Men...what physique do you find attractive on a woman???

Physique isn't such a big deal, though I admit that the gymnast physique excites me little nothing else if we're going on physique alone. Oh how I love a strong set of legs on a woman! And how I would love to have the physique of gymanst, myself:



But more than that, I've found that a woman's facial attractiveness largely influences how attractive I find the rest of her body. I have to be able to get lost in her eyes, melt when she smiles, and to be able to talk to her for hours or not at all. But now we're straying to the 'it's what's inside that counts' territory and that wasn't the scope of this thread.

royaldrea wrote: »

And I know there's the 2/10 would bang yucky guy meme, but real question are people not allowed to find other people more physically attractive than others because they themselves are not deemed to be at their peak?

Sort of related, but this may be why when people in relationships lose weight, their partners become insecure - because they may feel as though that person is only with them because they were the best they could do at that time, and as soon as they have options they'll take 'em.

Apparently we're not allowed to find certain physical features attractive on others. For as much as women complain about being "body shamed", I couldn't help but notice when I stated what I actually like, the first reaction of the one chick was to go with the body-shaming and pointing out "30% body fat", which also means she had to go and look at my profile page and seek it out to make a crappy comment. Judgmental much? I don't even care about that. Obviously I'm not attractive to her- and that's perfectly fine and dandy by me. My wife finds me quite attractive.

I don't understand how having preference (and saying them when asked) is body shaming.

vadersaysno wrote: »

royaldrea wrote: »

And I know there's the 2/10 would bang yucky guy meme, but real question are people not allowed to find other people more physically attractive than others because they themselves are not deemed to be at their peak?

Sort of related, but this may be why when people in relationships lose weight, their partners become insecure - because they may feel as though that person is only with them because they were the best they could do at that time, and as soon as they have options they'll take 'em.

Apparently we're not allowed to find certain physical features attractive on others. For as much as women complain about being "body shamed", I couldn't help but notice when I stated what I actually like, the first reaction of the one chick was to go with the body-shaming and pointing out "30% body fat", which also means she had to go and look at my profile page and seek it out to make a crappy comment. Judgmental much? I don't even care about that. Obviously I'm not attractive to her- and that's perfectly fine and dandy by me. My wife finds me quite attractive.

Sorry, I got you mixed up with the Mojo guy that originally posted the BF pic. I haven't looked at your profile.
I just think it's hilarious that fake boobs are ok (in your opinion) for a ONS but not a relationship...like wut?? LOL

fatcity66 wrote: »

vadersaysno wrote: »

royaldrea wrote: »

And I know there's the 2/10 would bang yucky guy meme, but real question are people not allowed to find other people more physically attractive than others because they themselves are not deemed to be at their peak?

Sort of related, but this may be why when people in relationships lose weight, their partners become insecure - because they may feel as though that person is only with them because they were the best they could do at that time, and as soon as they have options they'll take 'em.

Apparently we're not allowed to find certain physical features attractive on others. For as much as women complain about being "body shamed", I couldn't help but notice when I stated what I actually like, the first reaction of the one chick was to go with the body-shaming and pointing out "30% body fat", which also means she had to go and look at my profile page and seek it out to make a crappy comment. Judgmental much? I don't even care about that. Obviously I'm not attractive to her- and that's perfectly fine and dandy by me. My wife finds me quite attractive.

Sorry, I got you mixed up with the Mojo guy that originally posted the BF pic. I haven't looked at your profile.
I just think it's hilarious that fake boobs are ok (in your opinion) for a ONS but not a relationship...like wut?? LOL

It's okay...the fake boobs thing...well I could date her if they were like really big and she was a stripper. I'd want to make sure she was able to pay for them herself...plus I'd know that she gives really awesome lap dances. Plus the fake ones would have to be for a ONS anyway, since my wife's are big naturals.

This is just silly! Men want her to look like a super model but curvier in all the right places, naturally beautiful with brains.

Honestly, I really wish there was one definitive answer to this question. I've set my goal weight everywhere from 135 to 105 (I'm 150 now) completely unsure of what will look good and what my boyfriend will like.

malavika413 wrote: »

Honestly, I really wish there was one definitive answer to this question. I've set my goal weight everywhere from 135 to 105 (I'm 150 now) completely unsure of what will look good and what my boyfriend will like.

There will never be a consensus of what men like or what women like. People are not the same.

otey743 wrote: »

thinfitfabulous wrote: »

I'm willing to bet that although everyone is being politically correct in this forum, in reality everyone is attracted to a certain physique more than others.

Really I like all women sometimes I see a big girl and I'm like damn she's gorgeous. Then I see a skinny girl and I'm like damn she gorgeous. I see beauty in women . All shapes and colors . Real talk .

Nice!! Well said!