What are men looking for in a woman?

stephaniejsharp
stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
edited November 15 in Chit-Chat
Curiousity question. What attracts you, but more importantly what keeps you?
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  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    Are you sure you want to know?
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    Yep most def. Be brutally honest :)
  • iamlynn74
    iamlynn74 Posts: 502 Member
    Take the blue pill and remain inside the matrix
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    Honestly if I just click with someone then there are no games. I really like when we are as comfortable together out with friends as we are at home.

    My biggest thing is conversation. If we can sit and talk for hours, with both of us not being able to get enough of each other, then that girl can have my heart
  • Ria_StayingFit
    Ria_StayingFit Posts: 6,891 Member
    Honestly...sex, hot steamy and varied. A man will put up with a lot of the crazy if he is satisfied in the sack. Of course mutual interests and common goals and love plays a roll but sex keeps him happy. That is only my opinion, I have only managed to keep mine for 20 years. ;)
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    O.o
    -in for lulz-
  • MynameisJerryB
    MynameisJerryB Posts: 168 Member
    edited March 2015
    For me, I like a confident, independent, strong willed woman that doesn't require a man to live her life but I'm probably not like most guys :D Physically, the first things I notice is her smile and eyes.
  • kendall916
    kendall916 Posts: 4,222 Member
    Most Guys care about the score. But there are a few guys who care for what's more than a score.
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    kendall916 wrote: »
    ...there are a few guys who care for what's more than a score.

    -nodnod-
    my guy mhm :3
  • iamlynn74
    iamlynn74 Posts: 502 Member
    Ria_StayingFit wrote: »
    Honestly...sex, hot steamy and varied. A man will put up with a lot of the crazy if he is satisfied in the sack. Of course mutual interests and common goals and love plays a roll but sex keeps him happy. That is only my opinion, I have only managed to keep mine for 20 years. ;)

    Not sure if I agree with the beginning of this comment
  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    Who knows what a man does while a woman thinks she's keeping him happy...
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    wolfruhn wrote: »
    Who knows what a man does while a woman thinks she's keeping him happy...

    Lol
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    edited March 2015
    Tits, *kitten* and you know the rest.
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    edited March 2015
    So women seem to think it's all
    About keeping men happy sexually. I'd like to believe that maybe that's what it's about in the beginning, but there has to be something more than that to keep a man satisfied long term. Maybe I'm
    Wrong.
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    So women seem to think it's all
    About keeping men happy sexually. I'd like to believe that maybe that's what it's about in the beginning, but there has to be something more than that to keep a man satisfied long term. Maybe I'm
    Wrong.
    some dudes are just into gamer chicks.
  • MobiusMan
    MobiusMan Posts: 385 Member
    Okay I'm an old fart but....intelligence rules. Along with all Jerry said being those traits is a woman that uses her head. Intelligence comes in a lot of different formats from book smart to worldly but despite the packaging there's nothing sexier than a sharp mind.
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    MobiusMan wrote: »
    Okay I'm an old fart but....intelligence rules. Along with all Jerry said being those traits is a woman that uses her head. Intelligence comes in a lot of different formats from book smart to worldly but despite the packaging there's nothing sexier than a sharp mind.

    Love this :)
  • MynameisJerryB
    MynameisJerryB Posts: 168 Member
    We are basically just overgrown children that crave attention. :D Just pay attention to us and let us play with our toys. LOL
  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    So women seem to think it's all
    About keeping men happy sexually. I'd like to believe that maybe that's what it's about in the beginning, but there has to be something more than that to keep a man satisfied long term. Maybe I'm
    Wrong.

    Getting warm
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    wolfruhn wrote: »
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    So women seem to think it's all
    About keeping men happy sexually. I'd like to believe that maybe that's what it's about in the beginning, but there has to be something more than that to keep a man satisfied long term. Maybe I'm
    Wrong.

    Getting warm

    Enlighten me
  • akiba254
    akiba254 Posts: 209 Member
    edited March 2015
    The joke answer for what I like for in a women is me. But in all honesty sense of humour and intelligence. Nothing is truly more attractive than a woman who can challenge me and is my equal.
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    Ria_StayingFit wrote: »
    Honestly...sex, hot steamy and varied. A man will put up with a lot of the crazy if he is satisfied in the sack. Of course mutual interests and common goals and love plays a roll but sex keeps him happy. That is only my opinion, I have only managed to keep mine for 20 years. ;)

    Lol I'll keep this in the back of my mind ;)
  • lokepa
    lokepa Posts: 204 Member
    Ria_StayingFit wrote: »
    Honestly...sex, hot steamy and varied. A man will put up with a lot of the crazy if he is satisfied in the sack. Of course mutual interests and common goals and love plays a roll but sex keeps him happy. That is only my opinion, I have only managed to keep mine for 20 years. ;)

    There's a lot of truth in this answer, but as someone who has dabbled in the crazy pond on more than one occasion, crazy gets old. I'm down for kooky... surprise me... make me laugh... and have a strong sack game... and baby, I'll cook you dinner on the regular :wink:
  • iamlynn74
    iamlynn74 Posts: 502 Member
    edited March 2015
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    So women seem to think it's all
    About keeping men happy sexually. I'd like to believe that maybe that's what it's about in the beginning, but there has to be something more than that to keep a man satisfied long term. Maybe I'm
    Wrong.
    some dudes are just into gamer chicks.

    Well if a woman gives it up on introduction then that's all a lot men will see..... EVER. As for me "the chases" says a lot about a woman.
    It this question about the physical attraction or something else.
  • Ria_StayingFit
    Ria_StayingFit Posts: 6,891 Member
    Of course there is. The truth is there is no real how to manual when it comes to love and relationships. It is a mutual give and take and it requires work. The harder you work at it the more successful you are. What keeps a man or woman is what attracts you to them to begin with. Usually the superficial attracts you but the depth keeps you...for men and women equally.
  • wolfruhn
    wolfruhn Posts: 3,025 Member
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    Ria_StayingFit wrote: »
    Honestly...sex, hot steamy and varied. A man will put up with a lot of the crazy if he is satisfied in the sack. Of course mutual interests and common goals and love plays a roll but sex keeps him happy. That is only my opinion, I have only managed to keep mine for 20 years. ;)

    Lol I'll keep this in the back of my mind ;)

    Sure, but it's only a part of it, really depends on the guy you're trying to keep..
  • GWehsling
    GWehsling Posts: 120 Member
    I once overheard an old lady saying that men will stick with any woman who can fill his belly and empty his sack, daily. I think this is oversimplified but not far off the mark for most guys while for a select few, it's a metaphor, but rather accurate.

    I like to have natural fun, lots of laughs, support in the tough times and an equal: Somebody who puts in as much as I do with as little expectation for reward at every opportunity.
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    I find the dichotomy between what women think keeps a man and what men actually say fascinating. It's refreshing to know not all men strictly care about the physical and there is more emphasis on intelligence, humor, and the ability to converse. And of course I'd want to be trying to keep a man of class.
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    stephaniejsharp wrote: »
    So women seem to think it's all
    About keeping men happy sexually. I'd like to believe that maybe that's what it's about in the beginning, but there has to be something more than that to keep a man satisfied long term. Maybe I'm
    Wrong.
    You're not wrong. Some guys connect more deeply than others. Depends on the person. earth shattering, meaningless sex has a piss poor long term outlook. There has to be a deeper connection that the physical part of the relationship enhances (at least for me)
  • tinamarie0604
    tinamarie0604 Posts: 308 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    Honestly if I just click with someone then there are no games. I really like when we are as comfortable together out with friends as we are at home.

    My biggest thing is conversation. If we can sit and talk for hours, with both of us not being able to get enough of each other, then that girl can have my heart
    Oh my gosh! This is exactly what I'm talking about!
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