You see your ex on a dating site

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  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
    He's your EX. Grow up and mind your own.
  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    I try to be friends with my exes it just never works out
  • undergloom
    undergloom Posts: 531 Member
    shoppingmaniac86 wrote: »
    I try to be friends with my exes it just never works out

    This. Whenever I see people who used to date manage to remain friends, I always assume they must not have been all that serious in the first place. A serious breakup is an amputation; you don't just shake that off.
  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    edited June 2015
    undergloom wrote: »
    shoppingmaniac86 wrote: »
    I try to be friends with my exes it just never works out

    This. Whenever I see people who used to date manage to remain friends, I always assume they must not have been all that serious in the first place. A serious breakup is an amputation; you don't just shake that off.

    Yeah because to be honest the feeling don't just go away one person always either still hopes to reconcile or you really just have no desire to stay in touch even though you try. Or there's still a lot of resentment. That's my personal experience
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    its happened to me a while ago i sent him this msg "hey send me a dick pic"

    and he did

    Hahahaha priceless. I guess I should have mentioned where friends still
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    shoppingmaniac86 wrote: »
    I try to be friends with my exes it just never works out

    The only ex I couldnt remain friends with was my X husband and thats because I was so happy to say BY

  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    shoppingmaniac86 wrote: »
    I try to be friends with my exes it just never works out

    The only ex I couldnt remain friends with was my X husband and thats because I was so happy to say BY

    Lmao wow yeah if it was my ex husband and we had kids maybe but other wise same *kitten* loL
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »
    He's your EX. Grow up and mind your own.

    Do you feel better now lol

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  • jaxass
    jaxass Posts: 2,128 Member
    I wish her all the best. Why would I fill any ill-will towards her since it didn't work out with me? We tried. Time to move on.
  • LouLouStBijou
    LouLouStBijou Posts: 987 Member
    Better than seeing your "current" on a dating site - LOL
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    LouisaM162 wrote: »
    Better than seeing your "current" on a dating site - LOL

    LMAO!!! True

  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    LouisaM162 wrote: »
    Better than seeing your "current" on a dating site - LOL

    Yep have to vouch for this I like this chick already lol
  • enterdanger
    enterdanger Posts: 2,447 Member
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    What do you do? Say whats up and rid of the elephant in the room, or avoid the conversation entirely the next time you hang out haha

    Why would you hang out with your ex? Maybe it's just me but I didn't ever want to "be friends" with my exes. I already had friends.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    enterdanger wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    What do you do? Say whats up and rid of the elephant in the room, or avoid the conversation entirely the next time you hang out haha

    Why would you hang out with your ex? Maybe it's just me but I didn't ever want to "be friends" with my exes. I already had friends.

    Im friends with all my exes except one. Just because you dont mesh well as a couple doesnt mean you dont enjoy each others company

  • hollyann31
    hollyann31 Posts: 64 Member
    haha.happened..saw her on pof...was being an *kitten* and said i wanted to "meet her" just to be funny...started conversation then blocked her...
  • jespinoza87
    jespinoza87 Posts: 1 Member
    AllOutof_Bubblegum wrote: »
    He's your EX. Grow up and mind your own.

    Sounds right too me. they are an ex for a reason let them try to find happiness, as should you.
  • mistikal13
    mistikal13 Posts: 1,457 Member
    Avoid the topic as well as the ex
  • yourradimradletshug
    yourradimradletshug Posts: 964 Member
    My ex found me on a dating site 2 years after we split up and messaged me. I laughed as I blocked him.
  • Elle_Bronwyn15
    Elle_Bronwyn15 Posts: 296 Member
    I'd just be glad he's moving on with his life, as I would be by being on the website in the first place.
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