Have you ever cheated

Nope. Been cheated on though..so that was lovely.

I don't see the point of cheating so nope.

Yep. Just the once.
We've now been together 10 years, married for 5 and have a spectacular little boy to show for it.
Best thing we ever did -

Nope, see no purpose. If you have the need to drift, then why be in the current relationship?

I didn't realize I was the other woman for several months (I was in my early 20s, he was 11 years older, he had a beach house in my town and primarily lived in another city). Then I stayed for a few more months. It took realizing he had a third girlfriend to get me to split. I was young and dumb.

When I was younger, yes.

In almost 20 years of marriage I haven't been with anyone but my wife. I have my issues but having an affair hasn't been one.

Steam_Powered_Awesome wrote: »

No I haven't but i have been accused of it. my husband keeps thinking I'm going to meet someone better at the gym.

Yep my relationship I was in where I cheated was toxic like that. Accuse accuse accuse

MonkeyMel21 wrote: »

I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!

I think if you come clean not matter the situation you'll be judged for it and people will use the term "once a cheater always a cheater". Some people cheat sexually some people cheat emotionally so neither is right but we can't pretend everyone is innocent. But as they say innocent until proven guilty I guess

iDeltaBigBoy wrote: »

Nope. Been cheated on and know what that feels like. Could never do that to someone else. Not to mention if you want to be with someone else then why are you with the one your with.

The reason why I cheated was because he treated me lesser and always accused me of cheating often. I just became unhappy and was at one point just like f it I started talking to a guy he was nice and technically I broke up with my then boyfriend before me and the other guy started the relationship but neither relationship panned out in the end so in a way I got a fresh new start. Leaving that situation behind me which was ultimately a breath of fresh air.

Nope, never. And I never will. I'm all for loyalty and honesty and if my partner can't respect and love me enough to be loyal to me, than they don't deserve me and they know where the door is.

And yes, unfortunately I have been cheated on. It's not a fun experience at all.

LyndseyLovesToLift wrote: »

Nope. Probably the dumbest thing anyone could do - I don't get it. If you're unhappy or want to be with someone else, man up and end things with your partner instead of being a total sleaze and cheating on them.

My thoughts exactly.

I used to work with a guy who years earlier cheated on his wife. He later married his mistress, and she would call almost daily looking for him, and if he wasn't there you learned not to pick up his phone. She wouldn't believe you if you said he was in a meeting, as if you were covering for him. she could get quite irate.

crssftlv wrote: »

MonkeyMel21 wrote: »

I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!

lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol

Honestly, I feel like if your willing to cheat you should be willing to deal with the consequences of your acts. Why are people so scared to say they cheated before wether here or to the person they cheated on? I think it's only fair to be honest to the people you betrayed and why not be honest on here?

Yes, some of us anti cheaters might not like what you did and feel there is no excuse to cheat but we don't know you personally, so if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself about what you did or the people you hurt in your life?

Just my thoughts.