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At what point in your life did you accept who you were and what you wanted out of life?

_John_
_John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
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  • johnnylakis
    johnnylakis Posts: 812 Member
    you first lol
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  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I was about 40. Started to realize I needed direction at about 35. Started making changes soon after. Knew I was on the right path a few years later. I'm 61 now and realize I made all the right choices.
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Still a little unsure! :confused:
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I decided in my teens that once I hit my 20s I'd be happy with who I was. And I was...decided that it was time to no longer be shy and my brother's shadow.
  • Just this year, age 39. It's a liberating feeling!
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    After my husband left me in 2009, I had a nervous breakdown. I checked myself into a hospital. Then I started going to therapy one on one and group therapy. That really helped me a lot. I started living my life for ME. Once I started living for ME, my life became immensely better.
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    A year ago.
  • ashleybreanna13
    ashleybreanna13 Posts: 249 Member
    24 years old. But, I'm sure I'll have another couple break-throughs in my life.
  • moijo1
    moijo1 Posts: 1,214 Member
    i was 6 .. always knew what i wanted and got it.
  • getitamb
    getitamb Posts: 2,019 Member
    I haven't. Just want to be happy and not overwhelmed all the time.
  • llUndecidedll
    llUndecidedll Posts: 724 Member
    I haven't reached that point of acceptance yet.

    I just keep realizing I'll never get what I want out of life. I'm still in a cycle of one step forward, five steps back.
  • jmule24
    jmule24 Posts: 1,382 Member
    hard-life.gif
  • Misshodge64
    Misshodge64 Posts: 8,588 Member
    Im always open for growth and change
  • MrsBooBear
    MrsBooBear Posts: 12,618 Member
    It hasn't fully happened yet. Getting there, though. :smile:
  • meowmeowfitness
    meowmeowfitness Posts: 340 Member
    I'm 21 and I don't even know how to spell my name
  • uggins311
    uggins311 Posts: 2,204 Member
    Still on that journey, pretty sure we all are in some way
  • lushers80
    lushers80 Posts: 397 Member
    Never gonna get there, too many obstacles.
    I would settle for just being happy for a few hours each day to be honest
  • PurringMyrrh
    PurringMyrrh Posts: 5,276 Member
    I haven't reached that point of acceptance yet.

    I just keep realizing I'll never get what I want out of life. I'm still in a cycle of one step forward, five steps back.

    This.
    lushers80 wrote: »
    Never gonna get there, too many obstacles.
    I would settle for just being happy for a few hours each day to be honest

    And this. Especially this.
  • 19gabriela01
    19gabriela01 Posts: 2,090 Member
    edited October 2015
    I had point in my life when I was happier I could be. But then.... it's hard to keep being positive when dragged down with depression. I know what I would want and who I am. It is just hell of a work on myself first.
  • bakerfifty1
    bakerfifty1 Posts: 53 Member
    About an hour ago
  • summerdaze120
    summerdaze120 Posts: 425 Member
    When my mom was diagnosed with cancer.
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    I'm still trying to decide
  • jennmpantoja
    jennmpantoja Posts: 1,080 Member
    I know it sounds stupid to people to say this, but don't really care. When I gave my life over to God, I noticed so many great changes, but so many battles at the same time. I let go of my issues with my ex, my father, the fact that I lost my job (eventually I got a better one), and then now seeing the great changes to my health because of finally taking control of how I am living. It's been the best experience and I pray that 2016 and me turning 35 will be even a better year.
  • PTSDUK
    PTSDUK Posts: 276 Member
    Some of you guys may remember me, some may not. I have recently being diagnosed as suffering from PTSD. Which in some respects is a relief as i'm now getting the support l need.

    Based in the UK, looking for friends, new and old
  • gman6464
    gman6464 Posts: 222 Member
    still evolving
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