Curios...what is usual the first feature on someone that attracts you?

Smile

I am often attracted to little knickknacks, trinkets, and tchotchkes...although they can create clutter and collect dust. So I like to keep my curios in a cabinet.

Confidence

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Honestly, by far the most important thing for me is how we connect on a mental level. I'm willing to overlook a lot if the person is intriguing / witty / funny. Likewise, flawless physical features are worthless to me if there's just air between the ears.

Facial structure - something about jawline and cheekbones does it for me. Next up...eyes.

Eyes & hands

Nice curves but tight legs and butt

Honestly....age. I find a wide range of women attractive. Slender to thick, blonde to brunette, blue eyes to brown eye...etc. looks due matter because their has to be a physical attraction in the first place. All the guys saying it's strictly personality are lying. Age is important for me. 5-8 years either way is about it. I don't want to raise an 18 yr old and I don't want to live 20 years past a partner. I had a friend marry a hot 38 yr old when he was 21. Now he is 38 and she is 56..... They still love one another but it looks a little weird.

no set thing for me. Although smile, eyes and personality reign supreme

Definitely the smile...my husband's still makes me melt!

mcclelland0484 wrote: »

All the guys saying it's strictly personality are lying.

Nope. I can't speak for everyone else, but honestly a girl isn't even on my radar until we've had a chance to talk. There is no factor more important to me than how compatible we are mentally. A beautiful girl with nothing upstairs is like the Mona Lisa painted on a napkin.