How do you make someone notice you?

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  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    Capt_Apollo wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol


    how would it have been different?

    Trust me you don't wanna know lol

    In now I'm curious?

    Gifs
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    Capt_Apollo wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    I bet if I made this same thread... Things wouldn't have gone the same lol


    how would it have been different?

    Trust me you don't wanna know lol

    yeah, you're probably right.
  • dunlol
    dunlol Posts: 57 Member
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    alpha_515 wrote: »
    Look at them and smile

    Yeah I never do that

    Me neither, regular guys im my goofy self...guys I like, i clam up, look at the ground and say "Oh *kitten* are they looking over here????"

    I always have a feeling they're looking at something behind me or above me lol

    I admit I've looked at something behind or above girls I like because I'm afraid I'll get labeled for being a perv and staring. Basically, I used to try to look as unaware or uninterested as possible; however, just starting some conversation (guy or girl) if you really want to give it a shot is the way to go.
  • The_Invisible_Boy
    The_Invisible_Boy Posts: 568 Member
    I hide in the darkest corner and keep to myself. I don't get noticed much. Ha
  • lislisa123
    lislisa123 Posts: 948 Member
    edited July 2015
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.

    Yeah, I'll stick to online.

    Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out :/ im all set with online dating
    just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.

    Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.

    Actually it was OkCupid, go figure. I talked to the guy for about 3 weeks before we met up

    Lol. Maybe you should try Match.com? That's supposed to be a good dating site but you have to pay for it.
    It's hard to tell sometimes though because my sister tried Eharmony on a free trail before, which is supposed to be a good site but the guy she met up with and had a date with, she later found out on Facebook that he already had a girlfriend. There are some real pigs/jerks out there. I think that's the scary part, wether online or in person, you never really know who your going to meet and what type of person they are until you actually know them. It's all a risk.


    And my sister ended meeting her husband in the place people say never to go, a club. Go figure.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.

    Yeah, I'll stick to online.

    Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out :/ im all set with online dating
    just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.

    Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.

    Actually it was OkCupid, go figure. I talked to the guy for about 3 weeks before we met up

    Lol. Maybe you should try Match.com? That's supposed to be a good dating site but you have to pay for it.
    It's hard to tell sometimes though because my sister tried Eharmony on a free trail before, which is supposed to be a good site but the guy she met up with and had a date with, she later found out on Facebook that he already had a girlfriend. There are some real pigs/jerks out there. I think that's the scary part, wether online or in person, you never really know who your going to meet and what type of person they are until you actually know them. It's all a risk.


    And my sister ended meeting her husband in the place people say never to go, a club. Go figure.

    Lol i know it works for some but its just not for me glad it worked out for you though.

  • lislisa123
    lislisa123 Posts: 948 Member
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    lislisa123 wrote: »
    I don't. I'm a loner for the most part and usually like my space but if there is a good looking guy and if I'm single, I do the whole look when they aren't looking and pray they notice me too and make a move. Never happens which is probably why I had to meet my current boyfriend online. Seems now a days you can't really meet people in person anymore unless you have a friend that knows someone or you want to look like a weirdo going up to a totally stranger based off looks alone and not even knowing if they already taken and risk getting rejected or end up not liking their personality when you get to know them more.

    Yeah, I'll stick to online.

    Hahaha I tried the whole "Online dating thing" boy was that a disaster. His profile said he was 5'9 and athletic...we met up and he stood 5'4 and skinny...I was like Id break this dude hes skinnier and shorter than me fml. Then we sat down and at the bar next to these two old men and he decides to show me pictures of his favorite porn stars which he saved to his camera role then asked me if I was into c*** cages and chains...The two poor *kitten* next to me were as horrified as I was. I grabbed my keys pretended to use the restroom and took off. By the time I got to my car I had a text saying the back seat to his jeep folds down if I was interested in testing it out :/ im all set with online dating
    just by curiosity what dating site did you go on and how long were you talking to this guy before you went on a date? I, myself went on okcupid and there are a lot of bootycall type of guys on there unfortunately but after about a month on the site I found a guy that seemed ok. ( my current bf) i was very cautious about meeting him in a public place and getting to know him more online before meeting him so that we were basically flirty friends before we met in person. I waited 3 months before I got the courage and felt like I knew him well enough to met him.

    Trust me I know the struggle of trying to not only met a decent guy but trying to find someone that wants an ACTUAL relationship. So many guy try to use online dating for more of a bootycall than relationship starter. I think the key is you have to be patience. That's probably the last thing you want to hear but it's true. It takes awhile to find a decent person, wether online or in person.

    Actually it was OkCupid, go figure. I talked to the guy for about 3 weeks before we met up

    Lol. Maybe you should try Match.com? That's supposed to be a good dating site but you have to pay for it.
    It's hard to tell sometimes though because my sister tried Eharmony on a free trail before, which is supposed to be a good site but the guy she met up with and had a date with, she later found out on Facebook that he already had a girlfriend. There are some real pigs/jerks out there. I think that's the scary part, wether online or in person, you never really know who your going to meet and what type of person they are until you actually know them. It's all a risk.


    And my sister ended meeting her husband in the place people say never to go, a club. Go figure.

    Lol i know it works for some but its just not for me glad it worked out for you though.

    Well, that's still to be determined. I've been with my boyfriend two years now and we have had our issues. More than I care for, he is very immature and can be more of a taker rather than giver which are both a turn off but we are trying to work through our issues and improve and if not, it will suck but that's life.
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    Be a unicorn.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    edited July 2015
    Awww sorry to hear that. Ive been single for 4 months and it was the best decision I ever made
  • ItsMeGee3
    ItsMeGee3 Posts: 13,254 Member
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  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    Be an EMU... emu's always get noticed :)
  • TheDoucheOfEarl
    TheDoucheOfEarl Posts: 50 Member
    Make sure when they open their closet they find you wearing their clothes.
  • dfavela1988
    dfavela1988 Posts: 892 Member
    Not sure but any say cause of my height..
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    leut_underpants wrote: »
    MB_Positif wrote: »
    Be a unicorn.

    Damn straight. *bites lovingly*


    Hiiiiiiii
  • Mischievous_Rascal
    Mischievous_Rascal Posts: 1,791 Member
    MB_Positif wrote: »
    Be a unicorn.

    Aren't we all unicorns on here? ;)
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    RavenLibra wrote: »
    Be an EMU... emu's always get noticed :)

    Its so cute! Can I pet it

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  • boogiewookie
    boogiewookie Posts: 206 Member
    follow them home and hide in the bushes, watch them every night. eventually they will see the the shrubbery moving and come out to confront you. make him come outside and break the ice
  • Laura732
    Laura732 Posts: 244 Member
    Pass out at the gym...
  • get_fit_fritch26
    get_fit_fritch26 Posts: 33 Member
    Jump in front of them and yell "NOTICE MEEEEEE"
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    boogiewookie wrote: »
    follow them home and hide in the bushes, watch them every night. eventually they will see the the shrubbery moving and come out to confront you. make him come outside and break the ice

    or i could just do what Kathrine Heigle does

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  • AnthonyThrashD_
    AnthonyThrashD_ Posts: 85 Member
    It's 2015, dont wait to be noticed, ask him out
  • edwardetr
    edwardetr Posts: 140 Member
    If he's a he, ask him for help, even if you don't need it. Guys love that.
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  • EnrgizerBnny
    EnrgizerBnny Posts: 1,081 Member
    Apparently If all else fails Harassment is a tactic some men and or woman like to use. Wether its causing negative attention towards them or others it satisfies their moral compass. So watch out for those as well. 2gvwx3d6itsm.jpg
  • MondayJune22nd2015
    MondayJune22nd2015 Posts: 876 Member
    I am more like wallpaper but most treat me, like a chandelier. I can't seem to get lost in a crowd, I guess that it's because I'm not desperate for attention, that it gains me attention; as if people feel sorry for me.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    borst14 wrote: »
    Carry a cute puppy around with you.

    Two words.

    Teacup Pig
    What about a tea cup full of bacon?
  • JoeyTajzai
    JoeyTajzai Posts: 1,198 Member
    Eh. You have no choice but to throw that *kitten* in a circle.
  • Ms_Sicilian
    Ms_Sicilian Posts: 531 Member
    I walk by and say "do you believe in love at first sight? or should I walk by again? :P
  • _whatsherface
    _whatsherface Posts: 1,235 Member
    Hook them with my charm ROFL righhtttt....
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