Need help with eating less

zyarnykh
zyarnykh Posts: 38 Member
edited September 2024 in Introduce Yourself
So I've been on Fitness Pal for a couple of months now. I can't seem to stick to the recommended 1,200 calories a day. I have these uncontrollable eating binges, and have actually gained 6 lbs since starting - don't get me wrong, I am not blaming anyone but myself here. Just wanted to know if anyone has any suggestions on eating less.

I try to drink a liter of water, and generally don't eat junk, but I eat a LOT. Physically I am pretty fit (ran a half marathon 2 weeks ago). Stats: female, 28 (29 in 2 weeks), 5'2, 136 as of this morning. Ideally I want to get down to 110-115, pre-grad school weight. 125 would be a great 1st goal.

Thanks in advance!
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  • Ahzuri
    Ahzuri Posts: 272 Member
    Drink water when you feel hungry or eat something with a lot of fiber in it to fill you up and make you feel full longer. I've also talked to people who whenever they get one of those urges at a time they aren't suppose to be eating that they will exercise instead.
  • sarahbeth17
    sarahbeth17 Posts: 100 Member
    Try taking a tablespoon of bragg's apple cider vinegar every day, with a lot of water. it's not that great tasting at all but is great with hunger. They also have tablets that are supposed to be almost as good but I haven't tried those yet. Extra virgin coconut oil is great too, it pulls all the yeast out of your body which is what makes you crave sweet things! Hope it helps!
  • slpartin
    slpartin Posts: 1
    Drink lots more water. You should try drinking at least 2 liters a day. I notice that I want to eat more when I haven't been getting all my water. Are you actually hungry for these extra calories? Are you planning out your day? Try more filling low calorie snacks like an apple, good complex carb to have in the morning. Maybe try to plan your day for 1100 calories and save the other 100 for when you feel you need something else to eat. Have some 100 calorie options on hand.
  • icerose137
    icerose137 Posts: 318 Member
    Cut out all simple sugars, refined flours, boxed meals, pre-prepared food stuffs.

    Add in lots of veggies, fruit, legumes and beans. A moderate amount of whole grains, a small amount of lean proteins. When you add in a lot of fiber naturally through your diet you will be wondering how you can possibly consume enough calories rather than the other way around.
  • Stephinow
    Stephinow Posts: 273
    Hi. You say you eat a lot. I guess it depends on what you're eating a lot of. Maybe try adding more vegetables to your meals. Fill up on watery fruits for your snacks or even with your snacks. Also, when I feel hungry but know I couldn't be, and I'm probably just bored, I'll go up and down the steps a few times here at work (I work on the 4th floor), and that usually does the trick. Gets eating off my mind for a bit.
  • mamaw53
    mamaw53 Posts: 71
    The AMA recommends losing weight at 10% increments (150 lbs = 15 lbs weight loss)-then maintaining that weight for 6 months before trying to lose additional weight. This helps your body "get use" to the weight loss, and better prepares it for additional weight loss in the future.
  • concordancia
    concordancia Posts: 5,320 Member
    If you are training for a marathon, you should have your activity level set to at least lightly active. You should also be eating a lot more than 1200 - it doesn't surprise me that you are bingeing, since you are not feeding your body enough for what you are asking of it!!

    Set your activity level higher, your lose goal to .5 to 1 lb/week, only enter non running workouts, eat back those exercise calories. You may find you need to cut back from there, but give your body some time to heal and recover. You are right, 1200 is not enough and your body will sabotage you through cravings and binges.
  • JatieKo621
    JatieKo621 Posts: 425 Member
    So I've been on Fitness Pal for a couple of months now. I can't seem to stick to the recommended 1,200 calories a day. I have these uncontrollable eating binges, and have actually gained 6 lbs since starting - don't get me wrong, I am not blaming anyone but myself here. Just wanted to know if anyone has any suggestions on eating less.

    I try to drink a liter of water, and generally don't eat junk, but I eat a LOT. Physically I am pretty fit (ran a half marathon 2 weeks ago). Stats: female, 28 (29 in 2 weeks), 5'2, 136 as of this morning. Ideally I want to get down to 110-115, pre-grad school weight. 125 would be a great 1st goal.

    Thanks in advance!



    I am in a similar boat. I exercise regularly, am fit, but I have a tendency to overeat. I am trying to just pick something that I can snack on that isn't bad (carrots, any veggie really) but I always tend to go for salty carbs instead. I am 5'3 and weigh 135 and am trying to get down to around 120, but really the number isn't as important as looking how I want to look. (Mostly in my midsection)

    I am also looking for ways to cut back on overeating. It helps me to drink a lot of water. Green tea also sometimes stops my cravings. I tend to overeat at work (I am a server in a restaurant) because there is food everywhere and the chefs always make the servers dinner. If you find a great solution let me know! We are around the same goals so if you want to add me as a friend for support feel free! :)
  • TNAJackson
    TNAJackson Posts: 686 Member
    Try taking a tablespoon of bragg's apple cider vinegar every day, with a lot of water. it's not that great tasting at all but is great with hunger. They also have tablets that are supposed to be almost as good but I haven't tried those yet. Extra virgin coconut oil is great too, it pulls all the yeast out of your body which is what makes you crave sweet things! Hope it helps!

    I took the apple cider vinegar tablets... seemed to help with weight loss at first, but didn't notice a change in my appetite. However, they did give me heart palpataions. Scary, yes!
  • erisfreenici
    erisfreenici Posts: 277 Member
    So because your weight loss goal is so close, you might not be able to lose as much weight as fast as you want. I would recommend setting your goals to lose 0.5 lbs a week and eat at that level every day. Try that for 2 weeks and see how it works for you. Fats actually help you feel full, so don't be afraid to incorporate healthy non-saturated fats into your diet. Try some sliced avocado, or add some olive oil to your cooking. Making sure you get the right amount of protein in your diet really helps too. I drink 0.5 cups of low-fat chocolate milk with my breakfast in the morning and it really helps. You could do a protein shake too, if you're not adverse to it. I have a really hard time eating enough protein.

    Some people find that when they are having a hard time losing weight, they use the zig-zag or calorie cycling method. If you google for either of those, you should find some information. You might also have to adjust your carb/protein/fat ratios in your diet to find the level that works best for you.

    Good luck!
  • melaniecheeks
    melaniecheeks Posts: 6,349 Member
    OK you're already at a healthy bmi so losing pounds is going to be tough, as your body doesn't see the need to give up any fat.

    Your binging is a problem, and only you can work out the reasons for that.

    Are your goals realistic? Aiming for your grad school weight seems a bit optimistic. Maybe concentrate on toning, strength exercises, your shape, instead of the scale?
  • erisfreenici
    erisfreenici Posts: 277 Member
    The AMA recommends losing weight at 10% increments (150 lbs = 15 lbs weight loss)-then maintaining that weight for 6 months before trying to lose additional weight. This helps your body "get use" to the weight loss, and better prepares it for additional weight loss in the future.

    Do you have a URL that links to this information? I'd be interested in reading more about the science behind that recommendation.
  • elg963
    elg963 Posts: 17
    Wow. You sounds so much like myself. For one, the stress of grad school makes it hard for me to stick to my calorie requirements. And, I also have binge episodes after being on the low calorie limit for a few days. I upped mine to 1,300 and surprisingly, the extra 100 calories helped.

    Also, another thing I really have been working on is portion control. Sometimes, it is really hard to be honest with myself and say "you don't need the entire thing". So, I have been really trying to stick to ONE serving of everything I eat, or even 1/2 of the recommended serving (especially when I'm eating more than one item). You will be surprised how little a portion can satisfy actual hunger. My problem is just having the will power to stop after the one serving. :-/ Hope it helps!
  • mlemonroe2
    mlemonroe2 Posts: 603
    So because your weight loss goal is so close, you might not be able to lose as much weight as fast as you want. I would recommend setting your goals to lose 0.5 lbs a week and eat at that level every day. Try that for 2 weeks and see how it works for you. Fats actually help you feel full, so don't be afraid to incorporate healthy non-saturated fats into your diet. Try some sliced avocado, or add some olive oil to your cooking. Making sure you get the right amount of protein in your diet really helps too. I drink 0.5 cups of low-fat chocolate milk with my breakfast in the morning and it really helps. You could do a protein shake too, if you're not adverse to it. I have a really hard time eating enough protein.

    Some people find that when they are having a hard time losing weight, they use the zig-zag or calorie cycling method. If you google for either of those, you should find some information. You might also have to adjust your carb/protein/fat ratios in your diet to find the level that works best for you.

    Good luck!
    good advice :happy:
  • ShellyMacchi
    ShellyMacchi Posts: 975 Member
    1200 calories is the minimum you need.
    But, so long as you are recording all your exercise that means you have alot of added calories you also need to eat.
    Usually the closer to your goal you are, the more you need to eat... so try lower your weekly loss goal to .5 pound per week so you are allocated more calories to begin with, and be sure to eat your exercise calories if you are not already doing so.

    Drinking lots of water and bulking up your meals with lots of vegetables, plus whole grains and legumes really helps as well *S*

    Cannot see your diary so cannot offer specific help based on changes you could maybe make to the way you are presently eating.
  • cuerpito
    cuerpito Posts: 65 Member
    I found something that made a REAL difference for me. 100% whey protein drinks. I visited a wellness doctor and she was the one who told me to stop focusing on fiber so much and eather focus on eating more protein. Protein will help you with building lean muscle but also keep you full longer. I used to eat high fiber foods for breakfast (granola bars, yogurts, cereal) and I would always be hungry wayyyy before lunch.

    Now I drink a 100% whey protein shake (one scoop + one cup of skim milk) and I am FULLLLLLL for hours. I drink a shake at 7:45 am and don't get lunch until 12:30 pm. With this shake, I don't even crave a snack. Did the trick for me! Try it.
  • Cletc
    Cletc Posts: 352
    Cut out all simple sugars, refined flours, boxed meals, pre-prepared food stuffs.

    Add in lots of veggies,

    This has helped me.

    I set a Limit on number of Carbs, and get my carbs from Veggies and Dairy.

    I avoid the list above. VERY HELPFUL ! !
  • Cletc
    Cletc Posts: 352
    Cut out all simple sugars, refined flours, boxed meals, pre-prepared food stuffs.

    Add in lots of veggies,

    This has helped me.

    I set a Limit on number of Carbs, and get my carbs from Veggies and Dairy.

    I avoid the list above. VERY HELPFUL ! !

    May I ask what your Carb grams per day is now?
    My Food Log is Public
  • zyarnykh
    zyarnykh Posts: 38 Member
    Would Trader Joe's organic pasteurized apple cider work instead? I've already bought a bottle but have been sporadic using it. Also, once a day or before each meal?
  • zyarnykh
    zyarnykh Posts: 38 Member
    I understand that I may need more than 1,200, but I often end up with 3,000! I only run 3x week, up to 3-6 miles on average, except for long runs on weekends. A mile burns roughly 100 calories, so I definitely don't burn as much as I consume...
  • zyarnykh
    zyarnykh Posts: 38 Member
    JatieKo: potato chips are my cryptonite. I am glad I am not alone with the salty carbs thing!
  • tatiana_13
    tatiana_13 Posts: 325
    I have two thoughts:

    Are you still in graduate school? If so, and if your self described 'binges' are actual binges and not just overeating, it might be stress/depression/anxiety. I'm not sure diet suggestions are going to help if that's the case. You'll need to talk to someone who might be able to help you deal with those issues.

    if the above isn't true, I second all the folks who say to eliminate the crappy carbs. That's what helped me. I don't eat grains. But I eat all vegetables, yes, even potatoes. Some other folks focused on increasing protein, but I haven't found that to be so necessary. But I have found a little more fat to be necessary. Its what keeps me satisfied and happy. And it makes overeating nearly impossible. No one overeats on eggs or full fat yogurt or chicken. But rice? Popcorn? Rice cakes? They didn't develop the slogan "no one can eat just one" for nothing.

    As for the weight loss...do something other than cardio. Cardio is great for your heart, but it kind of sucks for sustained weight loss. Especially when you are not obese. If you really like cardio-type activity, try high intensity intervals.
  • zyarnykh
    zyarnykh Posts: 38 Member
    Cletc: they want me to eat 165 grams of carbs per day. I try to eat more protein than carbs, but since I have not stuck to 1,200 for not even one day, I eat more carbs than recommended.

    Re: whey protein advice - I'll get back to it! Sometimes I am in the mood for something warm and salty in the morning, like scrambled eggs. But I guess I need to change some "wants" in order to get what I REALLY want!

    Thank you everyone who responded!

    I don't think I can cut out all boxed foods, though...Trader Joe's has some amazing all-natural no-junk prepared meals (Chicken Tikka Masala, Chile Relleno....I could go on and on!).
  • zyarnykh
    zyarnykh Posts: 38 Member
    Tatiana, you are absolutely correct re: crappy carbs. And no, I am no longer in grad school. Graduated in 2008, passed the bar, have a job, got married, so not a whole lot of stress going on. I think I just have a bad relationship with food.
  • Dardidit
    Dardidit Posts: 4
    When I find myself binging or craving...I begin the next day with all my options...I bag and separate all the thinks I can have for that day. Precalculating the calories the night before makes me feel like I still have choices. I just open the fridge and choose from the "pre chosen" items !
  • ShellyMacchi
    ShellyMacchi Posts: 975 Member
    i reduced my daily sodium intake to 1500mg per day
    once i got used to that (a couple of weeks) i found i no longer crave salty stuff at all.

    same was true of when i removed all refined sugars and flours, and artificial sweeteners.
    After a few weeks i stopped craving sweet stuff!
    Only sweetener i use now is honey, and even then it is a rarely used treat *S*

    It's amazing, the healthier your food choices, and the 'cleaner' they are (i am not 100% clean in my eating but i do try with most things), the more you reduce your cravings, and you end up WANTING to not waste calories on things like chips *S*

    good luck!
  • tatiana_13
    tatiana_13 Posts: 325
    Cletc: they want me to eat 165 grams of carbs per day. I try to eat more protein than carbs, but since I have not stuck to 1,200 for not even one day, I eat more carbs than recommended.

    I don't think I can cut out all boxed foods, though...Trader Joe's has some amazing all-natural no-junk prepared meals (Chicken Tikka Masala, Chile Relleno....I could go on and on!).

    I have two suggestions for getting in those 165 carbs without triggering a binge while avoiding crappy carbs:

    Beans. Quite a few carbs. AND, you can even get those Indian style dhals from Trader Joes! (spicy, but delicious)

    Potatoes (all varieties). No good shortcuts. Cooking them up yourself is still the best way. But they are certainly carb-o-rific. White potatoes use to be considered the devil. But a lot of people in the carbosphere have revisited them and found them not to be so "crappy" after all. Few people are championing them, mind you, but they are no longer completely shunned.
  • Cletc
    Cletc Posts: 352
    I lowered my carbs when I was reading this,

    http://www.marksdailyapple.com/press/the-primal-blueprint-diagrams/
  • kje2011
    kje2011 Posts: 502 Member
    I found something that made a REAL difference for me. 100% whey protein drinks. I visited a wellness doctor and she was the one who told me to stop focusing on fiber so much and eather focus on eating more protein. Protein will help you with building lean muscle but also keep you full longer. I used to eat high fiber foods for breakfast (granola bars, yogurts, cereal) and I would always be hungry wayyyy before lunch.

    Now I drink a 100% whey protein shake (one scoop + one cup of skim milk) and I am FULLLLLLL for hours. I drink a shake at 7:45 am and don't get lunch until 12:30 pm. With this shake, I don't even crave a snack. Did the trick for me! Try it.

    Sounds like something I should try! thanks for that suggestion :)
  • melaniecheeks
    melaniecheeks Posts: 6,349 Member
    I love salty foods too - instead of chips I now go for wasabi peas or roast soy beans. Great crunch, and protein to boot!

    How about crab sticks/ seafood sticks?
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