feeling fat and horrible..

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  • BethMilledge
    BethMilledge Posts: 367 Member
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  • tamidtaylor
    tamidtaylor Posts: 49 Member
    I have lost 58 pounds so far and my husband has not said one word about what I have accomplished. I have received comments from many people in my life and even people that I barely even know, but not him. I'm doing this for me so I don't let it get to me but I agree, a spouse should be your biggest supporter and when they aren't it's really too bad.
  • dinobomp
    dinobomp Posts: 170 Member
    tamidtaylor wrote: »
    I have lost 58 pounds so far and my husband has not said one word about what I have accomplished. I have received comments from many people in my life and even people that I barely even know, but not him. I'm doing this for me so I don't let it get to me but I agree, a spouse should be your biggest supporter and when they aren't it's really too bad.

    You are right, he should be encouraging and supporting you. I feel so badly for you! I was married for 38 years to someone that was NOT my soul mate. Life is too short for mediocrity. Don't waste your life with someone that doesn't deserve you! I'm too old for true love now, but you aren't. I feel you should seriously consider kicking him to the curb!!!
  • fuelednfit
    fuelednfit Posts: 177 Member
    edited July 2015
    CassieM686 wrote: »
    We have been.but.he does not.understand that his words hurt... he.keeps.doing it... and I sure won't... I am going to keep going and I will get to my goal... yes he.upsets me.but he also gives me.more drive to lose the weight and prove I can lose it..

    Maybe it doesn't come out nicely but his intention is to motivate you. He needs to learn how to say things in a better way. When my husband criticize me it always hurt no matter the words he uses. He usually means well and just wants me to improve. When necessary I let him know how to make constructive criticism
  • fuelednfit
    fuelednfit Posts: 177 Member
    As for not supporting...well it's not his journey it's yours. My husband congratulates noticeable loss but that support I don't care for. He doesn't eat like me which means I cook 2x he laughs at my food he buys food that are not good and tempting to me he doesn't make it easier to give me free time for exercise although in the past week he started to support me for exercise but it's not his journey it's mine. Your husband cheering for you is nice but if you are doing it for yourself you don't need his cheers or anyone else cheers. Be strong and keep working on yourself.
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