Mean Private Messages

katnroyal87
katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
edited November 20 in Chit-Chat
does anyone else get mean private messages from people they have never seen or interacted with on here at all?
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  • rughead06
    rughead06 Posts: 4,291 Member
    Nope but why would someone send you a mean message if they dont know you
  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    That's what I was thinking. :(
  • SherryTeach
    SherryTeach Posts: 2,836 Member
    No, but if I did I would block them. Why would someone do that?
  • rughead06
    rughead06 Posts: 4,291 Member
    Maybe they had the wrong person?
  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    No they specifically mentioned my profile pic. Oh well. I guess I'm being a little too thin skinned about it.
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  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    sunn_lighter wrote: »
    Nope, but I've received random encouraging PMs from strangers.

    Lol yeah those always make me smile!
  • Justinelovezumba32
    Justinelovezumba32 Posts: 25 Member
    I have gotten weird messages but none of them mean. I had one guy ask me if he could kiss my feet since I was a queen. Uhhhhh??????
  • rughead06
    rughead06 Posts: 4,291 Member
    katnroyal87 wrote: »
    No they specifically mentioned my profile pic. Oh well. I guess I'm being a little too thin skinned about it.

    Dont worry about it. You are proud of your profile photo.
  • eatgoodeat
    eatgoodeat Posts: 180 Member
    i'm still new, not yet, but i don't give two shiz about cyber cowards
    you-smell-that-i-think-thats-a-scent-of-a-hater.jpg
    but go on with your bad self, you look great!
  • lindz4ever
    lindz4ever Posts: 593 Member
    No but I have had some people not get the point I'm married and just want to be friends not to swap pictures
  • MamaBirdBoss
    MamaBirdBoss Posts: 1,516 Member
    Nope, but there are probably sleazy PUAs here who want to try it on.

    Since I have THE single ugliest, most unflattering angle of myself that I have ever taken (on purpose--it shows what I hate and want to get rid of, lol) I'm not exactly PUA fodder here.
  • Alisontheice
    Alisontheice Posts: 9,611 Member
    Rude...yes, gross...yes, never mean. I block all the weird ones. Some people like being bullies I guess? You seem lovely. Not sure why they'd ben mean
  • Goooosfraba333
    Goooosfraba333 Posts: 51 Member
    Obviously someone is threatened by your nice knockers. :#
  • flinx1241
    flinx1241 Posts: 2,168 Member
    Total BS by an chicken *kitten* internet bully. Sorry to hear that, but don't let it get you down.
  • _Tink_
    _Tink_ Posts: 3,845 Member
    No, never. I get flirty PMs, or messages asking about my diet and workout routines. Once I got a message asking if I'm here to gain weight (I'm not), but I don't recall ever getting anything intentionally mean in the 3.5 years I've been on here.
  • Luke_I_am_your_spotter
    Luke_I_am_your_spotter Posts: 4,179 Member
    If you upgrade to the premium version of MFP, they filter out the mean ones for you otherwise you just have to deal with it. ;) damn free ad supported version.
  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    Tonydevolanii wrote: »
    they are just jealous of your hot body

    Haha I wish
  • MamaBirdBoss
    MamaBirdBoss Posts: 1,516 Member
    edited June 2015
    You look more flirty in your profile photo, which could attract PUAs, AKA, scum of the earth:

    http://attractionwiki.com/attraction-guides/pua-negs/

    All PUAs are losers. Not all losers are PUAs.
  • katnroyal87
    katnroyal87 Posts: 8,789 Member
    Yeah I didn't respond I just deleted it.
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    Jersey__Devil wrote: »
    If you upgrade to the premium version of MFP, they filter out the mean ones for you otherwise you just have to deal with it. ;) damn free ad supported version.

    Snort!
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    I've gotten a few. I think it's funny, cuz I get to play back!
  • barbecuesauce
    barbecuesauce Posts: 1,771 Member
    sunn_lighter wrote: »
    Nope, but I've received random encouraging PMs from strangers.

    I hate those! Take the false positivity elsewhere. Especially since I've lost most of the weight and am working on vanity pounds now.

    OP, screencap it and when you see them post again, put it up. Bullies hate sunshine.
  • rbiss
    rbiss Posts: 422 Member
    I sometimes get encouraging ones but never mean ones. I think the encouraging ones are creepy too. If I don't know the person, it gets deleted now before I read it.
  • W_Stewart
    W_Stewart Posts: 237 Member
    send me one, I'll send you one back
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    wahoowad wrote: »
    send me one, I'll send you one back

    Example of neg? ^^^
  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
    no, never mean, sometimes awkward and rude, and Ive had people who are mean add me, but thats all,
    maybe they got the wrong person? or theyre just silly, some people on here are petty and rude and mean,
    I usually block them,
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,252 Member
    barbecuesauce wrote: »
    sunn_lighter wrote: »
    Nope, but I've received random encouraging PMs from strangers.

    I hate those! Take the false positivity elsewhere. Especially since I've lost most of the weight and am working on vanity pounds now.

    OP, screencap it and when you see them post again, put it up. Bullies hate sunshine.

    Nah, that will just get the OP a spanking. No point getting a strike when the post will just be deleted as soon as a mod sees it.
  • tretoptreece
    tretoptreece Posts: 425 Member
    katnroyal87 wrote: »
    does anyone else get mean private messages from people they have never seen or interacted with on here at all?

    No, that's so psycho! I would have screen shotted it and posted to shame them. You are beautiful and if anyone is sending you a mean message it's because they are so miserable with their life.
  • RNGRZulu
    RNGRZulu Posts: 3,964 Member
    ># Grrrr
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