How do you make someone notice you?
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »This is me trying to flirt
Do or do not. There is no try.
Just stop thinking about it. If it's meant to happen, it will. By placing such trivial thoughts in your head, you're just wasting energy, making yourself anxious, and making yourself doubt.
All of the above will never attract a man (or woman, if you're into that).
Just do you. Besides, 99% of men are *kitten* and you shouldn't even be giving most of them the time of day. The right guy will fall into your lap when the time is right (or not). There isn't a damn thing you can do to change that or to control it.
Unless you just want to get laid. in which case, just walk into the nearest club, walk up the the closest guy at the bar, tap on his shoulder, grab his hand and pull him out of the club and to your flat.0 -
I think a lasting smile is the most universal way. Unless you're overseas in a country that thinks smiling is rude, like Romania. Then maybe... something else I dunno hahah.
Also, I'm laughing hard at Claire falling off the bed in the above post. Love that movie.0 -
soldiergrl_101 wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »shadowrunnerkyt wrote: »Look at them and smile
+1
make eye contact with them, and smile
They'll probably instinctively look away, but wait for a just a couple seconds to see if they come back for another glance.
If they don't, then you're just staring, and that's weird. LOL
Who are you trying to get noticed by?
Lol ya thats what I dont want is to be the chick staring...especially drooling lol jk. Some guy I like will be at a function im going to tonight.
Sometimes my friends say I have a staring problem but If I'm staring at you and you're starting to feel uncomfortable don't hesitate to throw a biscuit I might catch it with my mouth and devour it but it will keep me distracted for the time being
Now i'm hungry, anyone got some butter to go with my biscuit?
Butter? did you want truffle butter or I can't believe it's not butter? I'm sure Fabio is around here somewhere0 -
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chivalryder wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »This is me trying to flirt
Do or do not. There is no try.
Just stop thinking about it. If it's meant to happen, it will. By placing such trivial thoughts in your head, you're just wasting energy, making yourself anxious, and making yourself doubt.
All of the above will never attract a man (or woman, if you're into that).
Just do you. Besides, 99% of men are *kitten* and you shouldn't even be giving most of them the time of day. The right guy will fall into your lap when the time is right (or not). There isn't a damn thing you can do to change that or to control it.
Unless you just want to get laid. in which case, just walk into the nearest club, walk up the the closest guy at the bar, tap on his shoulder, grab his hand and pull him out of the club and to your flat.
Im not looking for a marriage proposal just a kiss god dam lol
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Dress like a famous rock guitarist.Cindy4FunFit wrote: »My grandfather hit my grandmother with a biscuit. It worked for him.
Just tried that with a packet of digestives. I've just been banned from my gym for literally hitting on the women.
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Pay attention to them...talk to them, flirt but don't send mixed signals...men are very observant but also very simple, when I talk to a woman and she ignores me, I move on and more than once they've asked me why I lost interest. Smile..give eye contact and be kind.0
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »chivalryder wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »This is me trying to flirt
Do or do not. There is no try.
Just stop thinking about it. If it's meant to happen, it will. By placing such trivial thoughts in your head, you're just wasting energy, making yourself anxious, and making yourself doubt.
All of the above will never attract a man (or woman, if you're into that).
Just do you. Besides, 99% of men are *kitten* and you shouldn't even be giving most of them the time of day. The right guy will fall into your lap when the time is right (or not). There isn't a damn thing you can do to change that or to control it.
Unless you just want to get laid. in which case, just walk into the nearest club, walk up the the closest guy at the bar, tap on his shoulder, grab his hand and pull him out of the club and to your flat.
Im not looking for a marriage proposal just a kiss god dam lol
You could stand around a navy base and wait for some officers to come home.
Just make sure there's a photographer nearby.0 -
chivalryder wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »chivalryder wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »This is me trying to flirt
Do or do not. There is no try.
Just stop thinking about it. If it's meant to happen, it will. By placing such trivial thoughts in your head, you're just wasting energy, making yourself anxious, and making yourself doubt.
All of the above will never attract a man (or woman, if you're into that).
Just do you. Besides, 99% of men are *kitten* and you shouldn't even be giving most of them the time of day. The right guy will fall into your lap when the time is right (or not). There isn't a damn thing you can do to change that or to control it.
Unless you just want to get laid. in which case, just walk into the nearest club, walk up the the closest guy at the bar, tap on his shoulder, grab his hand and pull him out of the club and to your flat.
Im not looking for a marriage proposal just a kiss god dam lol
You could stand around a navy base and wait for some officers to come home.
Just make sure there's a photographer nearby.
ewwww come one now thats just as bad as being a desert queen. Been to Iraq twice, I have met alot of them. Pretty sure some of them have hit movies
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »chivalryder wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »chivalryder wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »This is me trying to flirt
Do or do not. There is no try.
Just stop thinking about it. If it's meant to happen, it will. By placing such trivial thoughts in your head, you're just wasting energy, making yourself anxious, and making yourself doubt.
All of the above will never attract a man (or woman, if you're into that).
Just do you. Besides, 99% of men are *kitten* and you shouldn't even be giving most of them the time of day. The right guy will fall into your lap when the time is right (or not). There isn't a damn thing you can do to change that or to control it.
Unless you just want to get laid. in which case, just walk into the nearest club, walk up the the closest guy at the bar, tap on his shoulder, grab his hand and pull him out of the club and to your flat.
Im not looking for a marriage proposal just a kiss god dam lol
You could stand around a navy base and wait for some officers to come home.
Just make sure there's a photographer nearby.
ewwww come one now
Oh, and wear a nurse outfit.
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Put your hand on them when you talk to them and move closer to them. If they reciprocate good, if the person repels out the window you have your answer.0
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Will this event tonight have alcohol?0
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Oh, and wear a nurse outfit.
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That guy had a girlfriend and that girl was not happy with that kiss.
http://www.usni.org/magazines/navalhistory/2012-07/story-behind-famous-kiss
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Well if I like a woman I look at her in the eyes
1. If she holds eye contact - I approach
2. If she holds eye contact and smiles - I approach
3. If she holds eye contact and looks away - I walk away
4. If she holds eye contact and looks up and down - I approach
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Oh, and wear a nurse outfit.
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That guy had a girlfriend and that girl was not happy with that kiss.
http://www.usni.org/magazines/navalhistory/2012-07/story-behind-famous-kiss
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It's still a kiss and clearly the woman got the attention of the sailor.
What more needs to be said?0 -
Are u doing speed dating? Me and my friends sister were planning to just for fun lol0
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asianfashionista86 wrote: »Are u doing speed dating? Me and my friends sister were planning to just for fun lol
Lol id try it if I had a wingman haha
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »asianfashionista86 wrote: »Are u doing speed dating? Me and my friends sister were planning to just for fun lol
Lol id try it if I had a wingman haha
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »How do you make someone notice you (without your *kitten* & Boobs hanging out)? Just curious
People notice physical stuff readily. It is easy, and apparent, and anyone who says they don't is lying. However, being easy on the eyes didn't equate to being noticed for me. I always noticed girls when they performed well at a sport, or if they could carry on interesting conversations and challenge me, or had a passion for something. That took them for being seen for their looks to being noticed for who they are.
I dunno. Agree on the fart though. It's a good ice breaker.
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Just Be Yourself seems to be the repeating advice and the best advice,
And Alpha seems to have the approach down so if your sending some signals he may approach you. Just know like others say if he likes you he will find you attractive whichever way you are as long as your being yourself. There is a saying that is so true "I used to walk into a room and wonder will they like me?Now I walk into a room and wonder if I will like them" as you grow older you realize your self worth and what you have to offer. Keep your chin up and smileWell if I like a woman I look at her in the eyes
1. If she holds eye contact - I approach
2. If she holds eye contact and smiles - I approach
3. If she holds eye contact and looks away - I walk away
4. If she holds eye contact and looks up and down - I approach
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You need to start by cooking about three and a half pounds of spaghetti while downing brandy like water.
Next find an outfit with a lot of pockets. You need to fit all the spaghetti in your pockets.
Go out to the social event where you want to be noticed. You should be pretty drunk at this point.
Get your object of affection's attention by pelting him with a spaghetti-ball from about 15 feet away. This is called an ice-breaker.
He's going to be confused and a bit angry. Now is your time to shine. Parrot everything he says while throwing spaghetti into the air, spinning in circles and flapping your arms.
At this point you should be successfully 'noticed'. If for any reason you don't feel like he knows who you are, sneak up behind him and slip a single strand of spaghetti down the front of his shirt.0 -
SoDamnHungry wrote: »A very long, loud, and awkward fart will make you the focus of the entire room.
Could be painful if you wait to long...
https://youtu.be/ZApBEF_mXCw
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yopeeps025 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
You might need a flask.
I think Ill be making a pit stop before the event
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EnrgizerBnny wrote: »Just Be Yourself seems to be the repeating advice and the best advice,
And Alpha seems to have the approach down so if your sending some signals he may approach you. Just know like others say if he likes you he will find you attractive whichever way you are as long as your being yourself. There is a saying that is so true "I used to walk into a room and wonder will they like me?Now I walk into a room and wonder if I will like them" as you grow older you realize your self worth and what you have to offer. Keep your chin up and smileWell if I like a woman I look at her in the eyes
1. If she holds eye contact - I approach
2. If she holds eye contact and smiles - I approach
3. If she holds eye contact and looks away - I walk away
4. If she holds eye contact and looks up and down - I approach
I like this saying thank you. I know my self worth, I actually have alot going for me...I just dont want to come off as shallow or conceited so I am trying to find the line
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