What to do with flabby skin?

Exfoliate and use lots of lotion. I'm a 100 pound loser and not too bad. I steam after working out and lotion up before bed and after showers

I've lost ninety and I'm in my mid-fifties. I tuck it in. I'm doing triceps exercises for my bat-wings but I think it's more for consolation than for results. I need more upper body strength anyways.

Skin can take upto 2 years to 'snap back'. Exfoliate, moisturise and hope for the best. Strength training 'seems' to help too.

Give it some time. Most people find that your skin will snap back over the next year or so. I believe it depends on how much you lost, how big you were and for how long, age, and genetics.

After that period of time, it will snap back and much as it possibly can. It's then that you need to decide whether or not something like surgery is even worth it to you.

Do not believe for a second that creams, oils, dry-brushing, etc. will make any real difference. After a certain period of time your option is to live with it (and enjoy your new lighter physique regardless!) or have it surgically removed.

You learn to live with it. That's about all I can say.

I wait for a very windy day and then go gliding....

In your 50's you find out how lucky or unlucky you have been in the genetic lottery of how elastic your skin is.

It does take a while for skin to catch up with weight loss when you are deep into your second childhood. I'm never going to have a pretty looking 6 pack but I'm a damn site healthier for losing weight and that's so much more important.

Fitness trainer told me to do more strength training (lifting) and eat more protein. Let's hope it works. I want to yell at all the heavy young people, "Lose the weight now while your skin can still snap back!"

I just tuck it in (the belly flap), and the arm and leg skin, I just learned to accept it. 3 pregnancies--all with 50+lb gains and super quick losses (I always "eat for 2 grown adults", get severe edema in 3rd trimester, plus post partum thyroiditis, YIKES) contributed to my "extra" skin (plus, I'm not genetically blessed in my collagen production, apparently).

It may get better (I like to exfoliate and lotion, just as a "pampering" spa experience, so maybe some improvement), or it may not. Lots and lots of people (of all ages) have loose skin.

So, I guess I've no good advice for you. I just want you to realize that your issue is just as normal as those that don't have extra. And I've noticed (just by people watching a lot), that I'd bet most people think their extra bits are "worse" than they really are (our own worst critics, so to speak).

I'm 44 and lost 40% of my bodyweight (80#) - it's been 2 years on maintenance, running and heavy lifting, creams and oils, and still the damn skin sags. I'm trying to figure out how to afford at least a tummy tuck...that is the worst part for me.

classicalbk wrote: »

Fitness trainer told me to do more strength training (lifting) and eat more protein. Let's hope it works. I want to yell at all the heavy young people, "Lose the weight now while your skin can still snap back!"

If one built up enough muscle to push up against that stretched skin, that would work, but strength training and eating protein with no sarcoplasmic hypertrophy wouldn't do much for loose skin at all.

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Congrats on the weigh loss. Come to an understand with your body. Thank it for all that you have accomplished together. Also get a fun hair style and lovely clothes.

Surgery doesn't make sense unless there's a significant amount of skin (because scars) and laser tightening (which does exist) offers so-so results, and only in people with already good collagen, which I guess most people worried about skin laxity may not have.

Therefore, acceptance (and maybe increasing muscle mass) is really the best option for people not in the groups recommended for those solutions.

I think this is right:

RodaRose wrote: »

Congrats on the weigh loss. Come to an understand with your body. Thank it for all that you have accomplished together. Also get a fun hair style and lovely clothes.

After you thank it, maybe try to just ignore it. That's my plan. (Because I'm not sure what "acceptance" really means otherwise.)

I hate to be the one to piss in someone's Wheaties but, exfoliating will do zero for excess skin other than to give nice soft, fresh, flabby skin.

Part of the problem with excess skin/flab has as much to do with HOW you lost your weight as with HOW MUCH and HOW FAST you lost the weight. Too often, people seem to think that losing five pounds a week or some such is a good thing. It is not. Your body needs time to recover each step along the way. And the percentage of total body mass needs to be calculated in one's weight loss regimen. For one person two pounds a week might be reasonable but for another it might be too much and not safe while, for a third, it could be slower than their optimum.

You also need to understand that the muscles that should be supporting that tissue have been fairly lax during your overweight period. Both your skin and your muscles will lose some of their natural elasticity. Much, if not all - depending on age and general overall condition, of this elasticity can be regained. And, as far as strength training goes? You can tone and work your biceps until you can press 250# and STILL have much of that flab under your arm. It's a different set of muscles - or, more accurately, the 'partnered' muscle.

Flexors and extensors usually work in partnership. (Think about when you stretch your arm out - that requires one set of muscles but, to draw that arm back up requires a different set of muscles.) So, depending upon what type of lifting you are doing, you may offer little toning to the muscles you actually want to address.

The best way to do this is WHILE you are in the process of losing the weight in the first place. Pilates and yoga are great for your heart and your general overall tone. But, if you are losing a lot of weight - and 50 pounds is a LOT of weight! - you want to target those specific areas such as the underarm flab, the belly, and other areas prone to holding the fat and flab.

Yoga can go a long way to addressing the issue - IF you are doing proper forms that target those areas and if you are doing them correctly. The best thing I have found for underarm flab, however, is weight lifting. But not just any weight lifting. Try this:

With one knee on a weight bench or chair, lean forward until your upper body is parallel to the floor. With a weight in one hand, lift your upper arm until it is level and parallel to your body, the forearm at a 90 degree angle. This is your starting posture.

Now, slowly lift the forearm back and upward until the arm is straight. (If you don't feel it in your upper arm muscles, you are either doing it wrong or you need more weight!) Do a set with one arm, then switch to the other. I would recommend starting with two or three sets of five/ten. Gradually increase sets and reps. And don't overdo it! You may think it's easy but you might discover later that it was more taxing to your muscles than you realized. That's good.

Congratulations, karensuegill. What you have done is amazing! And, if you can kick that fifty, toning your temple should be a breeze! Keep up the good work!

Like others of have said, depends on how much you have lost, how old you are and how long you were overweight.
I had been obese my entire life. I lost alot of weight 156 pounds in 2012-2013 but haven't gained a few pounds back. I worked out during my weight loss and still do. Lots of weight and strength training along with cardio. Yes I have loose skin. I have spoken to trainers at my past gym and they agreed that skin will snap back some and it takes 1-2 years but there is only so much that will do even with working out. Skin removal surgery is what will take care of it. I looked into back in 2013 but the cost is very expensive and insurance will not cover a dime of it since it is not medically needed for me as I have no rashes or things like that that some get from loose skin. Also the drains and complications scared me too much. I just live with my saggy skin. Most clothes cover it up. It mainly bothers me in the summer when I wear sleeveless tops and my bat wings are flapping. I have muscle in my arms but that damn loose skin hangs still.
If I was rich or won the lottery I might have a tummy tuck and upper arms done but that isn't gonna happen due to the cost so I just live with what I have.
Good luck!
Lotions don't work either. I also get 80 grams of protein a day along with working out since 2012.

I think it's an individual thing. I'm 42 and lost 33% of my body weight quite quickly. I had loose skin under my arms, on my stomach and on my thighs, plus a turkey neck. 6 months later it's mostly all gone. I didn't do anything fancy, just worked out moderately and stayed active. My stomach is the only place with loose skin now, and it's not so bad I couldn't wear a bikini on the beach for the first time in about 10 years last week (and second time ever!).