0
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almondbutterbay wrote: »Good grief.
I think we should just let the OP be happy with his compliment I'm 20 and I don't think it's that weird. Like whatever floats people's boats.
Thanks!!!
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.0 -
if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
Exactly, its an expression, and was meant as a compliment without ANY thought to the F.
Sheesh, how do people go through life with ZERO sense of humor?
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
EDTA : In a man's house in front of his daughter. The whole dynamics would further change if person is married or in a steady relationship that this friend knows about. I so apologize for this question. I just cannot fathom the idea of it being a success. But please again this is just me.0 -
I'm sure it was a lighthearted compliment as "DILF" and "MILF" have become synonymous with finding an older person attractive.0
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There was no "conversation" It was a comment, nothing more. There will be no F'ing of any kind in any way.0
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
For some reason I thought that the daughter had just passed along the comment. Either way, though, still doesn't bother me. I might feel differently if he had said "she called me a DILF so I asked her out and we are meeting for drinks this Friday and after that..." But he didn't.
Same. Doesn't sound like OP is exactly Joey Buttafuoco.0 -
if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
nods.
Also interesting thumbnail picture- that exact picture is hanging up in a building I visit quiescently.0 -
I'd also like to go back and say- if this was a 16 year old boy- talking about 30-40 year old woman- no one would be surprised a boy would say that. She probably wouldn't overtly say something about being proud of it- but no one would be shocked if a boy of that age said oh yeah check out that MILF.0
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if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
For some reason I thought that the daughter had just passed along the comment. Either way, though, still doesn't bother me. I might feel differently if he had said "she called me a DILF so I asked her out and we are meeting for drinks this Friday and after that..." But he didn't.
Same. Doesn't sound like OP is exactly Joey Buttafuoco.
Haha thanks!! Dont worry I threw out my zumba pants weeks ago!
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I'm going to have to agree with those who say that the situation was probably innocent enough but the report of said comment or complement was the issue. I don't think we would be having this conversation right now if you just said that your daughter's friend thought you looked good for an older man.0
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I see nothing wrong with it. A young woman...and a 20 year old IS a woman, that she is his daughter's friend is irrelevant, every woman is someone's daughter after all....expressed to a man who had lost weight that he is looking good.
if its not about the F then why use the world "DILF"
could of just said my daughters friend said I look good because I have been losing weight...
just a strange way to put it, IMO
Well, it sounds like the girl used that word and OP was just quoting her, and was maybe just flattered.
Yes, it says more about the girl. Classy acronym to use in the guy's own house right in front of his daughter.
Lol, well, also, sometimes people use acronyms without really thinking about what they mean. Like MILF gets used a lot and it's a little softer than the whole phrase spelled out.
This. And also, friends say stuff to each other that they wouldn't say to other people. NBD to me.
And why wouldn't it be a success? It's nice to feel like you are looking good, especially if it's been awhile since anybody has said that about you.
I think the point we are missing here is a conversation between a man and his daughter's 20 year old friend.
EDTA : In a man's house in front of his daughter. The whole dynamics would further change if person is married or in a steady relationship that this friend knows about. I so apologize for this question. I just cannot fathom the idea of it being a success. But please again this is just me.
OF COURSE, he is happy about that. Anybody would be. Is a compliment not a compliment regardless of who it comes from? Even when men I have absolutely no interest in compliment me, I am always at least flattered...even if they say it in not the smoothest most PC way. We all like to look good and be thought of as attractive...nothing wrong with that.
She used the phrase, not him. And frankly, terms like that are frequently casually used just to express that an older person (compared to the person using the phrase) is attractive.
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