Crazy, but I want to know how to shrink muscle?

I was training for a fitness competition for several months. But at the last minute I had a family tragedy & competing was no longer a priority. However now when I look in the mirror I really don't care for how I am looking. Big biceps, trap muscles that make my neck look big, huge shoulders. I love to have muscle definition, but I just don't want to look big. So how should I start training in order to keep definition, but just bring my muscle down to a smaller size to create an overall smaller look? Someone told me that higher reps at less weight is a myth & doesn't do anything. Is that true? I know they say lifting heavy won't make ladies look big or bulky, but I honestly put on muscle very easily. Thanks for any advice!
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  • hannahkingfitness
    hannahkingfitness Posts: 51 Member
    Less strength training, lower your weight a little - maybe even do body weight for awhile? lower your protein intake a little if you previously were on high protein and up your cardio.
    Maybe go back to beginner work outs until you hit your goal. :)
  • Zoey2120
    Zoey2120 Posts: 27 Member
    Less strength training, lower your weight a little - maybe even do body weight for awhile? lower your protein intake a little if you previously were on high protein and up your cardio.
    Maybe go back to beginner work outs until you hit your goal. :)

    Thank you :-)

  • rgrange
    rgrange Posts: 236 Member
    cardio to kill the gains
  • livingleanlivingclean
    livingleanlivingclean Posts: 11,751 Member
    You don't put on muscle easily....it's likely the extra layer of (healthy, necessary) fat that is making you look bigger than you'd like. I get it - i compete too!

    You can do lighter weight, higher reps. Cut back your weight training days. Incorporate more cardio. It is definitely possible to lose size if that's what you want
  • Zoey2120
    Zoey2120 Posts: 27 Member
    You don't put on muscle easily....it's likely the extra layer of (healthy, necessary) fat that is making you look bigger than you'd like. I get it - i compete too!

    You can do lighter weight, higher reps. Cut back your weight training days. Incorporate more cardio. It is definitely possible to lose size if that's what you want

    Thanks so much. Should I just do half the weight I was doing before? Like instead of using 20 pound dumbells for the shoulder press do 10 pounds?
  • kindrabbit
    kindrabbit Posts: 837 Member
    I saw a documentary about this. They guy who was a body builder changed his diet to lower protein low calorie and upped the cardio. I don't think he was doing any weights. In the end he looked like someone on the front of men's health magazine.
  • glevinso
    glevinso Posts: 1,895 Member
    rgrange wrote: »
    cardio to kill the gains

    I really wish this moronic idea would die a horrible death
  • Zoey2120
    Zoey2120 Posts: 27 Member
    I'm not trying to start a debate. Just looking for advice.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Zoey2120 wrote: »
    I'm not trying to start a debate. Just looking for advice.

    A picture of how 'big' you are would be helpful
  • Zoey2120
    Zoey2120 Posts: 27 Member
    pugyciew6x2w.jpg

    See my arms, I don't want that.
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
    Geeze, I wish I had the same problem as all these "easy gainers." *smh*
  • Zoey2120
    Zoey2120 Posts: 27 Member
    I don't mind having booty & shapely legs. But above the waist I want a more slender look. I pick up a freaking coffee cup & people are like "Whoa look at those biceps!"
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    As that's a really good picture, I fail to see a problem. Still, if it's what you really want to do, I'd agree that lifting less and dropping your weight a few pounds should help with your "muscle problem."

    I must reiterate that it's a REALLY good picture, however.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Lower your bodyfat
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    edited June 2015
    I just came in to say that, OP, you are a beauty. Couldn't not say it.

  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Zoey2120 wrote: »
    pugyciew6x2w.jpg

    See my arms, I don't want that.

    i see nothing wrong with this picture...
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    OP - do nothing for a four months and eat a diet of 100% twinkies, ice cream, and cake. That should solve your problem. And for all the clean eaters you know have the MFP poster advocating for a diet of 100% twinkies and ice cream ….with the caveat that it is only for this one rare instance.
  • Drewlssix
    Drewlssix Posts: 272 Member
    Hypertrophy is done through moderate weights at higher reps. Up your weights to the point you can do at the very most 5 reps, more like 3 though and 5 sets with a solid 60seconds between sets.

    Yes, you can lower the weights and do lots and lots of reps and lose bulk but you won't likely retain the definition you want.
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Drewlssix wrote: »
    Hypertrophy is done through moderate weights at higher reps. Up your weights to the point you can do at the very most 5 reps, more like 3 though and 5 sets with a solid 60seconds between sets.

    Yes, you can lower the weights and do lots and lots of reps and lose bulk but you won't likely retain the definition you want.

    i fail to see how going to a strength training routine is going to do what OP wants it to do...
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Drewlssix wrote: »
    Hypertrophy is done through moderate weights at higher reps. Up your weights to the point you can do at the very most 5 reps, more like 3 though and 5 sets with a solid 60seconds between sets.

    Yes, you can lower the weights and do lots and lots of reps and lose bulk but you won't likely retain the definition you want.

    i fail to see how going to a strength training routine is going to do what OP wants it to do...

    I haven't finished my coffee so I actually tried to make sense of it for a second..
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Drewlssix wrote: »
    Hypertrophy is done through moderate weights at higher reps. Up your weights to the point you can do at the very most 5 reps, more like 3 though and 5 sets with a solid 60seconds between sets.

    Yes, you can lower the weights and do lots and lots of reps and lose bulk but you won't likely retain the definition you want.

    i fail to see how going to a strength training routine is going to do what OP wants it to do...

    I haven't finished my coffee so I actually tried to make sense of it for a second..

    i am half way through cup two and I can't figure it out...
  • Emilia777
    Emilia777 Posts: 978 Member
    OP, wow: you’re stunning!

    I wouldn’t change a thing, but I’m thinking that maybe lowering your body fat % might help. Anyway, I have a really difficult time gaining upper body strength, so I’m in awe. I hope you want to change your appearance because it’s what *you* want, not because of some comments people made out of either jealousy or awe at your awesomeness.
  • Emilia777
    Emilia777 Posts: 978 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    arditarose wrote: »
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    Drewlssix wrote: »
    Hypertrophy is done through moderate weights at higher reps. Up your weights to the point you can do at the very most 5 reps, more like 3 though and 5 sets with a solid 60seconds between sets.

    Yes, you can lower the weights and do lots and lots of reps and lose bulk but you won't likely retain the definition you want.

    i fail to see how going to a strength training routine is going to do what OP wants it to do...

    I haven't finished my coffee so I actually tried to make sense of it for a second..

    i am half way through cup two and I can't figure it out...

    I’m about a third into my coffee and I have no idea what you guys are even talking about. Oh dear.
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    OP, how far into your competition prep did you get?
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  • Zoey2120
    Zoey2120 Posts: 27 Member
    Thanks everyone for all the input. I was only a few weeks out from competing. When the things happened with my family I just stopped everything. Now I am just trying to get down to a smaller look. My body fat is only at 19% as it is right now. So I think it's going to be tricky to get the look I want.
  • Zoey2120
    Zoey2120 Posts: 27 Member
    I almost am thinking to just stop training up body period for a while & see what happens.
  • yesimpson
    yesimpson Posts: 1,372 Member
    I think you look good at the minute, you seem to have a feminine shape despite being well-muscled. Just give people who make comments that make you feel self conscious a fierce death stare. I'm sure in time if you stop putting your upper body under as much stress with your workouts, then you will lose some muscle. You clearly know what to do to rebuild in the future if you change your mind.

    P.S. sorry to hear about difficult times with your family.
  • blue736
    blue736 Posts: 69 Member
    Less strength training, lower your weight a little - maybe even do body weight for awhile? lower your protein intake a little if you previously were on high protein and up your cardio.
    Maybe go back to beginner work outs until you hit your goal. :)

    Wrong info.. U can drop your water and fat weight threw yr diet. U still need yr protein fats lower yr carbs.. An up yr rep range. Use medium heavy weight not to light so u can perform 12/16 reps. On yr last set drop the weight an rep to failure u will see the difference. High reps light weights is not a myth... But try to understand don't go to light needs to be moderate so u feel u had a good busted work out..
  • Fujiberry
    Fujiberry Posts: 400 Member
    Unless you're an experienced figure/physique competitor, then your bulk is likely just body fat. How big/small you look will always depend on your intake. You can train for hypertrophy/strength/endurance with different rep ranges obviously, but you'll always lose size at a deficit no matter what rep range you do.