Have you ever cheated

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  • TexasBeauty89
    TexasBeauty89 Posts: 61 Member
    Um... mines was complicated. My husband cheated on me with 2 different women so I left him. I met someone else. Husband was NOT having that so he begged and did everything he could to get me back. Someone finally convinced me to give him another chance (even though I was still talking with the other guy). I messed with that guy one time like a day after I let my husband come back... so technically yes I have cheated. After that I decided to REALLY give my husband a chance so I stopped talking to that other guy. That was 3 years ago.
  • bigtone89
    bigtone89 Posts: 104 Member
    wow, well good luck....hopefully no more cheating........
  • TexasBeauty89
    TexasBeauty89 Posts: 61 Member
    bigtone89 wrote: »
    wow, well good luck....hopefully no more cheating........

    I definitely won't. I was faithful to him the 6 years that we were together before I found out he was cheating. I've always been the loyal woman. And I'm in that place again...loyal. Not sure if he is... But I am.

  • bigtone89
    bigtone89 Posts: 104 Member
    Very cool......again, good luck....I know I was joking about Monopoly and I'm a villainous cheater at scrabble, but in a relationship, it can be devastating...wishing you the best
  • WhaleToWench
    WhaleToWench Posts: 13 Member
    Nah, I'm always a firm believer in "if you're not happy, end it". Been cheated on, but according to him we were never "exclusive" - despite the fact he spent practically every night with me and was quick to try and spend my money for a year. So I know that pain and I wouldn't want to inflict it on anyone, especially someone I've claimed to love.
  • bigtone89
    bigtone89 Posts: 104 Member
    Amen sister
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    HawleyGriffin wrote: »
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    I know that feeling
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    leonsinned wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    Is this thread still not shut down? How? Lol
    Why would they shut it down?
    Because look at it
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    leonsinned wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    Is this thread still not shut down? How? Lol
    Why would they shut it down?
    Because look at it

    People are being respectful and there is good open dialogue. There has been mention of religion, but it's been open and respectful as well. There is no need to shut it down unless people start violating the terms of the website.
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    Give it time... :lol:
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Here ya go. Just in case anyone is struggling and needs a bit of encouragement.

    https://youtu.be/RhxELo-uD3c
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    PurringMyrrh wrote: »
    Give it time... :lol:

    Lmao
  • freak4iron
    freak4iron Posts: 995 Member
    Only been cheated on... Not sure if it's my wife or my girlfriend
  • Jessica_L_E
    Jessica_L_E Posts: 1,969 Member
    Yep
  • Chainotthetea
    Chainotthetea Posts: 65 Member
    Yes, long ago
  • emilym820
    emilym820 Posts: 993 Member
    Nope
  • blu_de_ville
    blu_de_ville Posts: 4,296 Member
    freak4iron wrote: »
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    Lmfao
  • selnlou2002
    selnlou2002 Posts: 99 Member
    No
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    I would leave before I ever thought about cheating!!!
  • ruffalicious
    ruffalicious Posts: 779 Member
    VanillaGorillaUK wrote: »
    I caught eyes with a cat the other day, does that count?

    you, cheater you!!!

  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member
    MireyGal76 wrote: »
    asianfashionista86 wrote: »
    I'm gonna go out of the limb and say yes once... Was it wrong yes... Did I regret it yes... Am I glad it happened yes... Because it ruined a already poisonous relationship I would've other wise gotten back into
    It also removed my holier-than-thou judgement goggles and humbled me. I realized that I was not bulletproof, nor was I any better than the next person.


    There's a win right there. You learned something it takes a lot of people a long long time to get.
  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    chrisskellinton wrote: »
    you say cheating like its a bad thing......let's talk about the good aspects. Look at it like this...its like studying and practicing such as training camp gets you ready for gameday with the real opponent.
    Ummmm yeah ... never dating you lol
    freak4iron wrote: »
    Only been cheated on... Not sure if it's my wife or my girlfriend
    I'm sure it's both of them ;)
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    chrisskellinton wrote: »
    you say cheating like its a bad thing......let's talk about the good aspects. Look at it like this...its like studying and practicing such as training camp gets you ready for gameday with the real opponent.

    There are no good aspects of cheating.

  • Sparky_1113
    Sparky_1113 Posts: 2,886 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    There are no good aspects of cheating.
    That depends on your definition of cheating.
    RichardTrenchard wrote: »
    Cheating on a significant other is defined as doing an activity alone that you would not do or confess you did with your other. Therefore if you are simply posting here on these forums and flirting with others but not divulging this or sharing the posts with your partner then you are cheating.


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