How do you make someone notice you?

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  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
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    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    chivalryder wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    chivalryder wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    This is me trying to flirt

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    Do or do not. There is no try.

    Just stop thinking about it. If it's meant to happen, it will. By placing such trivial thoughts in your head, you're just wasting energy, making yourself anxious, and making yourself doubt.

    All of the above will never attract a man (or woman, if you're into that).

    Just do you. Besides, 99% of men are *kitten* and you shouldn't even be giving most of them the time of day. The right guy will fall into your lap when the time is right (or not). There isn't a damn thing you can do to change that or to control it.


    Unless you just want to get laid. in which case, just walk into the nearest club, walk up the the closest guy at the bar, tap on his shoulder, grab his hand and pull him out of the club and to your flat.

    Im not looking for a marriage proposal just a kiss god dam lol

    You could stand around a navy base and wait for some officers to come home.

    Just make sure there's a photographer nearby.


    ewwww come one now

    Oh, and wear a nurse outfit.

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  • labohn91
    labohn91 Posts: 113 Member
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    Put your hand on them when you talk to them and move closer to them. If they reciprocate good, if the person repels out the window you have your answer.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
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    Will this event tonight have alcohol?
  • yusaku02
    yusaku02 Posts: 3,476 Member
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    leut_underpants wrote: »
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    borst14 wrote: »
    Carry a cute puppy around with you.

    Two words.

    Teacup Pig

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    ...right now
  • labohn91
    labohn91 Posts: 113 Member
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    [/quote]

    Oh, and wear a nurse outfit.

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    That guy had a girlfriend and that girl was not happy with that kiss.

    http://www.usni.org/magazines/navalhistory/2012-07/story-behind-famous-kiss

  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,206 Member
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    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Will this event tonight have alcohol?

    God I F*****g hope so

  • alpha_515
    alpha_515 Posts: 230 Member
    edited July 2015
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    Well if I like a woman I look at her in the eyes

    1. If she holds eye contact - I approach
    2. If she holds eye contact and smiles - I approach
    3. If she holds eye contact and looks away - I walk away
    4. If she holds eye contact and looks up and down - I approach

  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
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    labohn91 wrote: »

    Oh, and wear a nurse outfit.

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    That guy had a girlfriend and that girl was not happy with that kiss.

    http://www.usni.org/magazines/navalhistory/2012-07/story-behind-famous-kiss

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    It's still a kiss and clearly the woman got the attention of the sailor.

    What more needs to be said?
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,045 Member
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    Are u doing speed dating? Me and my friends sister were planning to just for fun lol
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,206 Member
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    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    Are u doing speed dating? Me and my friends sister were planning to just for fun lol

    Lol id try it if I had a wingman haha
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,045 Member
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    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    Are u doing speed dating? Me and my friends sister were planning to just for fun lol

    Lol id try it if I had a wingman haha

    Memememmemee!
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
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    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Will this event tonight have alcohol?

    God I F*****g hope so

    You might need a flask.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    How do you make someone notice you (without your *kitten* & Boobs hanging out)? Just curious

    People notice physical stuff readily. It is easy, and apparent, and anyone who says they don't is lying. However, being easy on the eyes didn't equate to being noticed for me. I always noticed girls when they performed well at a sport, or if they could carry on interesting conversations and challenge me, or had a passion for something. That took them for being seen for their looks to being noticed for who they are.

    I dunno. Agree on the fart though. It's a good ice breaker.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    VeryKatie wrote: »
    borst14 wrote: »
    Carry a cute puppy around with you.

    OP is already a hottie so no puppy needed.
    The puppy is a hook for average guys to use.
  • EnrgizerBnny
    EnrgizerBnny Posts: 1,082 Member
    edited July 2015
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    Just Be Yourself seems to be the repeating advice and the best advice,
    And Alpha seems to have the approach down so if your sending some signals he may approach you. Just know like others say if he likes you he will find you attractive whichever way you are as long as your being yourself. There is a saying that is so true "I used to walk into a room and wonder will they like me?Now I walk into a room and wonder if I will like them" as you grow older you realize your self worth and what you have to offer. Keep your chin up and smile

    alpha_515 wrote: »
    Well if I like a woman I look at her in the eyes

    1. If she holds eye contact - I approach
    2. If she holds eye contact and smiles - I approach
    3. If she holds eye contact and looks away - I walk away
    4. If she holds eye contact and looks up and down - I approach

  • yusaku02
    yusaku02 Posts: 3,476 Member
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    You need to start by cooking about three and a half pounds of spaghetti while downing brandy like water.
    Next find an outfit with a lot of pockets. You need to fit all the spaghetti in your pockets.
    Go out to the social event where you want to be noticed. You should be pretty drunk at this point.
    Get your object of affection's attention by pelting him with a spaghetti-ball from about 15 feet away. This is called an ice-breaker.
    He's going to be confused and a bit angry. Now is your time to shine. Parrot everything he says while throwing spaghetti into the air, spinning in circles and flapping your arms.
    At this point you should be successfully 'noticed'. If for any reason you don't feel like he knows who you are, sneak up behind him and slip a single strand of spaghetti down the front of his shirt.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    SoDamnHungry wrote: »
    A very long, loud, and awkward fart will make you the focus of the entire room.

    Could be painful if you wait to long...
    https://youtu.be/ZApBEF_mXCw

  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,206 Member
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    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Will this event tonight have alcohol?

    God I F*****g hope so

    You might need a flask.

    I think Ill be making a pit stop before the event
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,206 Member
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    EnrgizerBnny wrote: »
    Just Be Yourself seems to be the repeating advice and the best advice,
    And Alpha seems to have the approach down so if your sending some signals he may approach you. Just know like others say if he likes you he will find you attractive whichever way you are as long as your being yourself. There is a saying that is so true "I used to walk into a room and wonder will they like me?Now I walk into a room and wonder if I will like them" as you grow older you realize your self worth and what you have to offer. Keep your chin up and smile

    alpha_515 wrote: »
    Well if I like a woman I look at her in the eyes

    1. If she holds eye contact - I approach
    2. If she holds eye contact and smiles - I approach
    3. If she holds eye contact and looks away - I walk away
    4. If she holds eye contact and looks up and down - I approach

    I like this saying thank you. I know my self worth, I actually have alot going for me...I just dont want to come off as shallow or conceited so I am trying to find the line

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