Just need to vent

my workplace is super vague too! We have some girls who wear leggings and knee high boots with longer shirts to work and no one says anything, or realllly short beach style dresses... and no one says anything... and one guy who wears ripped tattered khakis every day and the same faded black polo... still nothing. I got in trouble once for not wearing school colors to a meeting. Sorry peeps but I don't like the color red, I really don't think a donor will write me a 20k check instead of a 10K check based on my the fact that a wore a red shirt. ugh. It can be really frustrating. Esp, as a woman I feel like I have to be extra careful to not be too sexy or done up at work, which is a weird feeling.

I really wanted to buy some of those long dress shorts too, but I have always been too scared to wear them at work... it's san diego, I have seen everything from flip flops and salty haired coworkers coming in from pre work surfing to full suits... but really isn't a super ugly suit more of an HR violation than not rocking school colors... bad suits are bad for office morale ;-)

Keep your head up and a good tip is always keep a spare pair of slacks and a spare shirt in your office so you can change in the event of a coffee spill, the butt crack seam of your pants ripping (this really happened to me) or b****y HR interference. Then you can change and just tell your coworkers you spilled something on your pants.

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BWAHAHAHAHAH HAGS!!!

It's simple- you work with some hags who are jealous of how fabulous you look in your shorts. If you catch someone looking your way and eyeing your shorts, make sure and mention that you've lost weight recently...or that you couldn't fit into those shorts previously...or something else that would fill them even more with envy. After all, that's why they reported you in the first place...because they are jealous!

I would also mention something to HR about what the handbook says.

And no, it's not a given that shorts aren't allowed in the workplace. I've worked in finance/banking for years...and I know of several execs wearing shorts.

BWAHAHAHAHAH HAGS!!!

It's simple- you work with some hags who are jealous of how fabulous you look in your shorts. If you catch someone looking your way and eyeing your shorts, make sure and mention that you've lost weight recently...or that you couldn't fit into those shorts previously...or something else that would fill them even more with envy. After all, that's why they reported you in the first place...because they are jealous!

I would also mention something to HR about what the handbook says.

And no, it's not a given that shorts aren't allowed in the workplace. I've worked in finance/banking for years...and I know of several execs wearing shorts.

I don't know if the women are hags, but I am willing to bet that MOST of the workplace complaints about "Hostile Work Environment" comes from women UNDER 35 y.o. Also, as a woman who has been in the workplace, compete with men for positions, women that do not know how to dress appropriately usually do NOT move up the ladder. So WOMEN, you can't have your cake and eat it too, always. Trust Me, someone is ALWAYS watching in Corporate America (I have known of cases where VP's have been walking through and noticed someone at reception chewing gum and have come to Me and said, "The Corporate Image can't tolerate that!") I told the Receptionist that she could not chew gum while meeting the public and please never on the phone. There was nothing in the HR Handbook about that either.

BWAHAHAHAHAH HAGS!!!

It's simple- you work with some hags who are jealous of how fabulous you look in your shorts. If you catch someone looking your way and eyeing your shorts, make sure and mention that you've lost weight recently...or that you couldn't fit into those shorts previously...or something else that would fill them even more with envy. After all, that's why they reported you in the first place...because they are jealous!

I would also mention something to HR about what the handbook says.

And no, it's not a given that shorts aren't allowed in the workplace. I've worked in finance/banking for years...and I know of several execs wearing shorts.

I don't know if the women are hags, but I am willing to bet that MOST of the workplace complaints about "Hostile Work Environment" comes from women UNDER 35 y.o. Also, as a woman who has been in the workplace, compete with men for positions, women that do not know how to dress appropriately usually do NOT move up the ladder. So WOMEN, you can't have your cake and eat it too, always. Trust Me, someone is ALWAYS watching in Corporate America (I have known of cases where VP's have been walking through and noticed someone at reception chewing gum and have come to Me and said, "The Corporate Image can't tolerate that!") I told the Receptionist that she could not chew gum while meeting the public and please never on the phone. There was nothing in the HR Handbook about that either.

The issue here is not so much the length of the shorts (she specified that she checked and they were definitely long enough not to be too revealing) but that they are shorts, I'm guessing the OP can clarify but had she worn a skirt of a similar length on a normal day Mon-Thurs she would not have been reported, it was just the shorts that were offensive. If certain clothing items are not allowed this should be clearly specified to avoid issues. She should not have been reprimanded for wearing something that was not spelled out in the dress code.

as for gum chewing, thats just common sense, no one should be chewing gum in customer facing positions (or even non customer facing, I hate calling into our tech department and listening to those guys chewing!) I have worked in many corporate industries, banking being the most conservative and dress shorts have never been an issue, revealing clothing of course, but if they are of an appropriate length and are dressy rather than casual there should be no issue. Several of the higher VP's in many of the department wore them (honestly if the men can come in golf shorts the women should be able to wear dress shorts!)

Having some experience in HR I would have to agree that shorts are not appropriate for work unless otherwise specified.

This isn't an accurate statement. Dress codes should be specific as to what is not permitted. If it doesn't say no shorts, then shorts are permissible. If they are allowing skirts that are shorter than your shorts and sweat pants, HR's actions could be considered discriminatory.

Just because you dont agree doesnt mean its inaccurate. You have to take into account industries and job positions. There are alot of factors that play into DRESS CODE and I agree with you that dress codes SHOULD be specific, but it doesnt always happen and thus the assumption should always be on the safe side. There are also some common sense elements that play into it. Even if it were casual Friday and you knew you had clients coming, you may not even want to wear jeans (even though you were allowed to) just because you may want to make the best impression on your client.

I do agree that dress codes should be specific but they are not perfect and there will always be employees who abuse them and see how far they can stretch the limits. If a company had to change the manual each and every time another employee came up with ONE more way to bend the rules...they would spend thousands, if not more on revising documents and re-issuing to employees.

I've never worn the long shorts to work (I'm short/overweight and just don't feel like they look well on me) but some of my friends have, and were called down on it by HR. I agree that it's silly, shorts come in many styles, the longer shorts are often even paired with blazers! These aren't shorts that you wear to the beach, these are definitely just as appropriate as a skirt for the office, more business than casual actually-and if you wear stockings with them I'd make you go home for sure girl-that's as bad as socks and sandals in my opinion! : ) Our stuffy HR people also had a beef about capris-I haven't been shopping recently but for a while it was hard for me to even find full length work pants in the summer, what's the big deal about showing your ankles?? Now I work from home and wear my very casual PJ's or very very very casual shorts-so problem solved.

I'm not a fan of dress shorts at all...I think they belong on the golf course. But I don't think they're inappropriate for working in an office on a friday. Seriously, it's CASUAL FRIDAY...I know that means you still have to dress up somewhat, but just above the knee shorts are more appropriate than your boobs hanging out or your way to tight white pants lookin' all nasty.

But there are some dressy-looking shorts out there. They don't have to be casual. Weird.

i agree. you can totally dress shorts up if you have the right pair. i'm sorry you were embarrassed about it. it's not cool