what kind of body do men really like in women?

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  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 222 Member
    I was gonna say....Every man is different on what they "look" for in a woman. from fat to thin, to tall to small its every mans decision in the end of it all (lol rhymed) but seriously I have had alot of men not interested in me because I wast a size 3 . so to say one perfect woman where EVERY man finds attractive is near to impossible


    Those are the kinds of men that spend too much time watch porn and chocking the chicken, causing their subconscious to have some unreal exceptions from women. And they wonder why they don't get any women..

  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    This entire thread is shallow. It's just for fun. All men have a certain body type that stands out and catches our eye and we have to struggle to stop staring. Before we even meet someone, it's physical attraction to our own tastes. Stop getting offended. Everyone is guilty of it. It's not something we as a society should deny for the sake of others feelings. It's completely natural. Of course there are traits women posses that are intoxicating personality wise. But this is a fitness site where, in all honesty, people want to look better physically. Stop worrying about what someone else posts like you have a place to judge. It's for fun. You want a serious thread go to a different area than "chit chat, fun, and games".

    I am not offended. I think the thread question is shallow and stupid. And a guy asking other guys what they find attractive (physically) in a lady is very odd to say the least.

    I have voiced my opinion as you and others have. I have no problem with differing viewpoints.

    Carry on.

    LOL men do this in real life all the time.
    I am different. I have never felt compelled to ask other men what they find physically attractive in a lady. Their opinion is meaningless, as it has nothing to do with what I find attractive in a lady. I know what is important to me. I don't feel a need to look to other men for advice or validation on that particular topic.
  • Ms_Sicilian
    Ms_Sicilian Posts: 531 Member
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    I was gonna say....Every man is different on what they "look" for in a woman. from fat to thin, to tall to small its every mans decision in the end of it all (lol rhymed) but seriously I have had alot of men not interested in me because I wast a size 3 . so to say one perfect woman where EVERY man finds attractive is near to impossible


    Those are the kinds of men that spend too much time watch porn and chocking the chicken, causing their subconscious to have some unreal exceptions from women. And they wonder why they don't get any women..

    ha-ha maybe so, in the end we all have different outlooks on whats attractive . but I will say this...you can be the hottest dude ever but I wont give you the time of day if youre a douche :P
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    This entire thread is shallow. It's just for fun. All men have a certain body type that stands out and catches our eye and we have to struggle to stop staring. Before we even meet someone, it's physical attraction to our own tastes. Stop getting offended. Everyone is guilty of it. It's not something we as a society should deny for the sake of others feelings. It's completely natural. Of course there are traits women posses that are intoxicating personality wise. But this is a fitness site where, in all honesty, people want to look better physically. Stop worrying about what someone else posts like you have a place to judge. It's for fun. You want a serious thread go to a different area than "chit chat, fun, and games".

    I am not offended. I think the thread question is shallow and stupid. And a guy asking other guys what they find attractive (physically) in a lady is very odd to say the least.

    I have voiced my opinion as you and others have. I have no problem with differing viewpoints.

    Carry on.

    LOL men do this in real life all the time.
    I am different. I have never felt compelled to ask other men what they find physically attractive in a lady. Their opinion is meaningless, as it has nothing to do with what I find attractive in a lady. I know what is important to me. I don't feel a need to look to other men for advice or validation on that particular topic.

    I know you are a different fellow. Posting history told me so.
  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 222 Member
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    I was gonna say....Every man is different on what they "look" for in a woman. from fat to thin, to tall to small its every mans decision in the end of it all (lol rhymed) but seriously I have had alot of men not interested in me because I wast a size 3 . so to say one perfect woman where EVERY man finds attractive is near to impossible


    Those are the kinds of men that spend too much time watch porn and chocking the chicken, causing their subconscious to have some unreal exceptions from women. And they wonder why they don't get any women..

    ha-ha maybe so, in the end we all have different outlooks on whats attractive . but I will say this...you can be the hottest dude ever but I wont give you the time of day if youre a douche :P


    Ahh, fortunately for me I know how women function having been dating a multitude of them and having to go through much pain in my late teens. You're cute as though, what do you do for fun ?
  • Ms_Sicilian
    Ms_Sicilian Posts: 531 Member
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    I was gonna say....Every man is different on what they "look" for in a woman. from fat to thin, to tall to small its every mans decision in the end of it all (lol rhymed) but seriously I have had alot of men not interested in me because I wast a size 3 . so to say one perfect woman where EVERY man finds attractive is near to impossible


    Those are the kinds of men that spend too much time watch porn and chocking the chicken, causing their subconscious to have some unreal exceptions from women. And they wonder why they don't get any women..

    ha-ha maybe so, in the end we all have different outlooks on whats attractive . but I will say this...you can be the hottest dude ever but I wont give you the time of day if youre a douche :P


    Ahh, fortunately for me I know how women function having been dating a multitude of them and having to go through much pain in my late teens. You're cute as though, what do you do for fun ?

    mhmm Go to the gym, Kayak, Camp, shooting, Video games, shopping, Hiking, Swimming, working (lol). Cook and read...I actually do a lot
  • slideaway1
    slideaway1 Posts: 1,006 Member
    I like cute, pretty intelligent girls. I'm thinking Wynona Ryder off the top of my head but without the penchant for stealing. I would obviously make sure I kept my wallet safe. On the Flip side I do like a massive rack on a lady. I'm very versatile with my tastes like that. :)
  • lookin4gains
    lookin4gains Posts: 1,761 Member
    Physical selection/natural selection/survival of the fittest. It's programmed into our psychy. That's why as a race we have gotten taller and stronger. Society leans towards strong and healthy for the simple reason of a healthy offspring. It's an underlying subconscious choice for the next generation. This not only occurs in humans but also every other species. We are all a bunch of shallow mate searchers. Lol
  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 222 Member
    Physical selection/natural selection/survival of the fittest. It's programmed into our psychy. That's why as a race we have gotten taller and stronger. Society leans towards strong and healthy for the simple reason of a healthy offspring. It's an underlying subconscious choice for the next generation. This not only occurs in humans but also every other species. We are all a bunch of shallow mate searchers. Lol

    Mind you though the strength women look for in a man is not physical as Darwin suggests in Natural Selection. As society has evolved, our need for security in terms of being big has vanished. We don't have to protect ourselves from wild animals anymore.

    But, on the contrary its the mental resolute of strength that is most essential in our times.
  • jamieb55
    jamieb55 Posts: 145 Member
    This entire thread is shallow. It's just for fun. All men have a certain body type that stands out and catches our eye and we have to struggle to stop staring. Before we even meet someone, it's physical attraction to our own tastes. Stop getting offended. Everyone is guilty of it. It's not something we as a society should deny for the sake of others feelings. It's completely natural. Of course there are traits women posses that are intoxicating personality wise. But this is a fitness site where, in all honesty, people want to look better physically. Stop worrying about what someone else posts like you have a place to judge. It's for fun. You want a serious thread go to a different area than "chit chat, fun, and games".

    Agreed!! Everyone likes/is attracted to something different, there is nothing to get offended about!!!

  • TrailBlazinMN
    TrailBlazinMN Posts: 209 Member
    edited July 2015
    Physical selection/natural selection/survival of the fittest. It's programmed into our psychy. That's why as a race we have gotten taller and stronger. Society leans towards strong and healthy for the simple reason of a healthy offspring. It's an underlying subconscious choice for the next generation. This not only occurs in humans but also every other species. We are all a bunch of shallow mate searchers. Lol

    That isn't entirely accurate.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2412101/ls-survival-fittest-finished-Scientists-prove-generosity--selfishness--way-modern-civilisation-survive.html

    Survival of the fittest is a very primitive idea that has been learned and not programmed in our DNA. Sure, looking back in our history it seems that way but we evolve into a stronger civilization over time and become smarter and more enlightened. I can't imagine a world full of war and hate coming to a global consciousness that includes love and enlightenment.
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    But, on the contrary its the mental resolute of strength that is most essential in our times.

    This. I've seen women go after "small and weak" guys because of their confidence and mentality instead of the big and muscular type who hasn't got a clue or is always worried about what others think of him and needs constant validation
  • yusaku02
    yusaku02 Posts: 3,472 Member
    A woman who squats and deadlifts and it shows. <3

    This. /story
    +1
  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 222 Member
    edited July 2015
    Physical selection/natural selection/survival of the fittest. It's programmed into our psychy. That's why as a race we have gotten taller and stronger. Society leans towards strong and healthy for the simple reason of a healthy offspring. It's an underlying subconscious choice for the next generation. This not only occurs in humans but also every other species. We are all a bunch of shallow mate searchers. Lol

    That isn't entirely accurate.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2412101/ls-survival-fittest-finished-Scientists-prove-generosity--selfishness--way-modern-civilisation-survive.html

    Survival of the fittest is a very primitive idea that has been learned and not programmed in our DNA. Sure, looking back in our history it seems that way but we evolve into a stronger civilization over time and become smarter and more enlightened. I can't imagine a world full of war and hate coming to a global consciousness that includes love and enlightenment.
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    But, on the contrary its the mental resolute of strength that is most essential in our times.

    This. I've seen women go after "small and weak" guys because of their confidence and mentality instead of the big and muscular type who hasn't got a clue or is always worried about what others think of him and needs constant validation

    This ^^

    In fact, I'm 5'5 and have never had any competition from any guy in terms of getting women cause most men chase women like their life depended on it. ( Ego validation)

    Always remember, Desire Often Creates Paradoxical Effects: The more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it eludes you. The more interest you show, the more you repel the object of your desire. This is because your interest is too strong—it makes people awkward, even fearful. Uncontrollable desire makes you seem weak, unworthy, pathetic.

    If she doesn't respect you, she'll never love you !
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    Physical selection/natural selection/survival of the fittest. It's programmed into our psychy. That's why as a race we have gotten taller and stronger. Society leans towards strong and healthy for the simple reason of a healthy offspring. It's an underlying subconscious choice for the next generation. This not only occurs in humans but also every other species. We are all a bunch of shallow mate searchers. Lol

    That isn't entirely accurate.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2412101/ls-survival-fittest-finished-Scientists-prove-generosity--selfishness--way-modern-civilisation-survive.html

    Survival of the fittest is a very primitive idea that has been learned and not programmed in our DNA. Sure, looking back in our history it seems that way but we evolve into a stronger civilization over time and become smarter and more enlightened. I can't imagine a world full of war and hate coming to a global consciousness that includes love and enlightenment.
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    But, on the contrary its the mental resolute of strength that is most essential in our times.

    This. I've seen women go after "small and weak" guys because of their confidence and mentality instead of the big and muscular type who hasn't got a clue or is always worried about what others think of him and needs constant validation

    This ^^

    In fact, I'm 5'5 and have never had any competition from any guy in terms of getting women cause most men chase women like their life depended on it. ( Ego validation)

    Always remember, Desire Often Creates Paradoxical Effects: The more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it eludes you. The more interest you show, the more you repel the object of your desire. This is because your interest is too strong—it makes people awkward, even fearful. Uncontrollable desire makes you seem weak, unworthy, pathetic.

    If she doesn't respect you, she'll never love you !

    Too smart for MFP. Or terribly needed for MFP. Can't quite decide.

  • Hea1thyGam3r
    Hea1thyGam3r Posts: 1,354 Member
    As long as she can strap a pack on and hike up the side of a mountain with me it doesn't matter. :drinker: But if we want to go for the catches your eye, immediate OMG reaction...

    Short, fair complextion, freckles and muscular.
  • killerqueen21
    killerqueen21 Posts: 157 Member
    Ones with vaginas
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    Welp, for one.. I know my guy loves my hips xD
  • SuperSnoopy
    SuperSnoopy Posts: 3,464 Member
    Toned body, reasonably thin. But I love all woman I think they are awesome
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  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    thigh gap and back dimples.

    So, things she has absolutely no control over.
  • taco_inspector
    taco_inspector Posts: 7,223 Member
    FitFroglet wrote: »
    What kind of body do men really like in women?
    Their own :D
    ... or parts of it, at least.

    /thread

    (good to have a bit of a laugh at all this)
  • yusaku02
    yusaku02 Posts: 3,472 Member
    mccindy72 wrote: »
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    thigh gap and back dimples.

    So, things she has absolutely no control over.
    Funny, in the 'what do girls look for in a man's body' thread several people mentioned that they preferred men over 6 feet tall and no one called them out for wanting things that he has absolutely no control over.
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  • meganjcallaghan
    meganjcallaghan Posts: 949 Member
    Ones with vaginas

    more than ONE?!??

  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    Ones with vaginas

    more than ONE?!??
    they make those?

  • estepicursor
    estepicursor Posts: 500 Member
    I'm as shallow as the next guy, but I think a man who judges a woman by her body deserves a woman who judges them by their wallet.
  • meganjcallaghan
    meganjcallaghan Posts: 949 Member
    edited July 2015
    _John_ wrote: »
    Ones with vaginas

    more than ONE?!??
    they make those?
    this is what I'M wondering. I suspect y'all are going to have to trawl the sideshow circuit if you want multiple sets of lady-bits on one girl.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    yusaku02 wrote: »
    mccindy72 wrote: »
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    thigh gap and back dimples.

    So, things she has absolutely no control over.
    Funny, in the 'what do girls look for in a man's body' thread several people mentioned that they preferred men over 6 feet tall and no one called them out for wanting things that he has absolutely no control over.

    Go back to my post on page one, and you'll see I called out the OP for asking the original question.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    tomteboda wrote: »
    @BasicGreatGuy , I was wondering the same thing and realized that these are threads of insecurity

    do you even _John_

    does anyone here even _john_
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    mccindy72 wrote: »
    yusaku02 wrote: »
    mccindy72 wrote: »
    ThomasW13 wrote: »
    thigh gap and back dimples.

    So, things she has absolutely no control over.
    Funny, in the 'what do girls look for in a man's body' thread several people mentioned that they preferred men over 6 feet tall and no one called them out for wanting things that he has absolutely no control over.

    Go back to my post on page one, and you'll see I called out the OP for asking the original question.

    I was just offering a counter thread to the other one...so I was just being diplomatic.
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